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Friendship and friendship between combat opponents

Friendship and friendship between combat opponents

The Caucasus, at first glance, could not become the birthplace of such a deep tradition with enormous social subtext as kunachism. Too many wars and contradictions rush over these mountains, peoples speak too different languages ​​to become the ground for the cultivation of a tradition that puts friendship on a par with kinship, if not higher. But, perhaps, despite the obvious paradox, that is why in the Caucasus, kunachism appeared as a thin but strong thread between different villages, villages and entire nations. If you rise above the personal level, then kunachstvo becomes an interethnic instrument, which, however, with a sin in half, but sometimes worked. The custom itself does not give in to dating. At least he is over five hundred years old.

How did they become kunaks?

It is generally accepted that kunachism is a kind of deep modernization of hospitality, but this judgment is too simplistic and does not reflect all the contrasting realities of the Caucasus. Of course, a guest could become a kunak, but life is more complicated. They became kunaks after joint wanderings, they became people close in spirit or status. Sometimes even the outstanding warriors from the warring camps, learning about the rumor hovering about them among the people, met in a secret meeting with each other and, subject to sympathy, became kunaks. A simple person from the street in kunaki would never have crammed, because with this title a whole range of responsible duties was acquired.

It is worth mentioning, of course, that “kunak” in translation from Turkic means “guest”. But the Vainakh peoples have a very consonant concept of “konakh”, meaning “worthy man”. And a guest can not always be worthy, therefore, kunak is deeper than the custom of hospitality.

When the two men decided to become kunaks, then, of course, this arrangement was verbal. However, kunakism itself was held together by a certain rite, which among different ethnic groups had some of its own nuances, but the overall picture was similar. Kunaki took a cup of milk, wine or beer, which, for example, was sacred among Ossetians, and swore before God to be faithful friends and brothers. Sometimes a silver or gold coin was thrown into the bowl as a sign that their brotherhood would never rust.

Duties and privileges of the kunaks

Kunaki until the end of life were obliged to protect each other and support. And just in defense and reveals the deep meaning of kunachstva. If a simple guest was protected by the owner only at his home, then the kunak could count on the help of a friend at any time of the day or night and in any land in which fate would throw him. That is why, if anyone was hunting kunak, then it was more convenient to slaughter him on a mountain road, because if he were in a friend’s house, the enemy would have to storm the whole house. From here, by the way, is one of the mountain sayings: "A friend in a foreign land is a reliable fortress."

Wealthy highlanders always attached a special room to their houses, the so-called kunatskaya, where a dear friend was always waiting for a clean, dry bed and a hot lunch (breakfast, dinner) at any time of the day. For some nations, it was customary to leave a portion separately for dinner or lunch in case of the arrival of kunak. Moreover, if the means allowed, just in case they kept a set of outerwear for kunak.

Of course, the kunaki exchanged gifts. It was even a kind of competition, everyone tried to present a more refined gift. The presence of kunaks at all celebrations of the family was mandatory, wherever they were. The Kunak families were also close to each other. This was emphasized by the fact that in the event of the death of one of the kunaks, depending on the circumstances, his friend was obliged to take the family of the deceased into custody and protection. Sometimes kunachstvo was inherited. At this moment, the Kunak families practically merged into one family.

Kunachestvo as an Institute of Interethnic Communication

In the war and strife, everlasting in the Caucasus, kunachism was a unique phenomenon of interethnic and even trade relations. Kunaki could act as a kind of diplomats, sales agents and bodyguards. After all, a good responsible kunak escorted a friend not only to the borders of his village, but sometimes because of the need, straight to the next friendly village. And the prosperous highlanders had many kunaks. In difficult conditions of civil strife, such relations were a kind of security points.

For example, almost until the middle of the 19th century, i.e. Before the official end of the Caucasian War, Armenian merchants used exactly the same kunatsky network during long crossings through the Caucasus Mountains with convoys of their goods. Kunaki met them on the way to the village or village and escorted to the borders of the next friendly village. Ossetians, Vainakhs, and Circassians used such connections ...

And, of course, dear guests from distant lands were always seated at a rich table. And since in those days no one had ever heard of any clubs and other public institutions, the kunak feast attracted the whole village to find out news, look at the goods, and perhaps, to establish friendships themselves.

Famous Russian Kunaki

Kunachestvo was deeply reflected not only in the folklore of the peoples of the Caucasus, but also in classical Russian literature. For example, the great Russian poet Mikhail Lermontov, who served in the Caucasus, after a bloody battle near the Valerik River, wrote the poem of the same name “Valerik”:

Galub interrupted my dream
Hit on the shoulder; he was
My kunak: I asked him
How is this place named?
He answered me: Valerik,
And translate into your language,
So there will be a river of death: right,
Given by ancient people.

