Military Review

Grandchildren

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Think over serious decisions not only in space, but also in time. It happens that a normal solution seems to be complete nonsense a few years later. And all just had to - just think! This rule came to me after thirty years. One thing is reassuring: it is difficult for some to think over how the change in space will affect, ten meters from the place of change.




In making a serious decision, think through a possible negative result and how to neutralize it. In this case, the anti-law of the sandwich is sure to work - when falling, the oil will be at the top, trouble will not come. If I applied this rule, everything went fine. And it happened that at 100% I was sure, because the thing is simple, you don’t need to be insured, but his majesty case must have tripped.

Periodically analyze your actions. Be calm about criticism. Of course, criticism is unpleasant. But on the other hand, it is the best way to prevent food from being processed by sparrows. Criticism, as well as self-criticism, is a kind of feedback (one of the foundations of the control system), without which even the most beautiful system stops or goes down in time. But do not bend the stick in the form of permanent samoedstvo. Not bad sometimes admit their mistakes in public. At first, people will be surprised. Then they will understand that you are honest. People value justice more than you are smart. At the factory, I used to do something bad to others. You walk around the shop and see one abnormality, another; inside accumulates. The cup of patience is overflowing, and you give everything to one. Then you feel like a bastard, trying to fix it. So, it turned out, I was more respected for the ability to admit my stupidity and for praise to others than for many new things in production.

My mother used to say: “Skinny work is like stealing.” Do any business in such a way that it is not a shame for yourself. I was up to forty years tormented by the question: do I not get more than I give? Measure what you get with what you do; be afraid to get more. What about money, what about relationships with people. If you get more, it's like stealing. Know that there are many supporters of the social-Darwinian principles of "who dared, he ate" and "who got up earlier, that and sneakers." These statements are from the evil one; they simply disguise theft.

If you do not know what to do, do what is done in a decent society. Fighting is necessary - so fight, even with a strong one. You have to apologize to the enemy - apologize, even in public. Similarly in production. It happened that a number of correct actions led to stupidity at work, and in this case I was helped to start from the beginning and to act according to the instructions. Do not show your creativity for no reason or on the little things. It is now accepted to bulge yourself. I think this is not good. Better to be than to seem!

Try to be an expert in your field and try to work with experts. It is harder to work with them, but more interesting, including from the point of view of their own perspectives. In friends, superiors, subordinates, it is better to have a partial middle peasant than a nihilistic genius. Do not be a nagger and do not work with a nagger boss. Basically, they are caring for those who fear their place. But distinguish a cavil and pull you up to your level and higher.

A friend and girlfriend must first be kind to you, and you to them. Napoleon put it very succinctly on this topic. When asked about his wives, Josephine and Marie-Louise, he replied: "A beautiful wife is a jewel, and a good wife is a treasure." By good he meant Josephine. In the relationship of man and woman - one love? This is not enough! Even one kindness is much better. Conclusion: the closest person is the mother. I blame myself for not paying enough attention to my mother.

For a real man, a child, a woman, and a homeland are the core values ​​that justify his life. It developed from the desire to preserve its cave, its clan, its tribe, etc.

If your friend is not alone, and in public, makes fun of you, then he is not a friend. If your friend alone does not condemn your excess (egoism, inattention to others, etc.), then he is not a friend.

Train your brains and muscles. Both are well developed in youth. The statement that it is impossible to be at the same time a good specialist in music (literature), physics (astronomy) and weightlifting (biathlon), I consider wrong. Man is an interesting creature. He gradually gets used to everything and achieves everything. I was good at understanding very complex things in parts. There were problems with foreign languages, but this is most likely due to weak teachers. For example, I did not understand and did not like chemistry, considering it uninteresting, illogical. But it came to the university: it is wonderful, logical, interesting, and this is thanks to the teachers.

Treat the old as a great reference material. Figuratively speaking, the old people have little digital thinking, but perfectly analog. They have seen a lot and can quickly remember what ended up like, or think out how it can end. Simply put, wisdom is a fusion of intelligence with experience. But it happens that old age comes along with marasmus ...

Justice in any business is like happiness or truth. Absolute and concrete does not happen, but it is necessary to strive.

The truth is between extreme opinions and a little apart, and closer to the facts. Often to the facts that we do not like.

Do good just like that. I made sure that the good often returns to those who make it to others. Although there are freeloaders: everything for themselves, but nothing for others. So - a donut hole. In relations with others, healthy pragmatism is necessary: ​​if you are an egoist, they will turn away from you; if you do everything for others, they will ride you. I did something ...

With large deviations (especially with large ones and when it concerns you) from the normal course of things in life, deeds, yes anywhere, apply several factors opposing the deviations at the same time. It is then figure out what helped and what did not. The control action should be no less than the one that led to the deviation. This is also from the science of management. But be able to share something when it touches you, when it doesn’t concern you, or when you are “ripped off”. Now enough skilled craftsmen, raking in the heat of someone else's hands. Previously, they were considered egoists-scoundrels, and now they are called successful managers and great PR specialists. A critical attitude to both promises to easily reach, and to statements that it is supposedly or that, it is impossible to change.

Don't be fooled. This is when the petty provoke a statement that you weakly do this or that foolishness. Do not give in to the law of the crowd (this is when an initiative bastard successfully provokes many people to be mean).

