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Do not be afraid to trust them

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Do not be afraid to trust them


From time to time, articles are published on our website on a very sensitive topic - the upbringing and education of our children. I will not repeat, I will not analyze EGE and computer games, clothes, haircuts, mobile phones, etc. Believe me, this is not the main thing.

I am 53 of the year, three grown children. I am not a teacher, life is connected with the armed forces and the military industrial complex, but I really want to express my thoughts on this topic. I apologize in advance for some of the emotion and unexplored style of narration.

We all want our children to grow up as patriots, smart, strong people. But they themselves do not always help in this.

This is what I am talking about. I know my roots very well. And all that I know, my children also know, and they simply will not dare to betray their kin, their country.

My grandmother did not know how to read or write. But her wisdom, her knowledge of life, her love for people created such a moral character, with which it is simply impossible to bear now.

Summer xnum th. A woman, injured with her infant child by a single bullet, was looking for her daughter under the corpses of Germans - my 41-year-old mother (thank God, our soldiers heard a child's cry, dug up), saved all of her six children, did not lose anyone. She, half-dead, was dragged into the car by strangers along with her children. Our, Soviet. It was the last echelon from Pskov, with families of commanders.

My grandfather, four classes of education, then the Red Army, then the 1-I Soviet Joint Military School (Courses of the Red Commanders), went through two wars, all the time hesitated to speak out in public in disputes, it all sounded too country-like. But he did not hesitate on the orders of one to go to the pillbox, he was sure that he would raise people. And raised! And it was like a conspiracy. For all two wars - only one wound. I once, small, decided to help him, to gather for a meeting with brother-soldiers, I wanted to bring a uniform from the closet. And suddenly he felt how heavy he was. From orders ... I wanted to joke - I say that it’s easy to learn, hard in battle, and then even harder - to wear an order. And he looked at me like an adult. He says that it’s harder to live for dead friends, remember. I remembered.

These people did not graduate from universities, did not go abroad and did not taste the benefits of gourmets. There was another thing in their upbringing - unlimited trust and unlimited responsibility. And in return, they paid unlimited devotion.

Grandmother, at that time a girl 12 years old, one raised her younger brothers and sisters, her parents died. My grandfather worked with 10-years, I had to help my mother, my father died. They were the breadwinners in their families, they had a huge burden of responsibility.

The burden of what our children are now being protected from.

To educate real people, you must look at the generation of our fathers and grandfathers. There were all kinds of people, but ...

Leningrad 41. They bombed the area of ​​the Kirov factory. An unfamiliar woman, whose name we still do not know, covered the stroller with a small one-year-old child. I transferred my life to him. In 66, this boy will be my future wife's dad.

Now a few words about my generation. In 1977, I completed the master of sports standard in bullet shooting. Pistol. Exercise MP-8, if anyone knows. This is high-speed shooting on turning silhouettes. I was 16 for years, and the title was officially given only in 1979, in 18 years, as it should be. But WEAPONS I have been entrusted in 13 years!

You try to understand the sensations of a boy who has a real small caliber pistol in his hands. Let the dash, let the sport. But the PISTOL. This is a serious trust.

When we traveled around the country to compete in the Games of schoolchildren, we had an adult attendant with us who had suitcases with our weapons and ammunition. They gave us all this only on the firing line, just before the shooting. But if the competition was held on the DOSAAF line, then there was no accompanying person, we were on a par with adults. Weapons and ammunition were issued to us on receipt after the credentials committee. We were responsible for its performance and its safety. We. The boys. For us, this was a manifestation of the highest trust that can only exist. Of us, no one has ever failed our coaches. Not with anything!

Why am I doing all this? If you look at our children simply as children, do not try to instill in them a sense of responsibility, do not try to trust them, and seriously, and not somehow show off, they will become people very late.

Do not be afraid to trust them, do not be afraid that they will burn, and more than once. Do not be afraid of their pain, bruises, teach them to suppress their fear. Do not be afraid to talk about difficulties, do not hesitate to your victories and defeats, tell about grandparents, about stories my family and my country. Believe me, when they hear it from mom and dad, and not from textbooks, you will see their serious eyes. Matured

And necessarily - the sport. This is the main thing that can help us in the education of our children. All my children went in for sports, all the crap with drunkenness in doorways and drugs passed by - they simply did not have time for this and they simply could not betray the trust of their parents and their coach.

My youngest son started playing hockey with 4-years, he still plays at a professional level (he is 26 years old). So, when his mother once punished him for his unlearned lessons and didn’t let him go to the gym, he tied up the sheets and decided to go down from the 3 floor. We caught him on time, on the windowsill. And he told me what I remembered for the rest of my life: “I cannot let the team down!”

What is there to add ...

My dear, my dear parents of the current boys and girls! Do not be afraid to see adults in your children. They really need your trust.
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  1. ispaniard
    ispaniard 19 August 2014 09: 12
    +26
    The guys in the photo are studying the American M60 machine gun ... I think the trophy)))))))

    P.S. And the article is a plus, our children are a litmus test for parents, an example, first of all, they take WITH US AND then only with someone else.
    1. asar
      asar 19 August 2014 15: 39
      +3
      I think the trophy)))))))

      And the son wears a trophy hat! And he knows about the feats of his grandfathers (though, even I have not seen, they died, freeing the world from brown mold!) Knows about the exorbitant work in the rear firsthand! He is seriously involved in sports! There is no time for "entrances"!
      1. crazyrom
        crazyrom 20 August 2014 06: 41
        +5
        Well, why is there always some kind of rubbish and puts such an article minus, huh?
    2. limmor
      limmor 27 August 2014 21: 29
      0
      In the photo, actually, RMB !!!
  2. master 84
    master 84 19 August 2014 09: 12
    -71
    Dokatyvsya.Children have to prepare in advance for a potential war
    1. Vladimirets
      Vladimirets 19 August 2014 09: 21
      +22
      Quote: master 84
      Dokatyvsya.Children have to prepare in advance for a potential war

      And what about the war? What if not war, then a small person cannot be trusted? A simple example, close to me, why a teenager cannot now hunt under the supervision of an adult? I remember how painful it was for me to wait for the opportunity officially, without hiding and not being afraid, to go hunting, albeit under the supervision of an elder. A thumpy, overgrown kid is much more dangerous than a teenager reverently holding a real gun. After all, hunting (like any communication with nature) is a wonderful upbringing of man and citizen.
      1. RUSLAT
        RUSLAT 19 August 2014 09: 40
        -22
        Modern hunting, this is the murder of the defenseless and the child evokes a sense of superiority and permissiveness, to take life from a living creature at will. If YOU are such a fan of extreme sports, then take a knife and a knife, like our ancestors, and go to a boar or a bear, weakly. And with a vintar and with optics from an ambush or from a tower, anyone can.
        1. volot-voin
          volot-voin 19 August 2014 10: 24
          +29
          Quote: RUSLAT
          Modern hunting, this is the murder of the defenseless and the child evokes a sense of superiority and permissiveness, to take life from a living creature at will.