Seismism was reflected in Lermontov’s novel “Hero of Our Time”:

About six miles from the fortress there lived one peaceful prince ... Once the old prince himself arrives to call us for a wedding: he gave the eldest daughter to marry, and we were kunaki: you cannot refuse, you know, even though he is a Tatar.

Here are reflected and the strict mandatory observance of the unspoken laws of kunachism, and the interethnic nature of this tradition. It is also worth considering that Lermontov himself wrote about this, which was a kunak to many highlanders. By the way, this can partly explain the fact that the military officer, veteran Valerika periodically left the camp, leaving for distant villages, and returned safe and sound.

Leo Tolstoy during a service in the Caucasus

Another equally famous kunak was the brilliant writer Leo Tolstoy, who came to the Caucasus in 1851 with the rank of cadet of the 4th battery of the 20th artillery brigade. After some time, being on the Terek, the young cunker became friends with a Chechen named Sado. Friendship was secured by a kunatsk oath. Since then, Sado has become indispensable for the young Leo. He repeatedly saved the writer’s life, helped in heavy army service, and once he played the money recklessly lost by Tolstoy in cards.

Equality on opposite sides of the front

Despite the raging Caucasian war, kunak relations quickly ensued between the Russians and the highlanders. Even on the banks of the Terek, where Cossack villages and villages stood across the river, kunaki, catching a moment of calm, went to visit. These unspoken relations by the authorities were hardly suppressed, because they were another channel for exchanging information and building diplomatic bridges. The Highlanders came to the villages, and the Russians to the villages.

One of the most tragic and therefore noteworthy examples of kunachism was the friendship of the centurion Andrei Leontyevich Grechishkin and the senior prince of the Temirgoy tribe Dzhembulat (Dzhambulat). Andrei, who grew up in the family of a linear Cossack in the village of Tiflis (now Tbilisskaya), had already earned the respect of his older comrades at a young age, and his rumor was carried with reverence. On the other side of the Caucasian cordon line, the fame of Prince Djembulat, who was considered the best warrior of the North Caucasus, was booming.

When rumors of a young and brave centurion Grechishkin came to Dzhembulat, he decided to meet his enemy personally. Again, through the kunaks, scouts and secret communication channels, we managed to arrange a meeting in the swampy and secret places of the Kuban River. Two courageous people, after a short conversation, as they say, penetrated. Soon they became kunaks. Grechishkin and Dzhembulat secretly went to visit each other, exchanged gifts on Christian and Muslim holidays, while remaining implacable enemies on the battlefield. Friends shared everything except politics and service. At the same time, everyone in the camp of the Temirgoyevites and the Cossack army knew about this friendship, but no one dared to reproach them.

Monument to the centurion Andrei Grechishkin

In 1829, reports spread along the Caucasian line that a large mountain detachment was preparing a raid on the Cossack villages. Location information was extremely small. Therefore, on September 14, Lieutenant Colonel Vassmund ordered the centurion Grechishkin with fifty Cossacks to conduct reconnaissance on the other side of the Kuban. On the same day, fifty performed. Then no one knew that the Cossacks saw the good centurion for the last time.

In the area of ​​the modern Peschany farm on the 2nd Zelenchuk River, Grechishkin’s detachment ran into six hundred horsemen under the Temirgoy badges. Having barely managed to send one Cossack with intelligence data, the centurion with the rest was surrounded and was forced to accept a suicidal battle. But the first attack of the Highlanders choked. Therefore, Djembulat, who valued courage, ordered to find out who was the senior of this detachment. What was his amazement when he heard the native voice of Andrei Kunak.

Dzembulat immediately invited him to surrender. The centurion lamented that it was time for the kunak to know that the hereditary ruler would never do this. The prince agreed and nodded somewhat bashfully. Returning to his camp, Dzhembulat began to convince his elders to leave the Cossack detachment alone, since there would be no profit from them, and military fame could not be won with such and such forces. But embittered highlanders began to rebuke the prince that he dared to succumb to his feelings.

As a result, Prince Djembulat himself was the first to rush into the next attack. In the first minutes of the assault, Dzhembulat was seriously wounded, and he was carried in his arms from the battlefield. The vengeful warriors of the prince hacked Grechishkin beyond recognition, but the raid by that time was already doomed. Neither military glory nor profit, as Dzembulat predicted, the Temirgoyites did not find that September. It was as if the sin of breaking a noble tradition had cursed that campaign of the highlanders.
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  1. Mitroha
    Mitroha April 3 2020 05: 57 New
    Thank you Informative article
  2. Talgarets
    Talgarets April 3 2020 06: 56 New

    kunaki in love jigit laughing
    1. andrewkor
      andrewkor April 3 2020 07: 04 New
      Ha ha ha ha! The same thought, classic!
      1. Basil50
        Basil50 April 3 2020 08: 32 New
        You're right. The film shows the real * kunatchestvo *.
        Of course you can relate to this with a romantic flair, but the reality is somewhat different.
        I don’t know how it was * before *, but judging by the * present * times, the romance of kunatism-sisterhood is just a dream at least about something human.
        Tested in my own skin. It is very rare that anyone respects at least decency, the impression is that decent people were purposefully destroyed by their own kindred.
        1. polar fox
          polar fox April 3 2020 13: 16 New
          Quote: Vasily50
          but judging by the * present * times, the romance of kunatism-sisterhood is just a dream of at least something human.

