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How to raise a defender of the motherland?

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How to raise a defender of the motherland?



When a boy appears in the family, all the grandparents, together with their parents, dream of growing up to be a brave, courageous, responsible, independent, kind, caring and self-confident person.

Only many people forget that it will take a lot of effort to achieve this in order for the dear little man to become a real man, the pride of the whole family. Of course, everyone has their own opinion about the qualities that a real man should possess. Some believe that he should be strong and courageous, others - sensitive and caring, but there are those who suggest that the concept of "real man" is something from the realm of fantasy. Time changes people and their opinions about the qualities that a modern man should possess. For example, if before strength and courage were to be indispensable features of every man, then in the modern world, such qualities as diplomacy and tact come to the fore. Perhaps this is due to the fact that just a couple of centuries ago, a real man should defend his point of view with the help of force, but now the ability to convince and high intellectual abilities is more suitable for resolving any conflict.

Of course, the development of the intellect cannot prevent a man from maintaining his physical form at a good level. Parents should encourage their children to attend sports clubs, gyms, swimming pools, etc. However, the use of force in a dispute by a boy or a man to prove his courage to others is hardly worthy of the respect of society and, most likely, will testify only about the improper behavior of a person.

A man in his life also meets with pain, grief, loss. And there is nothing wrong when a man cries. This statement destroys the prevailing stereotype that men never cry. According to psychologists, those who do not want to splash their emotions outward, as a rule, shorten their lives, thereby leaving their loved ones without male support. As teachers say, parents who impose an erroneous stereotype of behavior on their sons, forbidding them to show emotions, cause irreparable harm to their psyche. Good parents who think about the future of their sons will not make them “emotional disabled”. The family of the future man needs to make maximum efforts to teach the child to express his emotions and feelings without damaging his dignity.

Surprisingly, psychologists believe that the emotional needs of boys are higher than girls. This means that separation, failure, resentment, etc. they experience sharper. It is very important at an early age to cultivate communication skills in a growing man, the ability to share toys and get out of conflict situations without fights. Parents should help the child to successfully adapt to the new team for him: kindergarten, sports section, school, etc. Another prerequisite for the upbringing of a real man: the child should deal only with what he likes. It does not matter if he is not interested in playing football, perhaps he will be suitable for other sports, orienteering, tourism or participation in search teams - the main thing is that he chooses for himself an occupation.

At all times, men valued such qualities as independence and independence. Raising independence is necessary from the first steps of the baby. Let it be a failed attempt to eat porridge yourself without the help of adults. And it does not matter that all the clothes, furniture and dishes will be in this mess - the main thing is a victory over yourself and a manifestation of independence. A teenager, especially, should be given the opportunity to make independent decisions and encourage her own point of view: parents do not have to agree with her, but they need to be respected. The imposition by adults of their point of view of a teenager will only bring harm to a young man. The way out of this situation is to try convincingly to convince the son of the fallacy of his position.

According to the findings of psychologists, as a rule, in the family, boys are comfortable with their mothers, but their father is still the role model for them. No wonder the people say that the apple does not fall far from the apple tree. If the father spends most of the time with a bottle of beer at the TV, the son will soon repeat the words he heard from his father and finish drinking beer from the bottles.

The example of the father always has a huge impact on the future man. Of course, it is of great importance when the father of the family spends a lot of time in the circle of his relatives and, especially, children. But the father must devote time to the boy and personally. This will strengthen their friendship, mutual understanding and trust.

At all times, the man is associated with the image of the defender. But there can be no abstract defender, a man should have a developed sense of patriotism and readiness with weapons in the hands to defend the freedom of their homeland.

The well-known Russian teacher D.I. Pisarev believed that the feeling of patriotism is manifested as love for all of humanity. It may be difficult to convince a modern teenager to treat with love a certain concept for him, like humanity. He is closer to the love of relatives and friends than to strangers.

N.A. Dobrolyubov in his works on pedagogy, he divided the dynamics of the development of patriotism in children into several stages. The meaning of transitions from one state to another is the growth from unconditional feeling to a true and conscious attitude towards the Motherland and the need not only to love it, but also to protect it.

Younger schoolchildren and preschoolers perceive patriotism instinctively, as a kind of axiom “I love the Motherland, but for what I do not know.” This period is very important for the further education of a citizen of his country - since it is the first step towards readiness to accept conscious patriotism.