There are wonderful rules in science and life:

1. The hypothesis explaining the known facts becomes a theory. For example, I rightly believe that Russia is very much like an eyesore. Including fear of repetition of the socialist experiment to establish justice.

2. If it is not clearly explained to a moderately educated person (for example, in tongue-tied or obscure terms, or references to unknown sources, or statements like “everybody knows”), the explanatory person either does not understand the subject, or deceives. For example, I believe that a moderately educated person will fully understand the basics of quantum physics, explained by a good teacher. I also see that the economic policy in the country is wicked in terms of statements that our gold and currency must be in the West, and we have to wait for investments from there. And we are told that otherwise we shall drink, that the divergent uncle fluctuations in the imaginary region are inverted on the northern backs of the imaginary hyperons of Alpha Centauri, that everyone is doing this, and similar nonsense.

The most important, basic industries and professions are security (the armed forces, law enforcement agencies), education and training (starting with the nursery in kindergarten), health protection (starting with the nurse in the hospital). The following - the production of food, clothing, housing. Then heavy industry, transportation, etc. But not everything is so simple and straightforward. For example, bad journalism is like a selling thing, and very good is rising to educational heights. Unfortunately, on Earth, the average figlar is considered higher than a good doctor ...

Respect those who do. There is an opportunity to do a good thing, a good thing - do it. Bernard Shaw rightly said that even the greatest virtues do not atone for the sin of consumption without participation in production.
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  1. Nonna
    Nonna 23 January 2016 06: 43
    +1
    a long set of words - the author, apparently a pensioner of a new pattern - behind this blah blah blah there is not a single idea - neither socialist nor patriotic
    1. quote
      quote 23 January 2016 06: 57
      60
      Quote: Nonna
      there is no idea - neither socialist nor patriotic

      The author has one idea, "human". And he wrote it right.
      1. gergi
        gergi 23 January 2016 07: 30
        -31 qualifying.
        True, long and tedious. But right. Longing, in short.
        1. Tatyana
          Tatyana 23 January 2016 09: 16
          30
          I liked the article. It has a lot of things from science, which is called "personality psychology." I generally love such knowledge in psychology.
          Indeed, if you want to not be manipulated by you - study people and yourself too. Understand your personal abilities. This is generally for every person a very useful thing in life. It protects from many troubles, makes a person successful and happy, and, besides, the burden of an unclean conscience at the end of life does not put a stone on the heart, because life was managed to live in a good and fair manner. And people will always remember in such a bright way about such a person.
          Here the most important thing is that, as they say, it is necessary to preserve honor from a young age, and the rest with this self-education will itself follow. The main thing is not to miss self-improvement on time.

          To author +
        2. gergi
          gergi 23 January 2016 13: 40
          -4
          Well, what are you minus? If you get so sick of children, they will stop hearing you on the second note. Well, if not sent. It is necessary to do the same, but briefly, interestingly, with a twinkle and with humor. What would hit the brains. And then, boo boo boo.
          1. Velikoruss
            Velikoruss 24 January 2016 19: 39
            +5
            Well, what are you minus? If you get so sick of children, they will stop hearing you on the second note. Well, if not sent. It is necessary to do the same, but briefly, interestingly, with a twinkle and with humor. What would hit the brains.

            Uh-huh, and ISTCHO is better in comics and, of course, in a bundle with GMO popcorn and Coca-Cola. Do you know why it is difficult to fight Islamic extremists? Because they learned their dogmas from their young nails from their fathers and grandfathers with the utmost respect. Respect for the words of elders in the East is instilled in children from birth. And to transfer this experience to descendants, the local elders do not jump in front of them like bunnies. And the scattered attention syndrome is often corrected with a stupid stick. Moreover, the "correction" is accepted with gratitude. Exaggerating a little, but the essence of my "boo-boo-boo", I hope you get it.
            To the author "+", approval and respect. And some thoughts made me think too, although I am no longer a youth. Thanks!
        3. Kombrig
          Kombrig 23 January 2016 17: 23
          +3
          Quote: gergi
          True, long and tedious. But right. Longing, in short.



          Prefer in the form of a comic book of four pictures?
      2. Riv
        Riv 23 January 2016 07: 47
        -46 qualifying.
        Human ideas? Looks going to die soon ...
        1. SRC P-15
          SRC P-15 23 January 2016 09: 07
          +9
          Greetings, Alexander!
          Article plus, but it seems to me that you need to live by the principle (I don't remember who said): "Do what you must and be what will be!"
          1. PPL
            PPL 24 January 2016 22: 29
            0
            Quote: SRC P-15
            ... (I don't remember who said): "Do what you must and be what will be!"


            The true history of the phrase, which is currently considered a common aphorism, is not fully known. lol
        2. meriem1
          meriem1 24 January 2016 07: 23
          +2
          Quote: Riv
          Human ideas? Looks going to die soon ...

          It is happiness when you are not afraid to die at any moment, if you live as it is written !!! And Than Human ideas are bad ??? Better to thump and gaggle? Thoughts and assessments change over time. And this is good!
    2. dmi.pris
      dmi.pris 23 January 2016 06: 59
      +2
      Well, if every day he says this to his grandson, he will soon either go nuts or send his grandfather to hell .. Words should be simple .. Love your Motherland, honor your parents, work honestly ..
      1. Vladimir73
        Vladimir73 23 January 2016 07: 13
        38
        Quote: dmi.pris
        Well, if every day he tells his grandson,


        And every day and do not. One or two conversations, and the rest of the conversations are simply in the outline of this .... By their own actions and short reminders to stimulate (to be an example) in order to go through life in this direction.