          Hunting, fishing is beautiful, one of the best activities for men. So it happened from time immemorial. Predator instinct, you won’t throw it anywhere. There is only one unwritten rule - that he killed, he must eat. Do not kill in vain, do not force nature.
          1. creak
            creak 19 August 2014 12: 02
            +16
            Shooting from a tower, with optics, and even at a lured animal, practiced in some hunting farms, is not hunting, but rather fun for the newly-minted "masters of life" ...
            1. Vladimirets
              Vladimirets 19 August 2014 12: 09
              +1
              Quote: ranger
              Shooting from the tower, with optics

              And this is also a hunt. Roe deer, Manchurian deer and deer on salt licks are shot in Siberia. They just eat meat, they, Siberians have a habit, eat meat. Tell them they are not hunters.
              Quote: ranger
              lured beast

              In the central zone, and not only in it, almost everything is either fed or fed. What can you do, a person captures the habitat, some animals lack what is in nature, some simply can’t survive without feeding. In addition, top dressing allows the beast to better tolerate our winters and increases its numbers. I hope you are not against a large number of animals7
              1. Signaller
                Signaller 20 August 2014 07: 46
                +1
                I agree completely. Himself 10 years drove crackers collected by the team, acorns in Taldom in his car. To the eyeballs, they drove a car and drove it. Then they hunted there.
          2. Roland
            Roland 19 August 2014 12: 03
            +8
            I would also add that it is very good both for the development of children and adults, hiking tours, horseback riding. Our country is very large, so there will always be where to go and where to travel. Look and survival skills will appear in nature.
        2. Қarabas
          Қarabas 19 August 2014 10: 37
          -14
          RUSLAT, support! Modern hunting is not hunting. And xs what.
          She can hardly teach the child what they expect ... Unless the next Vinogradova or Gordeeva (the schoolboy who killed the teacher) grows up
          1. slav4ikus
            slav4ikus 19 August 2014 18: 48
            +2
            Vinogradov or Gordeeva grew computer games, parenting and the society that surrounded them
        3. Vladimirets
          Vladimirets 19 August 2014 10: 41
          +7
          Quote: RUSLAT
          the child evokes a sense of superiority and permissiveness, to take life from a living creature at will.

          Don't be silly. Why talk about what you know from the film "Peculiarities of the National Hunt"? Especially gifted people say that love is just chemistry and madness. And what else to say if you have never loved and do not know the subject of the conversation.
        4. Walking
          Walking 19 August 2014 10: 56
          +17
          Quote: RUSLAT
          Modern hunting, this is the murder of the defenseless and the child evokes a sense of superiority and permissiveness, to take life from a living creature at will. If YOU are such a fan of extreme sports, then take a knife and a knife, like our ancestors, and go to a boar or a bear, weakly. And with a vintar and with optics from an ambush or from a tower, anyone can.


          You try to walk around the mountains or the savannah for several days in search of and all this for the sake of one aimed shot, that's where you need health and physical preparation. I have sons and even daughters who go hunting and fishing with me, but not some drugs, drunkenness. And leave these slogans about the murders to the Greenpeace.
          1. Suhow
            Suhow 20 August 2014 00: 26
            0
            Yes, and pulling the trigger for the first time is also not easy, although it missed, but it was a pity the bird ...
        5. Monge
          Monge 19 August 2014 11: 08
          +6
          Modern hunting, this is the murder of the defenseless and the child evokes a sense of superiority and permissiveness, to take life from a living creature at will.
          This can be said by a person who is very far from hunting and the forest. This point of view has existed for a very long time, the pacifists reason the same way.
          1. talSad
            talSad 19 August 2014 12: 29
            +9
            About homework. You look for his feed, and then you cut the defenseless.
            Meat and fish do not appear in the super-hyper market in cellophane.
        6. Prometey
          Prometey 19 August 2014 14: 42
          +1
          Quote: RUSLAT
          Modern hunting, this is the murder of the defenseless and the child evokes a sense of superiority and permissiveness, to take life from a living creature at will.

          I agree. This is already an excess - to involve children in the hunt. Although since the age of 10 I have already helped my grandfather to slaughter rams for meat, but at the same time they have never taught the cruel treatment of cattle. Yes, and still in the yard I travel around pigeons on the pavement repeat
          1. Vladimirets
            Vladimirets 19 August 2014 15: 18
            -9
            Quote: Prometey
            This is already an excess - to involve children in the hunt. Although since the age of 10 I have already helped my grandfather to slaughter rams for meat, but at the same time they have never taught the cruel treatment of cattle.

            Is hunting a cruelty to animals? The main message of the hunter is that after the duck falls, it is quicker to clutch its teeth and drink warm blood. And if a wounded animal, then in general beauty, you can mock a dying animal for a long time.
            1. Vladimirets
              Vladimirets 19 August 2014 17: 19
              -2
              I frankly did not know that there are so many pink-haired vegans in VO.
              1. Manul
                Manul 20 August 2014 15: 45
                0
                Quote: Vladimirets
                I frankly did not know that there are so many pink-haired vegans in VO.

                I would like, you see, a literary syllable at least some sort of thing. And not a verbal splash.
          2. Manul
            Manul 20 August 2014 15: 42
            +3
            Quote: Prometey
            I agree. This is already an excess - to involve children in the hunt.