But the teenager, feeling the care and love of loved ones, penetrates them with a sense of gratitude. He can already feel an attachment to the physical environment — to the fields, forests, mountains, valleys, and other places that make him pleasant memories for the rest of his life. And all that a teenager, and then an adult man, loves and values ​​so much, he will strive and protect as his Motherland. One should not underestimate the influence on the future defender of the Fatherland and the spiritual environment: literature, science, art, historical and cultural heritage, etc. You can not bring up a fully developed person without instilling in him a love for a healthy lifestyle. Under the influence of many factors, a teenager turns into a thinking, healthy, strong, intelligent person who understands perfectly well that patriotism is manifested not only in the struggle with an external enemy, but also in the absence of fear of following the dear truth in any situation.

There is a well-known truth - you can be able to die for Russia, and can we live for it? The readiness of the younger generation to defend their homeland with arms in hand is very important, but it is equally important to teach him how to work for the good of the country.

A country cannot have a peaceful future if it does not have reliable defenders of its borders. In order for adolescents to develop a love for the Motherland, pride in the feat of grandfathers who defended their Fatherland, society must make efforts to increase adolescents' interest in military-applied sports, develop strong-willed qualities, physical skills and readiness to protect Russia.

The formation of a real man is influenced not only by the family, but also by the people around the child. And it can be said with confidence that if every member of society recognizes his responsibility for raising the boy, then this society, subsequently, will receive a reliable, intelligent, skillful advocate, and, most importantly, a person.

Materials used:
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http://ourboys.ru/upbringing
http://www.psychologos.ru/articles/view/vospitanie_malchika
http://www.portal-slovo.ru/pedagogy/38041.php
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  1. LaGlobal
    LaGlobal April 22 2013 08: 46 New
    +8
    Advocacy since the birth of a child! Absorb it all you need! And of course, it all depends on the education of the parents themselves! -
    No wonder people say that the apple is not far from the apple tree.


    1. starshina78
      starshina78 April 22 2013 09: 11 New
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      I agree ! To me, and to many who lived in the USSR, I grew up, was brought up on the ideals of love of devotion to the Motherland; for whom the heroes were Pavka Korchagin and Chapaev; who played war games, and the appointment to play on the side of the fascists infuriated and to a fight; who dreamed of becoming an astronaut, sailor, pilot; for whom service in the army and navy was an honorable duty (if you didn’t serve for any reason, then no girl will ever meet with you), today's rattle about raising the level of patriotism in countries seems nonsense. A person born in a country that gave him education, where his parents and ancestors live and live, who took care of him, cannot be unloved and stepmother. Unfortunately, we can recognize the fact that in some cases she still can be a stepmother. It is painful and incomprehensible to my generation when, when they reach the age of 18, my parents start looking for an opportunity to smear a child, and he sits at a computer, plays shooters, and squeals that he is afraid and does not want to serve, that he does not owe anything to this country, and indeed he does not need her and wants to leave her. What is it called? In my opinion, betrayal! I myself have a son, and when he turned 18, his wife cried out: "How will he go to serve, he is still a child, etc.!". Served nothing, and says thank you for not being smeared, but there was an opportunity. Then in the USSR we had heroes and ideals, love for the Motherland was brought up in us through examples from the history of the country, war heroes, participation in the October and Pioneer movement, and the Komsomol. Our heroes were Korchagin and the Young Guards, Sailors and Gagarin. And what are the heroes now? Deripaska and Abramovich? Hence the attitude to the country as to a "cash cow". Everything is demanded of the country, but no return. Like, she is obliged! Everyone forgets about their duty. This is precisely what needs to be brought up in the younger generation, that every citizen is obliged to help the country, love it, protect it, study and apply their knowledge here, and not in the "Silicon Valley".
      1. Light source
        Light source April 22 2013 10: 08 New
        -8
        In one famous year, a handful of officials ruined a country where
        Quote: starshina78
        To me, and to many who lived in the USSR, I grew up, was brought up on the ideals of love of devotion to the Motherland

        In the USSR there was a destructive attitude towards patriotism. The proof is the absence of the USSR. And so people with Soviet education say:
        Quote: starshina78
        It is painful and incomprehensible to my generation when, when they reach the age of 18, my parents start looking for an opportunity to smear a child, and he sits at a computer, plays shooters, and squeals that he is afraid and does not want to serve, that he does not owe anything to this country, and indeed he does not need her and wants to leave her. What is it called? In my opinion, betrayal!