        The article, as a message to the grandchildren, is kind and good written by a WISE man.
        1. Will
          Will 23 January 2016 07: 40
          10
          The main thing is to speak at the time and place. Then it is definitely remembered.)
          1. Locksmith
            Locksmith 23 January 2016 22: 47
            0
            Quote: Will
            The main thing is to speak at the time and place. Then it is definitely remembered.)

            yeah, especially when they can’t argue, such as dying.
            Or when there is no time to object, it’s necessary to act, rather than talk. wink
            Everything needs a measure, but not every measure will suit you. laughing
        2. _my opinion
          _my opinion 23 January 2016 18: 32
          +2
          Quote: Vladimir73
          Quote: dmi.pris
          Well, if every day he tells his grandson,


          And every day and do not. One or two conversations, and the rest of the conversations are simply in the outline of this .... By their own actions and short reminders to stimulate (to be an example) in order to go through life in this direction.

          The article, as a message to the grandchildren, is kind and good written by a WISE man.

          I agree with you - it is by deeds, and not by moralizing, that a person is brought up ... a good word, not supported by deed, can fly into one ear and fly from the other. Saying the right thing is one thing, and following it is another.
      2. Will
        Will 23 January 2016 07: 39
        +3
        Even a criminal in prison claims to love his mother. And if he loves, how did he come to the crime? If you do not know how to think, we will "think up" a lot either to the village or to the city. wink
      3. Darkness
        Darkness 23 January 2016 08: 30
        +8
        Is it possible to honestly work under capitalism?
      4. PHANTOM-AS
        PHANTOM-AS 23 January 2016 12: 49
        +5
        It seemed to me that this was not a message to my grandchildren, but a summing up of some life results.
        After all, childhood, and most importantly adolescence and adolescence, is the time for "stuffing" your own bumps, when least of all you listen to boring and long instructions from the older generation.
        And in his article, the author only confirms this from his own experience.
        Apparently, we are with the author of one generation, so the article is very consonant with my own thoughts on this, it is easy to read.
        In general article +! good
    3. matross
      matross 23 January 2016 07: 03
      +5
      As the author himself correctly noted, "... it happens that old age comes along with insanity."
      1. yuriy55
        yuriy55 23 January 2016 07: 26
        +9
        Quote: matRoss
        As the author himself correctly noted, "... it happens that old age comes along with insanity."


        Really funny !!! fellow

        However, the author’s words:
        And I also see that economic policy in the country is guilty of sabotage regarding claims that our gold and foreign currency should be in the West, and we must wait for investments from there.

        make you doubt that everyone who evaluates reads articles, and does not PR in front of each other, confusing "tsya" and "tsya" ... winked
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    5. Hagalaz
      Hagalaz 23 January 2016 07: 22
      +6
      "Teach better than your spiders ..."? There is really no idea behind this blah blah blah. This is a direct guide to action. You just need to realize. But blah blah will take on a specific meaning just by the age of forty))). Everything has its time, this is how the world works.
      You have the word pensioner sounds like a survivor of the mind, but you, in turn, are a storehouse of wisdom and knowledge))). No offense.
    6. Will
      Will 23 January 2016 07: 36
      +1
      There is an image of a man of the future.
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    8. Vasily Krylov
      Vasily Krylov 23 January 2016 13: 57
      0
      And you, sir, are apparently very young. Plus to the author.
  2. Same lech
    Same lech 23 January 2016 06: 48
    +5
    a long set of words - the author, apparently a pensioner of a new pattern - behind this blah blah blah there is not a single idea - neither socialist nor patriotic

    The state needs ideology ... smile
    Coming home after hard work, I wonder how you will behave if your wife or husband meets you instead of lunch with quotes and slogans of an ideological and socialist orientation.
    Instead of a kind word, he will call you an opportunist or an enemy of the people in the mood if you don’t give your salary to her or him.

    Everything should be in moderation.
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  3. rotmistr60
    rotmistr60 23 January 2016 06: 48
    16
    The author wrote a whole code of conduct, which in Soviet times was instilled in childhood by parents, school, and the army. All this is very correct, but there is one BUT. A part of modern youth not burdened with a sense of justice, collectivism, if you want patriotism, skips such instructions past themselves, and often going against them. When a personal good has become a society in the first place, it is difficult to explain the elementary norms of human behavior in society. The 90s will have a long impact.
    1. Vladimir73
      Vladimir73 23 January 2016 07: 18
      +8
      But if you do not explain, then these norms will not appear ... and if they do, then through pain, blood, deprivation ... Who would wish this to grandchildren? They will understand. Remember yourself - for sure there was a moment in life when faced with which he said to himself: "But people were right, in vain he did not obey ..." and in the future they did not allow or tried to prevent a repetition of such a situation?
      1. rotmistr60
        rotmistr60 23 January 2016 08: 15
        +1
        Did I write that there is no need to explain?
        All this is very correct.
        1. Vladimir73
          Vladimir73 23 January 2016 09: 59
          +1
          Quote: rotmistr60
          but there is one BUT. A part of modern youth not burdened with a sense of justice, collectivism, if you want patriotism, skips such instructions past themselves, and often going against them. When a personal good has become a society in the first place, it is difficult to explain the elementary norms of human behavior in society. The 90s will have a long impact.