            But why do all the extremes rush? It was said about the versatile upbringing of the child. Do not pull out of the context one hunt. Yes, and who does not like hunting - do not bring up your children in this vein. But you do not need to engage in denial of what you have no idea about. Is it really possible to learn to understand the footprints of animals, forest trails, edible herbs, methods of survival, respect for the animal world (yes, a hunter, a fisherman, a tourist respects nature more than an ordinary man in the street, with the exception of any poachers and other moral monsters) will be useless for education compared to the "brutality" of a shot duck? But how did our ancestors live before? Children in the villages of childhood learned to set snares. You know, they degraded and degraded in their natural environment.
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        7. fennekRUS
          fennekRUS 19 August 2014 15: 02
          +1
          you can not. sit on the tower night without noise and fuss. scour the trail. patiently defend in the pen ... you can’t even with a machine gun, not like with a rifle. because it’s cold on the tower, it is impossible to rustle and smell of tobacco and coffee, and the shot is usually only one, and not the fact that the beast comes out under the shot.
          verdict-you, dear-ordinary keyboard stomp
        8. Signaller
          Signaller 20 August 2014 07: 39
          +3
          If you don't know that the best way to instill a love of nature, temper your character and understand the wisdom of life is to HUNT, then you would simply remain silent. Kirov used to say that a hunter is a ready soldier of the Red Army. All my life, from the age of 14 I have been doing this. He went from Yunokh to a big game hunter. Not when in a forest or swamp I will not disappear, either in winter or in summer. He walked through all of central Russia with a gun, you have never been there, and the general mass of the people, also not. What wonderful places. One word RUSSIA. And at the age of 16 he also received the categories for bullet shooting, for the "running boar". Then it came in handy in the army, and in life too. Therefore, they were silent b.
        9. Jew Russian
          Jew Russian 20 August 2014 08: 26
          0
          Not to comment on the situation but to change, I agree that since you described it poorly, but it is solvable
        10. kr33sania
          kr33sania 22 August 2014 08: 50
          0
          Not that. Here is the psychology of boys' subconscious love of weapons. Moreover, with a grafted sense of homeland.
          And with a catkin and a knife of cats to dissect - the new Chikatilo will be on the way ...
      2. bazilio
        bazilio 19 August 2014 09: 46
        +15
        Quote: master 84
        Dokatyvsya.Children have to prepare in advance for a potential war

        Si vis pacem, para bellum (if you want peace, prepare for war) In addition, preparation can be different. There is no need to prepare Putin’s Art Nouveau, you need to educate future defenders and patriots. And again, let the youth be better off sitting in DOSAAFs and messing around with trunks than indulging in drunkenness and debauchery.
        1. smart75
          smart75 19 August 2014 10: 11
          +8
          The set of phrases is staggering: "Putin is Jugend", "indulge in drunkenness and debauchery" ...
          Are you the spirit of Baba Lera (Novodvorskaya)?
          1. bazilio
            bazilio 20 August 2014 08: 28
            0
            Quote: smart75
            The set of phrases is staggering: "Putin is Jugend", "indulge in drunkenness and debauchery" ...
            Are you the spirit of Baba Lera (Novodvorskaya)?

            No no god forbid
        2. asar
          asar 19 August 2014 15: 51
          +4
          . There is no need to prepare Putin’s Art Nouveau, you need to educate future defenders and patriots. And again, let the youth be better off sitting in DOSAAFs and messing around with trunks than indulging in drunkenness and debauchery.

          I do not agree with you about Putin Jugend! What does Putin have to do with it? Is patriotism brought up only under the name of a particular person? And without this in any way ?! And if the president is the last scum and scoundrel (GDP, this is not about you!), Then patriotism is zero ?! So it turns out? What nonsense!
          I agree with you on one thing - it’s time to revive either DOSAAF, or something like that, to make all sports sections, hobby groups accessible to everyone! When parents don’t know whether to buy a baby or to give the child to the sports section - I think this is not an option! If anything, we don’t want our army, we will feed someone else’s, it’s not said by me!
          1. Intsurfer
            Intsurfer 19 August 2014 17: 05
            +1
            >> make all sports sections, hobby groups available to everyone!

            Yes, it's all available - we have a free sports section and an airsoft game is acceptable. BUT!!! Collect ammunition, that for fencing - 20 ty, that for strike - another 20 ty, taking into account the drive (you can take a rental, but yours pays off for the season). If with a strike - you can still somehow stretch expenses in time, then for fencing - this all goes all out in almost one step.
          2. bazilio
            bazilio 20 August 2014 08: 37
            0
            Quote: asar
            I do not agree with you about Putin Jugend! What does Putin have to do with it? Is patriotism brought up only under the name of a particular person? And without this in any way ?!

            Dear Asar, I wrote that you do NOT need to prepare Putin Jugend, DO NOT NEED! Please read carefully.
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      4. volot-voin
        volot-voin 19 August 2014 10: 20
        +9
        Quote: Vladimirets
        What if not war, then a small person cannot be trusted?

        The little man needs to be trusted with serious things. It is necessary that he be constantly busy. He studied, went to training, he made something ... etc etc. It is necessary that he does not have time for all kinds of nonsense. Then and only then will a real person grow out of him, and not a rash, parasite, alcoholic or drug addict.
        Responsibility is a great thing, for yourself. their parents, their family, their children, for their yard, city, country, people, etc. etc.
    2. volot-voin
      volot-voin 19 August 2014 10: 08
      +10
      Quote: master 84
      Dokatyvsya.Children have to prepare in advance for a potential war

      Children need to be prepared for war, so that war does not happen, and if such a disaster happened then they would not be cannon fodder, they could do something.
      "Hard in training, easy in battle" A.V. Suvorov.
    3. EvilLion
      EvilLion 19 August 2014 10: 44
      +1
      This is exactly what all children's organizations like boy scouts and pioneers do. Your cap. In the 40, it showed itself perfectly when all sorts of Britons even outwardly were out of place with the German Uberzoldats, whom they had begun to prepare even before the Versailles restrictions were discarded.
    4. podpolkovnik
      podpolkovnik 19 August 2014 11: 02
      +17
      Quote: master 84
      Dokatyvsya.Children have to prepare in advance for a potential war

      Nothing like this!
      Just a return to the well-forgotten old. Who else remembers NVP at school? Was that bad?
      1. podpolkovnik
        podpolkovnik 19 August 2014 11: 08
        +3
        Is any Tolstoyan non-resident evil to violence, a follower of Plato Karataev? ...
        1. podpolkovnik
          podpolkovnik 19 August 2014 11: 22
          +1
          Minus, you at least argue ... or are you so - a little shit, and hid in the bushes, little coward? Well - well, I understand that. You are one of those who were brought up to behave like this in front of the enemy: "We give up!"
          1. CONTROL
            CONTROL 19 August 2014 11: 59
            0
            I don’t know who is minus, but - “that sho vi treat this so painfully!” a person thinks so (as he can ...), and explain, at a minimum - lack of time ... understands everything, but to say ... alas. ... with you ... with us and with them ...
            but there is a limited set of words - up to eight: there, we, ladies, you, them, home, rum, mom ...
        2. velikoros-xnumx
          velikoros-xnumx 20 August 2014 01: 28
          +1
          Quote: podpolkovnik
          Is any Tolstoyan non-resident evil to violence, a follower of Plato Karataev? ...

          After reading the article, the first question that arose - "Who put a minus to the article, answer" daredevil ", although such do not respond."
      2. Svetlana
        Svetlana 19 August 2014 11: 21
        +13
        At one time, this helped those whom the Great Patriotic War found returning from school graduation, when they volunteered to run to beg for the front and those who were called to fight for their homeland. They already knew how to handle weapons and had basic knowledge of military affairs. And those who canceled NVP are traitors to their people.
      3. smart75
        smart75 19 August 2014 14: 07
        +1
        Yes, it was great!
        Assembly - disassembly of AK, firing, we had a small shooting gallery in our school.
        Everyone was normal towards NVP, though it was 1990-91 years.
        1. Intsurfer
          Intsurfer 19 August 2014 15: 18
          0
          >> Assembly - disassembly of AK, shooting, we had a small shooting range at school.