        It’s strange, because all these traitors with Soviet education and with the Soviet wonderful patriotic education.
        1. rereture
          rereture April 22 2013 10: 18 New
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          Quote: Light Source
          and squeals that he is afraid and does not want to serve


          Parents are afraid for the health and life of their son, and that's what they do. The Chechen war 1 and 2 affected, when not warmed conscripts died.
          1. Light source
            Light source April 22 2013 10: 47 New
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            rereture, correct, I did not write this!

            Quote: rereture
            Quote: Light Source
            and squeals that he is afraid and does not want to serve

            Parents are afraid for the health and life of their son, and that's what they do. The Chechen war 1 and 2 affected, when not warmed conscripts died.
        2. Armata
          Armata April 22 2013 10: 41 New
          +7
          Quote: Light Source
          It’s strange, because all these traitors with Soviet education and with the Soviet wonderful patriotic education.
          No need to measure the whole country by units of traitors. Nobody was going to scream. My senior quite consciously went into the army, and then another 1 year for a contract (by the way, this is all because of screeches about the dangers of the army, hazing, etc. There was simply no one to serve) Although I could arrange it at the UPI for any faculty to do provide not the worst job. The younger will also go to serve like everyone else, and there will be no concessions. So I will bring them up and will bring up. Although born in the USSR and the type of pseudo-patriot in your opinion.
          1. Light source
            Light source April 22 2013 10: 53 New
            +1
            Quote: Mechanic
            Although born in the USSR and the type of pseudo-patriot in your opinion.

            I wrote another. I repeat in other words: People who destroyed the Union also have a Soviet education. And to raise this formation is not right, because no longer the Union. The best thing that can be done is to borrow what was good.
        3. starshina78
          starshina78 April 22 2013 11: 59 New
          +3
          Do you blame me for the collapse and destruction of the USSR? Or do you blame everyone who received Soviet education in the collapse and destruction of the USSR? I believe that I am in no way (like many others who participated in the referendum on the preservation of the USSR) not responsible for the collapse of the USSR. I and most of the inhabitants of the USSR voted to preserve the Union, which was not included in the plans of Yeltsin, Kravchuk and Shushkevich. They wanted power, to become independent princes and to rule individually in their republic, and the signing by them of the “Treaty on the Creation of the Union of Independent States” in Belovezhskaya Pushcha is a real betrayal. Do not confuse “God's Gift with fried eggs”, and blame everyone for betrayal. Where did you get that in the USSR there was a "destructive attitude towards patriotism"? Just patriotism in the USSR was at the highest level. Is it not a manifestation of patriotism and love for the motherland were the exploits of the people in the war, the victories of our athletes at the Olympics and world and European championships, and many more examples. we didn’t go to Harvard and Oxford to study, because we had the best education, and we went to study with us, and this is also patriotism. Patriotism has many guises and entities. Local historian, who makes up the history of his land, a patriot of his land, and a person who writes the history of Russia. also a patriot. And there are many examples of this. You and others like you can only blame everyone and everything, and at the same time do nothing. Since it so happened that the USSR ceased to exist, and we live in Russia, then do not "lower" our homeland - Russia even further down. we must try, by hook or by crook, to try to instill a love for Russia, but so far this is not working out well. While the children of officials and deputies will study abroad, while they will go to be treated there, while American TV bullshit will prevail on our TVs and movie theaters, while American stars will be ideal for boys and girls, there will be no patriotism in Russia. and you and others like you will blame others for anything, but without doing anything.
          1. 101
            101 April 22 2013 13: 08 New
            +3
            Quote: starshina78
            while Americanos stars are ideal for boys and girls
            How do they know that there are other films? The grandson turned 9 years old. He used to watch star wars with enthusiasm. Now they look. Only old people go to battle. They fought for their homeland. He asks for such films. Who will give our children what we need for a correct understanding of life?
          2. Light source
            Light source April 22 2013 21: 12 New
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            Quote: starshina78
            Do you blame me for the collapse and destruction of the USSR? Or do you blame everyone who received Soviet education in the collapse and destruction of the USSR?

            No, I blame Yeltsin and others like him.