          Quote: rotmistr60
          Did I write that there is no need to explain?


          Sorry if offended, BUT I just answered YOUR "BUT". It's just that now I myself am faced with the fact that young people are sincerely trying to find themselves, and what our family, school, army, etc. gave us. they have to change themselves on their own, contrary to the attitudes from the philistine "their own shirt is closer to the body", "man is a wolf to man", etc. They do not want to be just a food processor into shit, they are looking for meaning in their lives. It's just that this requires besides desire and effort, and not everyone is ready to go down this path ...
          1. rotmistr60
            rotmistr60 23 January 2016 10: 20
            +1
            You did not offend and wrote correctly.
            looking for meaning in their life

            This is certainly good. The main thing is that this meaning is not suggested by a person from a crime or the so-called. "opposition".
  4. Andrey Yuryevich
    Andrey Yuryevich 23 January 2016 06: 53
    +5
    About forty years old I was tormented by the question: am I not getting more than I give?
    the author is burning! how much was it in rubles?
    in the divergent uncle, the fluctuations in the imaginary region are inverted along the northern spins of the imaginary hyperons
    not every locally selected individual is able to ignore the tendencies of potential emotions and pariously allocate ambivalent quanta of logistics, extracted taking into account the anthropomorphism of the heuristic genesis! yes it seems, in principle, everything is correct, but somehow it hurts too abstruse and tedious, you can simply say to your grandson: be a Man!
    1. Same lech
      Same lech 23 January 2016 06: 57
      +3
      not every locally selected individual is able to ignore the tendencies of potential emotions and pariously allocate ambivalent quanta of logistics, extracted taking into account the anthropomorphism of the heuristic genesis!


      smile My brains began to boil, the translator of scientific words into Russian broke down.
      1. Ros64
        Ros64 23 January 2016 11: 15
        +4
        This is a "joke" for a similar "pseudoscientific set of words" above. This is how some officials from the economy and the government express themselves when they want to create a "fog" and cannot express their thought (or can cover up the absence thereof).
    2. BARKHAN
      BARKHAN 23 January 2016 08: 02
      +9
      Quote: Andrey Yurievich
      not every locally selected individual is able to ignore the tendencies of potential emotions and pariously allocate ambivalent quanta of logistics, extracted taking into account the anthropomorphism of the heuristic genesis! it seems that, in principle, everything is correct, but somehow it hurts too abstruse and tedious, it can be easier for a grandson to say: be a Man!

      If you hear something like that from your interlocutor, look around periodically for medical orderlies and check for a wallet. The following categories communicate in obscure phrases: scoundrels, fools, swindlers, Russian ministers, EU officials.
      You have a good memory hi
      1. Andrey Yuryevich
        Andrey Yuryevich 23 January 2016 08: 06
        +3
        Quote: Barkhan
        You have a good memory

        whether shren! I have good Google ... wassat
        1. midivan
          midivan 23 January 2016 08: 27
          +5
          Quote: Andrey Yurievich
          whether shren! I have good Google ...

          well you (you) radish! I felt myself already flawed, half could not reprimand repeat and it was google crying
          1. BARKHAN
            BARKHAN 23 January 2016 21: 48
            +1
            Also, at first laughing In how people can think what And then ... the life-giving googel turns out to be.
            It’s all the same fun. Just like at a meeting of our government on economic issues. I don’t understand what the fuck is about ...
      2. midivan
        midivan 23 January 2016 08: 21
        +4
        Quote: Barkhan
        If you hear something like this from the other person, periodically look around for orderlies and check for a wallet.

        No. it’s necessary for the STC to be afraid, and at the sight of suspicious serious uncles it is better to throw the grass away laughing laughing crying laughing
    3. Gardamir
      Gardamir 23 January 2016 08: 39
      +3
      the author is burning! how much was it in rubles?
      What does the money have to do with it?
  5. yuriy55
    yuriy55 23 January 2016 07: 00
    11
    My mother used to say: “Skinny work is like stealing.”


    It’s a pity that your mother is not the Chairman of the Government of the Russian Federation ... winked

    Do any thing so that you don’t be ashamed of yourself. About forty years old I was tormented by the question: Am I not getting more than I am?


    After retirement, these thoughts will disappear along with wealth ... crying
  6. Mountain shooter
    Mountain shooter 23 January 2016 07: 02
    14
    The author outlined his position in life, as he managed. Not all Dostoevsky and Spinoza. Got courage, and wrote. Put a plus. For courage.
  7. Mavrikiy
    Mavrikiy 23 January 2016 07: 05
    +2
    Thanks to the author, for his blah, blah, blah.
    But I would like to understand point 1.
    "1. A hypothesis that explains known facts becomes a theory. For example, I have good reason to believe that Russia is like a thorn in the eye for many people. Including from the fear of repeating the socialist experiment to establish justice."