          My son has no AK layout or shooting gallery at school. Went somewhere to shoot from a pneumatic. Practice in a dash with a home air rifle was not in vain - the son scored almost more than all the points. :)
    5. Svetlana
      Svetlana 19 August 2014 11: 14
      +11
      Would you like the war to take your children by surprise, completely unprepared and not adapted to hardships and loads? The author is absolutely right. It’s impossible to live and think that your hut is near the edge, and the war will not concern you. The war never asks if it can come, it is always sudden and unwanted.
    6. shershen
      shershen 19 August 2014 16: 31
      +2
      Nothing has come, only this is how one should live, peace is a break between wars.
    7. midashko
      midashko 19 August 2014 17: 23
      +1
      Children were always prepared for war 50 and 500 and 5000 years ago.
    8. Suhow
      Suhow 20 August 2014 00: 21
      +4
      I studied under the USSR and dealt with weapons only at a school in the army, I served in the USSR. I need to have initial training, I think in the USA our children’s best friend knows how to handle weapons better than ours and about training they don’t speak to the war. Familiarity with weapons in my opinion disciplines, but your thought has a right to be. Especially in Ukraine, because the new government is not eternal and not all the majority will ride. The issue of weapons is very relevant. I remember the words of Abdula - It’s good for someone who has a knife and it’s bad for someone who doesn’t have it at the right time ...
    9. Very old
      Very old 20 August 2014 07: 56
      +1
      Quote: master 84
      have to prepare in advance for a potential war


      Revive "ZARNITSA", military lessons throughout the program, step up the work of DOSAAF in patriotic education and the study of technology and weapons ...
      And no other way
    10. Jew Russian
      Jew Russian 20 August 2014 08: 24
      +1
      It was always "if you want peace, prepare for war" it is stupid to think that children of all generations have sunk to be prepared for war
    11. nfoma80
      nfoma80 21 August 2014 21: 26
      +1
      Well, you and .... The article is not about war, but about responsibility, these are two different things!
  3. saag
    saag 19 August 2014 09: 14
    +4
    sport is of course good and wonderful, but brains need to be developed too, so that a dumb roll is not obtained
    1. Genzilla
      Genzilla 19 August 2014 09: 40
      +9
      "dumb jock" is a stereotype created by ignorant people who have never been to the audience. All people involved in sports are not stupid a priori. They are usually versatile people.
      The same hardware requires a competent approach. Some ambals understand biochemistry at least go to school to teach.
      In general, I support sports, the sooner the better
      1. RUSLAT
        RUSLAT 19 August 2014 10: 13
        +3
        We have the mayor of the city a master of sports. Now the whole administration considers it normal to go in for sports halls. Only on sick leave there was a huge savings!
        1. Gato
          Gato 19 August 2014 10: 43
          +12
          Quote: RUSLAT
          We have the mayor of the city master of sports

          And we have a boxer. Klitschko is his last name.
          The savings were ... not only on sick leave, save on everything.
          1. podpolkovnik
            podpolkovnik 19 August 2014 11: 12
            +3
            Quote: Gato
            Quote: RUSLAT
            We have the mayor of the city master of sports

            And we have a boxer. Klitschko is his last name.
            The savings were ... not only on sick leave, save on everything.

            Enchanting comment, turned green ... Everything would be funny, if it were not so sad ...
      2. Қarabas
        Қarabas 19 August 2014 10: 43
        0
        Gendzilla, about the stereotype - yes) Why is there a "stupid jock", now everyone loves to round and generalize everything.

        PS: including myself, of course)) but you cannot say otherwise)
      3. CONTROL
        CONTROL 19 August 2014 12: 04
        +3
        bearded joke:
        -the boxer is asked: "Why do you need a head?" - "Why why? I eat it ... Just kidding, kidding! For a qualitative assessment of the surrounding reality and the development of an adequate strategy of behavior and tactics of action for its qualitative and quantitative changes ..."
      4. The point
        The point 19 August 2014 13: 14
        +3
        No matter what the athlete is, simply chrysostom.
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    2. DPZ
      DPZ 19 August 2014 09: 49
      +5
      in the days of the USSR there were no blunt pitching. Yes, athletes studied worse, because We went to competitions, to training camps, sometimes distracted from study for a long time. but there were no stupid ones among them! at least in my surroundings.
      1. devastator
        devastator 19 August 2014 23: 53
        0
        As my father explained to me, still quite a kid, in his time even the most notorious hooligans were respected because they ate beer on benches or smoked prima / belomor / hemp, and beat those who could be pulled the most in the area in football of all others, and knew how to fight better than others.
    3. RUSLAT
      RUSLAT 19 August 2014 10: 10
      +6
      Sport and quality are two different things. The same thing as botex and beauty.
  4. MSA
    MSA 19 August 2014 09: 18
    +5
    It is necessary to develop comprehensively
  5. RUSLAT
    RUSLAT 19 August 2014 09: 34
    +6
    Not only sport, but also patriotic education. What can be a concept for children if, in history lessons, a teacher admires Europe and interferes with Russia with mud. First, the brains of teachers should be set, and only then they should be allowed to the children ....
    1. Қarabas
      Қarabas 19 August 2014 10: 49
      +3
      Quote: RUSLAT
      What can be a concept for children if, in history lessons, a teacher admires Europe and interferes with Russia with mud