          I don’t agree ... there is it now. It’s just that they don’t advertise it ... operas often see this.
    2. Butchcassidy
      Butchcassidy April 3 2020 08: 38 New
      Bambarbiya! Kergood!
  3. Butchcassidy
    Butchcassidy April 3 2020 08: 36 New
    A very good article.
    1. cost
      cost April 4 2020 09: 10 New
      Автор забыл упомянуть о таком факте. Личное куначество часто перерастало в семейное и потомственное. Семьи, чьи деды-прадеды были кунаками,продолжали поддерживать дружеские отношения - посылали друг другу подарки на праздники, обязательно передавли приветы, принимали взаимное участие в свадьбах и поминках. Хорошо об этом описано у А.Губина в его романе "Молоко волчицы".
      And my clan has such a familiar Kabardian clan. Who exactly of our ancestors was the kunaks no one remembers, we are not them. But in commemoration and weddings we traditionally invite each other.
  4. AAK
    AAK April 3 2020 10: 27 New
    Как-то в юности читал повесть "Святой Илиа горы Тбау", два главных героя - кунаки осетин и ингуш
  5. faterdom
    faterdom April 3 2020 12: 57 New
    Лермонтов вообще был во многом загадочный человек, прямо "Джекил и мистер Хайд" в одном флаконе. Одновременно для многих несносный, и также для многих обаятельный и достойный (у горцев тут звериное чутье, и "левого" человека, хитрого, лживого и трусоватого кунаком никто назвать не захочет).
    But as a poet - a genius, and having lived such a short stormy life (10 years less than the short life of Pushkin), how much he had not yet told us - God knows ...
  6. Assyrian
    Assyrian April 3 2020 14: 29 New
    Thanks to the author! As always on top!
    At the end of the distant 70s, a letter came to parents describing how in the distant 20s the Assyrian (my grandfather) and the Cossack became kunaks. The son of a Cossack, Uncle Kolya and his wife, were invited to visit. He was a working machine operator in Serpukhov, a native of the neighboring village of Konstantinovskaya. He talked a lot about the relationships between our ancestors, how they were friends, the sincerity and friendship of families was such that sometimes there are no relatives. For several years in a row they came to visit us for the summer, corresponded while they were alive.
    I wonder where did these human relationships go, of such a high standard?
  7. WayKheThuo
    WayKheThuo April 3 2020 15: 36 New
    The article is wonderful - thanks.
    It is interesting how old traditions are slowly but inevitably withering away under the pressure of the technological development of society.
    The author correctly noted that kunakism emerged as a kind of social instrument, giving at least some opportunity for a peaceful resolution of issues during tribal wars, establishing horizontal ties between the most prominent representatives of various tribes, establishing informational and diplomatic contacts even between blood enemies.
    And so, wars cease, there is no need for a person to fight for survival and little by little disappears physical the need for friends who cover their backs, in a family that provides protection, in children who will feed you when you are not able to hold your sword / stand behind the counter / work on the ground. And all these, certainly basic needs, flow from the physical need в social need, которая обусловлена, в первую очередь, взглядом человека на жизнь, его воспитанием, жизненным опытом. Конечно, динамика обособления, очень растянута во времени, ибо любое общество очень инерционно, но, как говорится, "процесс пошёл".
    Страны Запада продвинулись по пути атомизации человеков наиболее далеко, ровно настолько, насколько оторвались от нас технологически и социально. Что же мы видим? С одной стороны, шикарная фраза, услышанная мною в одном из фильмов: "Семья? Продай мне этот проект!", а с другой, выведение семьи и друзей из области обязательных для выживания социальных институтов, возможно, делает оные более крепкими, что ли, ибо в основе лежат именно духовные потребности в дружбе, любви, взаимопомощи. И в этом смысле, возможно, так называемый "кризис" семьи, о котором много говорят, и который безусловно имеет место быть, следует считать перерождением семьи и, шире, человеческих отношений на базе нового технологического уклада.
    I think so.
  8. WayKheThuo
    WayKheThuo April 3 2020 15: 41 New
    Кстати, вопрос, а как можно "плюсануть" автора статьи?
    Под статьёй звездочка, наведёшь на неё, всплывает надпись "Важно" - это и есть "плюсовалка"?
  9. Corrie sanders
    Corrie sanders April 4 2020 00: 16 New