    Did the author establish a theory? Which one? Is Russia an eyesore? Is Russia scared of repeating a socialist justice experiment?
    OUTPUT. In order for everyone to sleep well and treat us well, we must assure everyone that we will no longer "do this"

    Bullshit theory. Russia is the WORLD, and whoever does not see it is blind from birth. And we are always sorry for the poor.
    1. Vladimir73
      Vladimir73 23 January 2016 07: 26
      +4
      In Russia (Kievan Rus, Muscovite Rus, and I think even before its creation ...) they always looked for justice and tried to "... judge in justice ..." all disputes. It seems that only in Russia there is a saying "Will we divide like: according to the law or according to justice?" request
      1. Fat
        Fat 23 January 2016 15: 58
        0
        Quote: Vladimir73
        It seems that only in Russia there is a saying "We will divide like: according to the law or according to justice?" request

        More precisely: "honestly or brotherly." In all fairness, this is when "an eye for an eye ..." wink
        1. Vladimir73
          Vladimir73 25 January 2016 09: 37
          0
          "Honestly" and "fair" are synonymous, and "eye for an eye" is revenge without extenuating circumstances.

          "Brotherly" - give most of it to your brother, even infringing upon yourself, especially if you are older (although it happens differently for someone).

          "According to the law" - we share in accordance with preliminary agreements.
  8. Great-grandfather of Zeus
    Great-grandfather of Zeus 23 January 2016 07: 06
    15
    Alexander, you wrote very correctly, but will they hear you? The reason is banal, in the days of the USSR we were firmly convinced of the future, we knew that work is beneficial to society, and the very attitude towards work and the working person was respectful. Now the country is legalized lawlessness - why work if you can make money, share with "the right people" and live as you want, and not as you deserve. The lack of a clear social program in power, unwillingness to remove young people from the street, complete disregard for the impoverishment of the people make people live according to the principle of "man to man wolf ". only a complete and irrevocable change of priorities, headed by the building of a fundamentally new state, the goal of which is the development of the economy, science, culture, production, the elimination of unemployment and poverty and the causes and factors that generate them, the relationship to the family as the basis of society and will be an incentive for the development of youth's desire to work for themselves and their country. Now, alas, there are no such factors, and so far Oh, you can say, you wrote a good article, but this is an article for a generation of unborn people, and it is possible that many decades will pass before society only comes up to raising a working person from an early age who cares about the day today and tomorrow, not only for themselves but also for others.
    1. Mordvin 3
      Mordvin 3 23 January 2016 08: 30
      +8
      Recently I went to the Echo, so there in an interview they offered to lustrate everyone who is older than 35. They say they remember the USSR, and hinder the development of modern Russia. A generation has grown ... fool To author +
      1. Ros64
        Ros64 23 January 2016 11: 30
        +7
        Russian people, I ask you very much - even though here write in Russian, they have already bored these other "luster", etc., etc.! We are already turning into monkeys copying American terms, soon we will completely turn into a pile of rubbish RUSSIAN LANGUAGE. Read some comments - 2-3 GRAMMATIC ERRORS in a nutshell! So we can (or can, or can) turn the RUSSIAN LANGUAGE into an American surzhik. I am silent about it - even on television our "artists" cannot speak without him, they do not have enough "brains", as the cat Matroskin said. sad
        1. Mordvin 3
          Mordvin 3 23 January 2016 13: 51
          +4
          Excuse me, but I don't know what "lustration" is, and how to translate it into Russian. I only know that under this word in Ukraine they put all the unwanted in the trash. hi
      2. Mavrikiy
        Mavrikiy 24 January 2016 00: 05
        +2
        Mordvin 3
        As I understand it, "Svanidze and K" does not fall under this company, as they remember only the horrors of the USSR.
  9. Masya masya
    Masya masya 23 January 2016 07: 08
    +4
    "Until the age of forty I was tormented by the question: am I not getting more than I give? Measure what you get with what you do; be afraid to get more."
    No need to measure, just do it!
    1. midivan
      midivan 23 January 2016 08: 30
      +4
      Quote: Masya Masya
      "Until the age of forty I was tormented by the question: am I not getting more than I give? Measure what you get with what you do; be afraid to get more."
      No need to measure, just do it!

      your words yes deputilam in ears would laughing
  10. Aleksander
    Aleksander 23 January 2016 07: 17
    +4
    Justice in any business is like happiness or truth. Absolute and concrete does not happen, but it is necessary to strive.

    Every person-YOUR understanding of justice, even in the smallest team.
    In general, the author did not write anything new - all normal people know this and try to do so. And it was so- ALL times.
    About forty years old I was tormented by the question: am I not getting more than I give? Measure what you get with what you do; be afraid to get more. What is in money, what is in relationship with people. If you get more, it's like stealing.

    This is generally sophistry. A person receives as much as his talents and qualities are evaluated, and they are evaluated from the side, which means -most objectively. More will not give! Even gifts are a peculiar expression of appreciation.
    Article +.
    1. Makk
      Makk 23 January 2016 08: 40
      0
      This is generally sophistry. A person receives as much as his talents and qualities are evaluated, and they are evaluated from the side, which means - most objectively. More will not give! Even gifts are a peculiar expression of appreciation.