      )) are you still talking more about the realities of your country, I think)
      1. Walking
        Walking 19 August 2014 11: 00
        0
        We also have such admiration for the West in Karabas.
        1. Қarabas
          Қarabas 19 August 2014 11: 03
          0
          Yes? I will not argue here, I do not know
    2. skeptic2999
      skeptic2999 19 August 2014 14: 01
      +1
      Why, on the basis of meeting with one teacher (or did you come up with this example for better clarity?), Denigrate the teaching corps, and even insist on straightening the brains of teachers? I ask you to appreciate their hard work.
  6. silberwolf88
    silberwolf88 19 August 2014 09: 35
    +5
    I agree with the author ... the more we invest ... the more we give to our children ... the better it will be for the whole Country of Russia ... they are its future ... they are its builders and reformers ... so we need to work with children a lot and consistently ... it would be very useful to return the normal education system on the model of the late 60s and early 70s ... with a generalization of the experience of the best teachers ... and do not simplify the education system ... it should be of a high level .. who needs it will rise ... for the rest there is always a way ...
  7. djtyysq
    djtyysq 19 August 2014 09: 37
    +4
    Author +++++++++++++! Trust the children! If we brought them up CORRECTLY!
  8. B.T.V.
    B.T.V. 19 August 2014 09: 38
    +1
    Yes, Alexey, I agree with you 100 percent. The most important thing in raising a child is not to wait until he grows up, but to start communicating with him as with a person, with his first words spoken. It is hard and long work, but how mentally it is when they say to you: "Daughter, thank you, you raised and raised a real man."
  9. Tigrus
    Tigrus 19 August 2014 09: 39
    +1
    There are more and more stupid rolls, an example is from the USA, the trick is that these rolls go with bits and knives, brass knuckles, well, they don’t have brains to understand why they need muscles, for the beauty of intimidation. Here I’m for example now swinging and repeating physics , chemistry and many other objects which did not make sense in the nineties and the beginning of zero!
    1. RUSLAT
      RUSLAT 19 August 2014 10: 08
      +2
      Sports and pitching are two different things. You can pump the mass in a month, and the benefits are zero. Brains are also difficult to redo, for this there is parenting.
      1. Қarabas
        Қarabas 19 August 2014 10: 54
        +4
        Quote: RUSLAT
        You can pump up mass in a month, and zero benefits

        Dear, do not talk about what apparently do not know) For a month you do not pump anything. But even if it was a hyperbole, then pumping up muscles is a job! And discipline. And not everyone can!)
        1. CONTROL
          CONTROL 19 August 2014 12: 13
          +7
          stupid muscled man ... aggressive muscled man ... muscled killer ...
          these are film stamps, and Hollywood ones!
          a physically strong person is extremely rarely unreasonably aggressive, but why should he? ... if you have confidence in your physical strengths!
          By the way, the same applies to just big people - they are usually kind ...
        2. Tyumen
          Tyumen 19 August 2014 22: 30
          0
          Quote: karabas
          to build muscle - it's work! And discipline.

          This is pure narcissism. Same as plastic surgery.
  10. Zomanus
    Zomanus 19 August 2014 09: 50
    +5
    This is not a conversation about war. A conversation about instilling responsibility. So that from an early age I would understand what responsibility is, this word. That would not run away from the trench as soon as it squeezes. And then, in reality, "if only there was no war" led to the fact that they are trying to escape responsibility, blame someone else, hide behind a piece of paper ... And then the infantiles around their parents' necks live up to 35 years old, but in tanks he has no equal. And make such a person complete an important task by the deadline, so he will either get off or run away.
  11. Pro100Igor
    Pro100Igor 19 August 2014 09: 52
    +16
    What do these poor kids see? Sorry to tears.
  12. Lukerya Weaver
    Lukerya Weaver 19 August 2014 09: 54
    +6
    I am confused by the slogan - "All the best for children!" Maybe I don't understand him correctly, but I believe that children should share all the difficulties of life with their parents. When parents, denying themselves everything, dress, feed, entertain their children, they bring up dependents who believe that everyone owes them everything. They perceive parents as their service personnel and do not respect them, do not listen to their opinion. And then the parents cannot understand in any way why the child has grown this way. Everyone will probably have such examples. She herself raised her son in this way. "Delicious" has always been divided equally among all. If parents from a young age did not teach their children to respect themselves, then what values ​​can they pass on to their child? The child simply will not perceive them, because he will consider them false. So let's first teach children self-respect from the cradle, then there will be fewer questions "what has grown up with us".
  13. tag17
    tag17 19 August 2014 10: 06
    +2
    Good, correct article!
  14. Ayujak
    Ayujak 19 August 2014 10: 08
    +5
    I would like to add my 5 cents. In addition to sports and knowledge, one must not forget about art. It is imperative that a person has a sense of beauty. My son at the age of 5 is already engaged in piano, is engaged with the artist. I want to say - the sooner the better. Do not run children with iPads.
    1. Belopolyak
      Belopolyak 19 August 2014 11: 55
      0
      Quote: AYUJAK
      I would like to add my 5 cents. In addition to sports and knowledge, one must not forget about art. It is imperative that a person has a sense of beauty. My son at the age of 5 is already engaged in piano, is engaged with the artist. I want to say - the sooner the better. Do not run children with iPads.

      Well, at one time I made a fool of my parents with this very art, now I regret to be honest that I wasted time on this. If my father insisted on the section, I would now be grateful to him for it. And the feeling of beauty is all complete garbage, either a person likes something or not. My violin came in handy only once in my entire life, when my sister's greyhound classmate (completely higher and an order of magnitude older, the difference is felt by small ones) decided to build a cool one out of himself. among his peers was l about x, decided to stick to the "small", in the end got a case under the kneecap and all the show-off ended)
  15. morpeh
    morpeh 19 August 2014 10: 27
    +2
    We only have a talking shop about educating the younger generation. Earlier in every district there were children's sports schools, and free, various clubs, circles, etc. DOSAAF not only prepared for military service, but also gave a profession. Let not everyone become famous athletes, artists, etc., but they strengthened their health, broadened their horizons, coming to serve in the army, they had a specific specialty. Now, in order for children to go in for sports, parents have to shell out a tidy sum for classes in a sports club. And even then it cannot even be called classes, because they are conducted not by professional trainers, but by instructors who have received it is not clear where and how "crusts". Therefore, seias for most young people is the main occupation is "wandering" the streets or "sitting" on the Internet.
    1. Қarabas
      Қarabas 19 August 2014 11: 01
      +2
      Well, why did you write this? They tell you about each individual family, and you say that the system is ruined, children's sports schools, etc. ... Each individual can educate and raise a person! And it’s not necessary to give it to various clubs, circles and so on.
      1. cosmos132
        cosmos132 19 August 2014 11: 08
        0
        Nobody gives anyone anywhere - this is interest and their choice of a child.
    2. Owl27
      Owl27 19 August 2014 13: 08
      +2
      Well, again, "for the fish a penny" ... Again, someone is to blame for someone, there are a lot of sections at schools, houses of culture, etc., and even if you have to pay for this, it is not that much money! In our neighborhood, for example: an art and music school for children, ballroom and sports dances at the House of Officers, there is Wu-shu, there is also a football section and maybe something else I don't know about. And in the notorious Soviet years, there were a lot of my peers with "suspended sentences" in spite of a happy childhood and free sections. The author is right that the main reference point is the family! And if dad and mom didn’t take the hand in time and didn’t take the child where he was interested, then no one would do it for them! And this reasoning was .... It became .... It all depends on us, and to look for the guilty is a dead-end path.
  16. cosmos132
    cosmos132 19 August 2014 10: 59
    +6
    They are 14-16 and regular high school students. The military-industrial complex unites them, "ignites", teaches them to survive and protect!
  17. Earnest
    Earnest 19 August 2014 11: 40
    +10
    Quote: Vladimirets
    Quote: master 84
    Dokatyvsya.Children have to prepare in advance for a potential war

    And what about the war? What if not war, then a small person cannot be trusted? A simple example, close to me, why a teenager cannot now hunt under the supervision of an adult? I remember how painful it was for me to wait for the opportunity officially, without hiding and not being afraid, to go hunting, albeit under the supervision of an elder. A thumpy, overgrown kid is much more dangerous than a teenager reverently holding a real gun. After all, hunting (like any communication with nature) is a wonderful upbringing of man and citizen.