    this article again echoes the sad story about the post of St. George - again, the overwhelming minority left excellent people, guaranteed to determine their death from a numerous and cruel enemy. Again, no intelligence was conducted and the headquarters of the Caucasian army did not know what was happening behind the nearest hill. Although there’s a centurion - at the same time at the Danube Theater, at night, the Turks took the headquarters of the brigade with General Wrede by surprise, and under their cover began to make their way to the headquarters of the division. At the last minute, General Wrede screamed and warned his people, sacrificing their lives. [Lukyanovich N.A. Description of the Turkish War of 1828 and 1829. St. Petersburg. 1844.]
  10. Mikhail3
    Mikhail3 April 4 2020 11: 53 New
    Что такое "кавказские горские народы"? В своем основном выражении - это бандитские общины, поднявшиеся в горы повыше, чтобы обеспечить себе определенную недосягаемость от ограбленных. Как морские бандиты, викинги, укрывшиеся в паутине гнилых фьордов, откуда не выковырять, так и бандитские шайки горцев селились как можно выше, уходя от мести за ограбления и убийства туда, где среди горных троп чрезвычайно сложно догнать их и наказать. Собственно говоря, чем выше кишлак, тем подлее и кровавее бандиты, которые его заложили.
    Однако, все общины, принявшие как основу жизнедеятельности грабеж окружающих, горцы сталкивались с комплексом проблем, свойственных такому общественному устройству. Главнейшая же из этих проблема в том, что бандит - всегда бандит. Если ты живешь тем, что потрошишь "равнинных", отчего бы не выпотрошить соседа? Ограбил, вырезал семью, рабов продал, все хорошо! А через недельку тебя самого того... ограбили и вырезали.
    Somehow, all this turned back sadly for the mountaineers, seemingly jubilant from the merry robbery.
    It was necessary to develop mechanisms by which it would be possible to kill and rob the plains further, but at the same time sleep more or less calmly at home. Of course, the habit of cutting one’s own and cleaning their property in their favor cannot be eradicated, but one must at least reduce the level of threat!
    Первым методом ограничения стала кровная месть. Надо было позаботиться, чтобы были уничтожены все представители "враждебного" (предназначенного к ограблению) рода, иначе над головами твоих родичей повисал меч, который совершенно неожиданно мог в любой момент ударить. Поэтому большая, разветвленная, живущая во многих местах семья являлась неплохим подспорьем в выживании.
    Затем появились "нерушимые обычаи". Обычаи не были нерушимыми, конечно. Но за их нарушение многим (тем кто послабее) грозили нешуточные проблемы, таким образом удалось частично снизить риск от наглых выскочек, пытающихся выдвинуться при помощи лихих наскоков на своих. "Старые и уважаемые" роды теперь могли жесточайше наказывать таких отморозков вроде бы как "законно", при одобрении общины. И это снижало уровень угроз.
    Отдельно следует отметить "обычаи гостеприимства". Естественной добычей в горах являются все, кто передвигаются по транспортным путям куда бы то ни было без внушительной охраны. Отчего бы потомственным экспроприаторам не чистить дороги круглосуточно? Да, но так все с голоду загнутся! И вообще никакая экономическая деятельность невозможна, а ее приходится все же вести, да хотя бы награбленное продавать! Ну и вот тут пришлось организовать это самое "гостеприимство". Чтобы гость мог быть уверен, что его ночью хозяин не прирежет за пряжку на поясе. Или его туркам в рабство не продадут. Оттого все это "гостеприимство" такое пышное и театральное. Вынужденное потому что...
    Ну и куначество. Привлечь к защите рода посторонних, живущих бог знает где, крутых, боеспособных, при этом готовых прискакать из своего далека, для помощи в отражении угрозы, а так же и для мести - ну что может быть лучше?! Соседи точно поостерегутся... Вот и устраивались пиры, где собирались кунаки явно, и "братались" тайно. У него много кунаков. Сто раз подумаешь, прежде чем его грабить!
    Поговори откровенно с любым кавказцем, поверни разговор, и обязательно услышишь - "ну что это за мужчина, даже награбить для семьи не может!" Такая вот красивая история...
  11. Black Colonel
    Black Colonel April 5 2020 09: 59 New
    As they say, they don’t choose relatives whether they are good or bad. And they choose friends. So kunakstvo is much stronger and more sincere than kindred.
  12. Vladimir SHajkin
    Vladimir SHajkin April 6 2020 01: 33 New
    Well, a noble and necessary tradition now.