      Therefore, some take it themselves.
  11. parusnik
    parusnik 23 January 2016 07: 22
    10
    And experience, the son of difficult mistakes ... He shared, man ... Stones, you should not throw it ..
  12. midivan
    midivan 23 January 2016 07: 27
    +7
    smile to live beautifully is not just an empty sound, only one who has multiplied beauty in the World through labor, struggle, has lived a beautiful life, is truly crowned with beauty. I. Becher wink
  13. smith7
    smith7 23 January 2016 07: 29
    +2
    The author proposed a certain "code of the creator". For grandchildren, of course, this is not "creative" enough and therefore not so effective. It's a pity. The words are correct. Striving to live in truth, creating, protecting good and not sticking out - is this not what is needed at all times?
  14. crazy_fencer
    crazy_fencer 23 January 2016 07: 57
    13
    The author is a plus. Plus for "the cry of a camel in the tundra," in the words of the Strugatsky brothers. Even in spite of the fact that the article is a set of axioms, in which, it seems, there is nothing new, but he a) was able to formulate them clearly enough, at least for himself; and b) managed to explain them clearly enough. If at least 1 (one) hypothetical grandson accepts this, it's already good. Probably, I do not completely agree with only one thing: with the absolute attitude to think through decisions in time. If the decision began to seem stupid after 5 years, and God bless him. It is important that it is correct at the time of adoption.
    Give some commentators an idea. The article contains a completely normal idea: a person should always be responsible for all his actions, words and actions.
    And the last thing. The article was written in quite literate Russian. And comments like "blah-blah-blah" - which one? And the flags seem to be Russian ...
  15. avva2012
    avva2012 23 January 2016 08: 00
    +2
    Between the beginning of the article, as from a gray-haired person, and the end, "divergent uncle fluctuations in the imaginary region are inverted along the northern spins of the imaginary hyperons of Alpha Centauri, that everyone is doing this, and such nonsense"there is a discord. Moreover, it is cognitive. A person either thinks that way or that way.
    I have a feeling that, in this case, gray hair, if any, is painted.
    And so: Stamp, this- trans. A common, battered pattern that is blindly emulated; templateor rather a set of templates.
    1. Dimon174rus
      Dimon174rus 23 January 2016 09: 16
      +5
      10 biblical commandments are also a set of patterns ??? There are basic laws of life, rules that must be observed, otherwise global chaos will come !!!
      1. avva2012
        avva2012 23 January 2016 12: 25
        +1
        So maybe the Bible’s commandments are worth a stop?
  16. 33 Watcher
    33 Watcher 23 January 2016 08: 00
    +8
    That's right, just, unpopular now, and looks like a utopia by the standards of the modern world.
    Remember how Bulgakov? Woland, Cantu at breakfast:
    - Professor, they will make fun of you ...
    Sometimes I myself get lost, I don’t know how to behave with people, although I’m not old at all. After all, today cheating is a heroism, an achievement. Leaving the car on the sidewalk is the norm. People do not even understand why they are being reprimanded, because they are acting within the framework of the norms, norms of social behavior. The more you stole the more applicable to you the trmin "Successful", the more you cheated, "Smart", the more impudent you park the car "Cool". It has become very, uncomfortable to live recently. And in my opinion, all this talk about honesty, hard work and conscientiousness = banging your head against the wall. There is a majority for whom the basic principles of existence are: to snatch, push away, humiliate, snatch again, and now they have everything, power, money, public opinion. All...
  17. Dimon174rus
    Dimon174rus 23 January 2016 08: 55
    +7
    I liked the article, I fully support the author, probably because I myself come from the USSR, even of that upbringing. Although I admit, I don’t always do justice, then I feel ashamed for myself, I try to correct my flaws, I try to instill principles for my children, as I stated the author, I do not know what will come of it, life makes its own adjustments, I hope to grow up as good people! Thanks to the author for the reminder, such articles are useful for those who have not forgotten how to think !!!
  18. Gormenghast
    Gormenghast 23 January 2016 09: 03
    +2
    No one learns from the mistakes of others and, as an option, no one accepts the wisdom of others.

    Useless; this only time teaches

    The most important, basic industries and professions are security (the armed forces, law enforcement agencies)


    Not everyone understands this; because in the 90s what was taught? Actually, nothing. Foreign Gauleiters in Russia hosted as they wanted. Even the then president of the Russian Federation (much higher) did not give a damn about defense and security; I don’t know - out of stupidity, or out of selfish motives.

    education and training (starting with a nanny in a kindergarten)


    At least, students will not understand and will not accept it. Their training is of interest only in terms of the notorious score on the exam. Someone thinks that you need to graduate with the acquired knowledge? Haha no you need to have a passing grade.

    health care (starting with the nurse in the hospital).


    Young and healthy how to relate to this? Do you understand? Are they examined? Maybe they don’t smoke or drink?

    The following are food, clothing, housing construction.