    Born and raised in the regional center in Bashkiria; sports, shooting club, photo club, tourism, hunting and fishing - it's not all to list. My grandmother lived on the outskirts near the river, so at the age of 12, the butt of a double-barreled gun in one leg, the trunks in the other, covered with a windbreaker, five cartridges in my pockets and shoved "to hunt" with the same "lame". All the neighbors understood that they were wearing pants and laughed. I understand that the district police officer knew hi What was the usual morning? In 6.45 climb, jog from the hospital to the meat factory and back, then to school. He ran to a military school, in reserve as a lieutenant colonel. Four children who, looking at the picture below, draw conclusions not in favor of the left half
  18. Eugene
    Eugene 19 August 2014 12: 03
    +2
    A bit of memory. Dembelnulsya at 86. and they don’t let me into the restaurant, no, I’m 21 years old. That means you can run away with the machine gun, but you can’t attack the restaurant. They reacted with humor. But really, my friend’s son is 34 years old. He can’t hammer a nail! He grew up before my eyes. A normal person, but when it came down to some kind of action, his mother put him aside and solved problems. Like, he’ll do it wrong. And in everything. And I know a lot of such parents. They call to help with plumbing I’m sorting it out. The host’s son is spinning nearby. 15 years. Help! No, he doesn’t know anything!
    1. Roland
      Roland 19 August 2014 12: 28
      0
      Hmm, I have some friends who cannot replace a spare tire with a car. Laughter of course, but he does not know which way the bolts are unscrewed. (I don’t take it with left-hand thread because it’s a rarity)
      He undertook to replace the candles, so he could not screw in one candle for 30 minutes. because I was trying to screw it upside down (i.e. upside down)
  19. Roland
    Roland 19 August 2014 12: 17
    +9
    The problem is more often in the parents. If the parents themselves are irresponsible, then what to demand from such children?

    Example: observed a picture. Daddy with a child who looks about four years old, on the playground. Daddy is busy drinking foam on a bench and looking at his cell phone with enthusiasm. The child went outside the playground and played (runs chaotically) along the courtyard road, where cars drive, even if not fast. I think you understand what I mean ?! A car drives along the path, and the child, in the heat of his game, throws himself under the wheels. The car braked and stopped, and, of course, the driver honked his horn. Then the dad almost pounced on the driver with his fists, saying that he almost crushed the child. And the fact that his child is running along the roadway and this dad does not see it at all or does not want to see it as if normal. And in the event of a tragedy, of course, the driver will be made to blame and will be jailed. And what's the bottom line? One life was gone, the other was broken, because the father did not bother to explain to the child that it was impossible to play on the road and did not control it.
  20. cnbv
    cnbv 19 August 2014 12: 38
    +3
    Everything is correct in the article! This is how sons should be raised. I'm 55, I have 3 of them. Study, sports and university - this is their way. I am calm for everyone. All - in good deeds. What I wish to all others! By the way, I have never drank or smoked, since I was 13 and still actively go in for sports. THIS IS THE OTHER SIDE OF THE MEDAL "EDUCATION" - A PERSONAL EXAMPLE OF THE FATHER.
  21. Intsurfer
    Intsurfer 19 August 2014 12: 44
    +8
    1. how my son and I (also engaged in fencing) took up airsoft - computer games ceased to interest him. ;)
    2. weapons - why can’t children shoot at least at shooting ranges and shooting ranges under the supervision of adults?
    3. Why are adults not eligible for free storage and transportation? I'm not interested in hunting, but I just want to shoot at plates. And cartridges can be bought in the store at the shooting range. The son is 17 years old - he, too, could shoot under the supervision of adults.
    4. Father. when I was a teenager, I went to the shooting section with my little one (like all other children) and no one was hurt.
    5. In the United States, children have owned weapons since childhood, and some may shut up the accuracy of many adults. At the same time, they, like adults, can be trained in the safe use of shooting ranges. Are Russians so dumber as Americans that they cannot be trusted with weapons ?!
    6. Recently it was in the internet. Again in the USA, an 11-year-old girl from HIS the rifle shot a cougar, which was creeping from the back to her 6-year-old brother. True, we don’t have cougars, but children also don’t have rifles ...
    7. As for the sale - in the states they also will not sell weapons to those who have fines for serious traffic violations. Nevertheless, in the hands of the sea of ​​trunks, but the states for some reason is not a deserted desert. Like Switzerland, by the way.

    Threat sorry for a lot of letters. ;)
  22. secondoy
    secondoy 19 August 2014 12: 53
    +1
    Good article, thanks!
  23. Hleb
    Hleb 19 August 2014 14: 02
    +1
    Excellent written by Alex. Comments are no less interesting)
  24. skeptic2999
    skeptic2999 19 August 2014 14: 31
    0
    Quote: RUSLAT
    Not only sport, but also patriotic education. What can be a concept for children if, in history lessons, a teacher admires Europe and interferes with Russia with mud. First, the brains of teachers should be set, and only then they should be allowed to the children ....

    Quote: Hiking
    We also have such admiration for the West in Karabas.

    Let's figure it out. In the 6th grade, they simultaneously study the history of the Middle Ages (28 hours) and the history of Russia (until the end of the 16th century). What can be denigrated here? The ancient Russian state in its socio-economic basis was similar to the "barbarian" kingdoms of Europe. We have the baptist - Saint Vladimir, among the Franks - Clovis. We have campaigns of warriors against the steppe and Constantinople, they have campaigns of the Vikings. We have wars for independence, but they also have the same (reconquista, the struggle of the Czech Hussites, the struggle of the French against the English aggressors during the Hundred Years War). And what can be denigrated here. Moreover, when describing Russian history, it is emphasized that we saved Europe from the hordes of the descendants of Genghis Khan. Who is more important to the mother of history: Joan of Arc or Princess Olga, the Serbian prince Lazar, who fell in the Kosovo field, or Dmitry Donskoy, who returned with victory from the Kulikovo field, the first printer Ivan Fedorov or the first printer John Gutenberg?
  25. skeptic2999
    skeptic2999 19 August 2014 14: 52
    0
    Continuation. In the 7th grade, they study the history of the New Age (1st part) and the history of Russia (until the end of the 18th century). Religious schism in Europe and schism in Russia. the great geographical discoveries and colonial conquests of Europeans and the advancement of Russian explorers in Siberia and the Far East. Bloody events of the English and French revolutions and bloody Troubles in Russia. Russian architecture and painting (and these are brilliant immigrants from Europe, who became Russian soul) and the art of Baroque and Classicism in Europe. No one is silent either about the atrocities of Europeans in the colonies and in Europe itself ("the Ghent pacification of the Spaniards in the Netherlands), or about the atrocities and outright sacrilege (to send the need for altars to Orthodox churches) of Polish and Lithuanian military men on Russian soil. What is the praise of Europe? And the 18th century in the history of Russia is a balm for the soul of a Russian person. ”The Chancellor of the Great Catherine Bestuzhev-Ryumin quite adequately characterized the position of Russia in the world:“ in our time, not a single cannon in Europe has dared to line without our permission. ”But at the same time both serfdom and the technological backwardness that has begun to show itself are also described quite adequately to the true state of affairs.
    1. oratai104
      oratai104 21 August 2014 02: 32
      0
      The problem is probably not only in the content of the history course, but in who and how teaches. To this is added the factor of the subject optional for the final certification. And, unequivocally, the attitude of parents to the education of the child matters.
      Your analysis of the course is both substantive and emotional. However, the fact remains. The teacher must love his homeland, his subject and his students. However, he often loves the yellow press, is serving a room, and can not stand the students of their parents and the whole country. Unfortunately this is the case.
  26. skeptic2999
    skeptic2999 19 August 2014 14: 57
    +1
    Where did my first comment go, but I will repeat it.
    Quote: RUSLAT
    Not only sport, but also patriotic education. What can be a concept for children if, in history lessons, a teacher admires Europe and interferes with Russia with mud. First, the brains of teachers should be set, and only then they should be allowed to the children ....

    Quote: Hiking
    We also have such admiration for the West in Karabas.

    In the 6th grade, they study the history of the Middle Ages and the history of Russia (until the end of the 16th century). Feudal state in Europe and in Russia - the essence of socio-economic and political structures are similar. Moreover, it must be noted that Russia saved Europe from the troops of the descendants of Genghis Khan. And what is there to denigrate or vice versa exalt. history is primarily the people who create it. in the words of Vladimir Vladimirovich: "who is more important to the mother of history" - the Serbian prince Lazar, who died in the Kosovo field or Dmitry Donskoy, who returned with victory from the Kulikov field; Joan of Arc or Evpatiy Kolovrat. Who possessed great courage: the defenders of Kiev in 1240 or the defenders of Constantinople in 1453? What is more important for world art and literature - the Church of the Intercession on the Nerl or the Cathedral of St. Peter and Paul in Rome, "the word about Igor's regiment" or "the knight in the panther's skin". The insidious Louis XI, who by force and cunning accomplished the unification of France and rotted his enemies to death in cages, or the Terrible Tsar Ivan IV with all his real and attributed actions? The story is as it is.
  27. zakidon73
    zakidon73 19 August 2014 18: 04
    +3
    I am a teacher, trainer, with experience working with children for more than 15 years ...
    We have big problems in the education system (and not only patriotic, by the way, in my childhood I was not taught patriotism purposefully - this was a matter of course), as an example: in the city of Norilsk, in the military sports camp "Boys of the North" on "initiative" education officials, children cannot go on a multi-day hike, children cannot eat food cooked on a fire, children cannot even go on a one-day hike. But the boys in this camp were given board games for GIRLS, and jump ropes for GIRLS (pink with pink edges on the handles) !!! Because in the office sit aunt who all FSUs, and sometimes tries.
    Again, in Norilsk we’ve been struggling with the administration for three years now for the opportunity to place several sites in the city with horizontal bars and bars - in our city there is only one horizontal bar and some bars and this is not a joke, but a bitter truth. The sponsors have already given money, but the authorities do not want to allocate land, nor does anyone want to take responsibility - including the head of the city.
    In general, physical education lessons should be replaced with exercises by combat systems. Physical education lessons are a set of physical exercises that are often not related to each other both in the lesson and throughout the entire training period. But combat systems are an opportunity to work out with acrobatics and track and field athletics and all-around, and planned training is designed for years.
    1. Intsurfer
      Intsurfer 19 August 2014 19: 47
      +1
      we in Nizhny Novgorod are better in this regard. I go to work through one square and there this year they made a sports ground with horizontal bars, bars, etc. The boys are full in the morning.
    2. oratai104
      oratai104 21 August 2014 02: 46
      +1
      This is due to the reluctance of local officials to work for people. Try to turn to the Chairman of the Council of People’s Deputies; they have the opportunity to influence the situation both financially and morally. In our city of Ryazan, in the courtyards are children's play complexes with sports nodes (horizontal bars and bars, I even saw poles); also, open-air sports centers (probably) near each school (each in our area), college, institute. Plus, there are already and still are installing in the parks and squares of the site like an open-air gym. Engaged, would be a desire.
  28. LCA
    LCA 19 August 2014 20: 57
    +1
    On the site www.vodaspb.ru BER (Login) - Books (chronological) - p. 35
    http://www.vodaspb.ru/russian/indexrus.html

    VP of the USSR
    35. Society: statehood and family.

    Working materials:

    On the issue of developing a state policy to support the institution of the family in the process of social development.
    April 22 - August 8, 2004

    Table of Contents:

    Introduction.

    1. Family and statehood: what is what.
    2. What is required of the family; a family of many generations as the type of family that underlies the crisis-free development of society.
    3. Social criteria of man's upbringing.
    4. On the principles of state support policies and social protection of individuals and families.
    5. Repression: as a means of self-defense of society or as the essence of politics.
    6. The main problem of society.
    7. Domestic sources of discord in families.
    8. Male drunkenness and alcoholism in family life.
    9. About the state strategy of family support and child protection.
    9.1. The issue of alimony, allegedly levied in order to support children.
    9.2. The reasons why in our days seemingly quite prosperous families need state support and help.
    9.3. State financial support for the family with dominance in the society of inhuman types of the psyche system.
    10. How to organize all this?
    10.1. Where to get the money?
    10.2. Labor is able to give everything necessary to everyone and everyone, if parasites do not interfere with this.