    Here it is qualified consumers, which our education is fabricating, will be happy to accept with both hands and feet.
  19. Pvi1206
    Pvi1206 23 January 2016 09: 21
    +2
    The topic is relevant at all times.
    In short, treat people the way you want to be treated.
    In this case, one must be aware of the following.
    To teach others integrity is to roll stones from a mountain. To be most respectable is to carry stones uphill.
  20. vladimirvn
    vladimirvn 23 January 2016 09: 27
    +2
    good More often you need to think about why you live and why?
  21. pts-m
    pts-m 23 January 2016 09: 39
    +2
    The author of the RIGHTS is 100% full and this confirms folk wisdom ... an apple doesn’t fall far from an apple tree ...! Of course, an apple tree means the PEDIGREE FAMILY TREE.
  22. 1616913
    1616913 23 January 2016 09: 51
    +4
    With age, people tend to pass on the experience of their lives to young people, before many did not live to old age, and young people learned life from them. Life did not change, the craft was passed from grandfather to father from father to son, and the teachings of the elderly were practically unchanged.
    Now the situation has changed, the number of various "teachings" that treat fragile brains is innumerable and active pensioners are poorly versed in the volatile youth trends, so they do not listen to them, they teach things that do not lead to quick success.
    And when you understand the truth of much of what is written in this article, you need to tell this to your children.
  23. Beaver
    Beaver 23 January 2016 10: 00
    0
    The most important, basic industries and professions are security (the armed forces, law enforcement agencies), upbringing and training (starting with a nanny in a kindergarten), and health protection (starting with a nurse in a hospital). The following are food, clothing, housing construction.


    In the "most democratic country" it may be so. In the rest of the world, the opposite is true.
  24. Lelek
    Lelek 23 January 2016 10: 04
    +1
    (In case of large deviations (precisely when large and when it concerns you) from the normal course of things in life, business, and anywhere else, simultaneously apply several factors that counteract the deviations. It is then to figure out what helped and what didn’t.)

    The thesis is very dubious. I am afraid that it will be too late to "figure it out later." The country lost part of the generations born since 1988, and part of these lost ones turned into frank u.b.l.y.d.k.o.v.
    Here is an example of such a rebirth: (click.)
  25. Yak28
    Yak28 23 January 2016 10: 31
    +3
    Quote: Nonna
    a long set of words - the author, apparently a pensioner of a new pattern - behind this blah blah blah there is not a single idea - neither socialist nor patriotic

    Judging by the number of minuses, most people like boring nonsense about nothing. But there are pluses, which means that not everything is lost wink
  26. Pig
    Pig 23 January 2016 11: 11
    +2
    "" This rule came to me after thirty years ""
    this is normal ... 90% of people around this age "grow up" because the necessary life experience is accumulated! I began to appreciate LIFE myself after 30
    in terms of psychology is completely normal
  27. Ros64
    Ros64 23 January 2016 11: 32
    +1
    Russian people, I ask you very much - even though here write in Russian, they have already bothered these other "luster", etc., etc.! We are already turning into monkeys copying American terms, soon we will completely turn into a pile of rubbish RUSSIAN LANGUAGE. Read some comments - 2-3 GRAMMATIC ERRORS in a nutshell! So we can (or can, or can) turn the RUSSIAN LANGUAGE into an American surzhik. I am silent about it - even on television our "artists" cannot speak without him, they do not have enough "brains", as the cat Matroskin said. sad
    1. alexvac2016
      alexvac2016 23 January 2016 12: 21
      -2
      Nobody will need Russian any other language at all soon!
      Quote: Ros64
      Russian people, I ask you very much - even though here write in Russian, they have already bothered these other "luster", etc., etc.! We are already turning into monkeys copying American terms, soon we will completely turn into a pile of rubbish RUSSIAN LANGUAGE. Read some comments - 2-3 GRAMMATIC ERRORS in a nutshell! So we can (or can, or can) turn the RUSSIAN LANGUAGE into an American surzhik. I am silent about it - even on television our "artists" cannot speak without him, they do not have enough "brains", as the cat Matroskin said. sad
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  28. AlNikolaich
    AlNikolaich 23 January 2016 12: 22
    +3
    I will say briefly. Put a plus! I do not want to discuss what I basically agree with!
  29. a housewife
    a housewife 23 January 2016 13: 41
    +2
    In principle - Ecclesiastes. Also thinking about how to live. Thousands of years have passed, but the man is the same. With minor historical corrections.
  30. partizan86
    partizan86 23 January 2016 15: 28
    0
    The old people are late, the young will wave it off. Yes, and there is no science that will teach everyone's life and in any conditions.
  31. gendir.grifon
    gendir.grifon 23 January 2016 15: 28
    +1
    Unfortunately, in our state there is no coherent, coherent policy for the upbringing of the younger generation. They seem to be trying to introduce some normal, non-acquisitive, patriotic values, but this is done somehow chaotically, without a system. At the same time, a muddy stream of destructive information flows from zombie boxes and FM radio, which tunes the population and especially young people that everything is decided by power and money, and who does not profess these "values" is a "loser", i.e. loser and goof. Sometimes one gets the impression that the media, especially the federal ones, are controlled not by the state, but by some latent anti-Russian force. And after the demonstrations of the posted videos of violence among adolescents, society is sanctimoniously surprised, they say, where such aggression comes from. If there is no censorship and effective control of the media, the Internet, literature, cinema, then the country will fly off the rails.
  32. Amper
    Amper 23 January 2016 16: 15
    -2
    In the spirit of a-social ideas for the development of ebna-gayda-chuba-gvp-dimona: did not fit - on sausage or black soil (stamp-). Modern society of the Russian Federation gives birth to humanoid larvae, but does not educate citizens.
  33. antiexpert
    antiexpert 23 January 2016 17: 09
    +1
    if you already say something to your grandchildren, then apologize for not having genocide those who went to war in Russia, and the grandchildren will have to fight with them again, but then you should finally wish to do this)))
  34. dmb91
    dmb91 23 January 2016 22: 25
    +1
    Facts: Russia lost in the "cold war" in 45-91; Gorbachev and his associates leaked the USSR to the Americans (he received the "Freedom" medal, awards, etc.); since 1991 Russia is a US colony, hence all EVIL in Russia. Who does not understand, go to the site of EA Fedorov, the coordinator of the GCD.
  35. dmb91
    dmb91 23 January 2016 22: 59
    +1
    Sorry, of course it was not Russia that lost, but the USSR, this does not change the essence, look at Ukraine now, who is in command there and how it differs from 1991. in Russia. Yeltsin, "seven-barkinism" - the henchmen of the USA. The main SECRET for the media-Russia is a US colony, Russia pays a tribute daily of about 1 billion US dollars (like Russia is the Golden Horde, and not only in money), you will not hear this on any TV channel. Mechanisms for paying tribute are very sophisticated (through the Central Bank, offshores, etc.). Turn on the heads, as Matrona Moskovskaya said, "there is a war without war." The hybrid war is coming to an end, but we still do not understand what is what.
    1. Cat man null
      Cat man null 23 January 2016 23: 09
      +1
      Quote: dmb91
      Home SECRET for the media-Russia-US colony