    Housing solution.
    On motivation for conscientious work.
  29. Silent
    Silent 19 August 2014 21: 06
    +3
    And here in Ryazan, in the "youth" park, they set up a platform with exercise equipment. For some reason they are called "fun", but quite decent. Before the opening, while they were still screwed into the asphalt, dads-moms with their offspring broke them twice. I see a picture: with dad and mom, the offspring diligently breaks the simulator. I draw the attention of parents. Mom opens his mouth, papa almost gets into a fight, since my two "wolfhounds" on leashes do not give him room for maneuver. Until 12 at night in the same park every day! oil painting - parents with beer, children crawling in the sandbox. In the morning at 8, their sleepy, capricious mothers drag them to the d / garden. Oh, crying, nerves, twitching.
    Moral: you need to start only with your parents! So - only from yourself!
  30. Cresta999
    Cresta999 19 August 2014 23: 35
    +2
    In Moscow or St. Petersburg, this article should be posted wherever possible. There, parents have seen enough of Western standards of education. The farther from the Moscow Ring Road, the less need to explain such things.
  31. gammipapa
    gammipapa 20 August 2014 00: 18
    +3
    Do you know how many other people's children there are without due attention? Properly educate people is the main goal of any parent. If you can’t educate your own, then you are just trash and not a person.
    But who tried to set the brains of a stranger?
    For example, I often attract various young people to work and educate and take care of my personal ones. And not in order to look like it’s beautiful, it’s not just that it feels good when a person seems to be wrong and thanks to your care and guardianship becomes a real respected man. Everything is interconnected and when I will be old and weak, my students always put your shoulder. Years go by quickly and it’s very nice to see that life has not lived in vain, not grabbing and not rowing for yourself. Everything that I invested in young people works for the good, and rightly so.
  32. old man 72
    old man 72 20 August 2014 02: 00
    +1
    I agree with you Alex! It is necessary, even necessary, to trust children, and at the same time not to forget about parental control, but this should be done not rigidly, but in a softly normal language explaining the situation that has arisen. Children should not be indulged in their whims because they quickly use them to achieve their goals. it’s cruel to punish children in the future, but as they say, sometimes it’s possible to reach your head faster with your palm. In short, you need to gently but persistently teach children to perform their duties and understand the meaning of the word, although we are parents in pursuit of benefits we forget about it ourselves, and then we wonder why such children grew up in our country. And our indifference and indifference to everything that does not concern us has a lot to do with the upbringing, and the children see everything and absorb everything like a sponge. Maybe I'm wrong in my 72 years, but life taught me this.
  33. solvi
    solvi 20 August 2014 14: 40
    +1
    Trust, responsibility, and therefore - devotion. Thank you for the article!
  34. MAXIMUS
    MAXIMUS 20 August 2014 16: 35
    +1
    The article is, of course, absolutely correct. Children need to be dealt with. It is necessary to "invest" yourself in your children. Indeed, the responsibility for their actions will lie with the parents. I will quote the words of the great Friedrich Nietzsche:
    "Why does any death penalty insult us more than murder? This is explained by the coldness of the judge, the painful preparation, the consciousness that here a person is used as a means to frighten others. For guilt is not punished, even if there were guilt at all: it lies with the educators, parents, the environment, ourselves, not the perpetrator - I mean the incentive. "
  35. cap54
    cap54 21 August 2014 22: 00
    +1
    The article is excellent, put a big + ...
    For us, this was a manifestation of the highest trust that can only exist. Of us, none have ever failed our coaches. Not with anything!

    Do not be afraid to trust them, do not be afraid that they will be burned, and more than once.

    ... But it also happens: The coach was not afraid and was not afraid of anything, but how it turned out ...
    [media = http: //www.city-n.ru/view/344844.html]
  36. Alfizik
    Alfizik 21 August 2014 23: 33
    +1
    Someone put a minus in the "rating of the article". Probably a gamer. Or a lover of Coca-Cola and T-shirts with an American or English flag. Can you trust them? "Plus" put almost 200.
    1. blackberry
      blackberry 24 August 2014 20: 01
      +1
      Quote: Alfizik
      Someone put a minus in the "rating of the article". Probably a gamer. Or a lover of Coca-Cola and T-shirts with an American or English flag. Can you trust them? "Plus" put almost 200.

      not necessarily a Coca-Cola lover. It could be a convinced pacifist, for example. Pacifism is not close to me, probably because evil can not always (and, perhaps, rarely ever) be stopped without a counterpower. But this is my method of life in society, but for pacifists it is another. Maybe they are kinder than me. Maybe I just see the world more realistically, maybe they live in some beautiful place where people don’t lock their houses and strangers don’t go there. Not necessarily they are renegades.

      PS The article is very sincere, even kind, with all its interconnection with the weapons and war of several generations of the family. Maybe because there is not a single word of threat or bragging about force that is now and then coming across from the military theme, here is concern for people and responsibility for a trusted business. It seems to me that now this has been lost by society - a sense of responsibility for the weapons that you own, and for the cause that you are entrusted with.

      This euphoria of permissiveness - we teach people to own / manage something, but we do not instill internal brakes on the application of knowledge. And without such brakes, any knowledge is dangerous - even banking. And society begins to generate laws to limit ownership, limit the quantity, lethal force and so on. And still - it does not help. Without internal control and responsibility, there will always be a loophole for the scoundrel or infantile. And this internal control must grow with knowledge.

      You can’t just say - well, you’ve grown up - now answer. This is how to say - read the textbook - now you are a specialist. Responsibility also requires training, juxtaposing one's strengths and those around one, the ability to wait and agree, to concede and lead, to be responsible for oneself and for everyone. So it turns out that you can’t do without handing over to the children some business and responsibility for it, not avoiding overlaps and mistakes, loss of faith in yourself and repeated repetitions until you manage to do it right.

      In this sense, the amateur sport of Soviet times had a colossal educational value. Such a system of trusting a small person with little responsibility for their actions and for teamwork. Gradually build up as you train and mature. Now I would even say that the state did not waste money on school sports, but invested in continuous training of the team and individual responsibility of its future workers and defenders. And Olympic victories are such a side effect. Bonus. Even without medals, school sports were beneficial to the country. The system of trusting a small person of a small task made up for the cost or lack of such trust + responsibility training in families.

      I consider this to be a competent replenishment of family education, if it has stalled, and not what is now considered to be some kind of social responsibility. Sounds like a handout. And then the society lives with the results of this self-elimination - infantile owners of small arms or karate belts. Or bankers. Directors of enterprises.

      It turned out somehow dragged out, but - the topic raised by the article aroused such thoughts.
  37. Vladimirovna
    Vladimirovna 22 August 2014 00: 15
    +2
    Thanks to the author! yes
  38. Nikaviz
    Nikaviz 22 August 2014 01: 16
    +1
    FOR_ZA_ZA !!!!!! good
  39. Grandfather Crimea
    Grandfather Crimea 5 March 2020 23: 56
    0
    A good and correct article)))!