      Oh how .. belay

      Quote: dmb91
      Russia pays tribute daily of about 1 billion US dollars

      Yah?? belay

      Quote: dmb91
      Tribute payment mechanisms are very sophisticated, (through the Central Bank, offshore, etc.)

      Yeah .. and no one, nobody, mechimazhmoff, sees .. in a fun laughing

      Quote: dmb91
      Turn on the head

      Get off the wheels .. it won’t bring to good, I’m telling you this seriously yes

      PS:

      Quote: dmb91
      Who does not understand, go to the site of Fedorov E.A., coordinator of the NOD

      Ahhhhhh .. NOD .. well, they’d say so right away
  36. dmb91
    dmb91 23 January 2016 23: 15
    -1
    Well, here are the trolls, these were the facts, your word
  37. dmb91
    dmb91 23 January 2016 23: 23
    -1
    How much did they pay and who, will you manage to spend time to benefit the family, Mr. KET?
    1. Cat man null
      Cat man null 23 January 2016 23: 42
      +2
      Quote: dmb91
      How much paid and who

      Nobody and not at all. Look at the date and time of my registration here, Vasya. You can see the comments - everything is available there. Then you can ask questions .. military .. if the desire does not disappear yes

      Quote: dmb91
      these were facts

      It???

      Quote: dmb91
      Russia pays tribute daily of about 1 billion US dollars

      It was nonsense of a paranoid nature. Believe me i know laughing
  38. dmb91
    dmb91 23 January 2016 23: 33
    0
    By the way, about the wheels, the fact that after the withdrawal of Soviet troops from Afghanistan, the production of drugs there increased hundreds of times, the question is, who were going to poison and who did it so hard?
  39. dmb91
    dmb91 24 January 2016 00: 15
    -2
    Mr. Kotik Man Null, I’m not used to believing in a word, where is the argument. Regarding the time of your registration and comments, I’m telling you that your character doesn’t even allow you to see about paranoia - there is a very good heredity in the family, no one in the family. For you, this not facts, we'll see in a couple of years how you will sing, unless of course you clean it up and be in good health.
    1. Cat man null
      Cat man null 24 January 2016 00: 34
      +1
      Quote: "Inhabited Island", A & B Strugatsky
      Dummkopf. Rotznase.

      request
  40. dmb91
    dmb91 24 January 2016 08: 25
    0
    In addition to the rules of conduct, grandchildren must leave a free country, they live in it. If someone wants to leave chewed ties, this is their choice.
  41. kiarini
    kiarini 24 January 2016 09: 39
    0
    Very good article. Long-forgotten human values ​​are spelled out in it. I cannot imagine how to teach these things to children, since many adults who have checked in here have long lost their human appearance, have forgotten the language and the word "conscience" ...
    1. anid
      anid 24 January 2016 14: 39
      0
      Conscience? And another outdated word is honor (once widespread).
  42. dmb91
    dmb91 24 January 2016 10: 36
    +1
    I would add to the article that indifference is worse than betrayal, and own stupidity can be very expensive for us and our grandchildren. To understand what is happening in the country, you need to look at the basic law (Constitution) and what is written there, does the guarantor of the Constitution have real power, is there a national ideology in the country to whom the Central Bank is subordinate. And if you do not see and understand something, this does not mean that this is not happening.
  43. Barnaul, Altai
    Barnaul, Altai 24 January 2016 17: 24
    0
    I am shocked by disapproving comments! The article contains WISDOM!
    Author, thanks for the article! And who is bored with reading - so read the American sh * rnya like "Poor dad, bobgy dad", but practice further in the craft how to do nothing and earn millions ...
  44. rJIiOK
    rJIiOK 25 January 2016 00: 45
    0
    Thank you very much!
  45. Corporal Valera
    Corporal Valera 25 January 2016 23: 29
    0
    7) I liked it