            Quote: starshina78
            I and most residents of the USSR voted to preserve the Union

            You voted, you are not guilty, this is all Yeltsin and the company.
            Why not attack us like Hitler or Napoleon? All they have to do is get into power under good slogans and then dissolve the country. But you will vote and you will not be guilty. Oh well.

            Quote: starshina78
            blame everyone for betrayal

            Lying.
            Quote: starshina78
            Where did you get that in the USSR there was a "destructive attitude towards patriotism"?

            USSR no more. Where are the patriots? Oh yes. They voted.

            Quote: starshina78
            You and others like you can only blame everyone and everything, and at the same time do nothing.

            And who am I?

            Quote: starshina78
            While the children of officials and deputies will study abroad

            This was not the case in the Soviet Union. But, I agree. Youngsters are given to someone else's education.

            Quote: starshina78
            while American TV bullshit will prevail on our TVs and cinemas, while American stars will be ideal for boys and girls, there will be no patriotism in Russia

            This is not connected with patriotism. This was not the case in the USSR, and the USSR itself is no longer there.

            Quote: starshina78
            and you and others like you will blame others for anything, but without doing anything

            On the basis of what are you insulting me like that?
        4. Harleone
          Harleone April 22 2013 16: 24 New
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          Of course, the “child” wants to leave the country; there are no prospects for youth in this country. They pay little at the factories, even less at school, there is no science as such, in fact there is no homeland either. And here the principle of a market economy (which our current "Motherland" cultivates) begins to work - is simply unprofitable to live in Russia. Hence the brain drain.
        5. washi
          washi April 22 2013 17: 34 New
          +3
          In the USSR there was a destructive attitude towards patriotism. The proof is the absence of the USSR.
          Sorry, but we are military people. They sat in August 91, swearing and waiting for the team.
          It’s strange, because all these traitors with Soviet education and with the Soviet wonderful patriotic education.
          Do you remember how much shit fell out on the Armed Forces, the Ministry of Internal Affairs, the KGB since 1985? Having read all these sad editions, I, serving, went nuts. Where did they get it all from. I read to the soldiers. The soldiers went nuts even more. And on a civilian they scared everyone. Hunger, cold, beatings, violence, etc. Having read the press, I would also refuse to give my child to the service. But I myself served and knew the reality. He spoke, explained, but after the arrival of the media, even my aunt did not believe me.
          1. Denis
            Denis April 22 2013 18: 45 New
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            Quote: Vasya
            Where did they get it all
            The hosts have prepared. The same notorious Dulles plan and he is far from alone
          2. Light source
            Light source April 22 2013 21: 20 New
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            Quote: Vasya
            Sorry, but we are military people. They sat in August 91, swearing and waiting for the team.

            I am writing to everyone.
            Do you understand what is happening? What is the system? The country is felled, and the military are waiting for the team. From whom? From those who bring down! Armed to the teeth, they see everything, and wait ... Soviet education! Soviet patriotism! See the mistake?
      2. rereture
        rereture April 22 2013 10: 14 New
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        Quote: starshina78
        I agree ! To me, and to many who lived in the USSR, I grew up, was brought up on the ideals of love of devotion to the Motherland; for whom the heroes were Pavka Korchagin and Chapaev; who played war games


        Born in Russia, they also played war games, and took the girls with them (they ran bandaged up with the green) laughing
      3. Denis
        Denis April 22 2013 10: 43 New
        +6
        Quote: starshina78
        What is it called? In my opinion, betrayal
        Traitors or who ...
        Absolutely unwise. The familiar father of two sons made fun of the fact that they regretted the money for the otmosis from the army, now he doesn’t laugh.
      4. Harleone
        Harleone April 22 2013 16: 25 New
        +1
        Of course, the “child” wants to leave the country; there are no prospects for youth in this country. They pay little at the factories, even less at school, there is no science as such, in fact there is no homeland either. And here the principle of a market economy (which our current "Motherland" cultivates) begins to work - is simply unprofitable to live in Russia. Hence the brain drain.
      5. Dejavu
        Dejavu April 23 2013 06: 08 New
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        Ehh, while teachers in schools will be given scolding for the fact that they begin to raise children, and not just transfer knowledge - to be our children as fellow villagers. I still remember with horror the stories of how high school students threw a wet rag at a German teacher. And she could not do ANYTHING for anyone, for she could not even tell anyone this since she was ashamed. These kids at the time with a shovel on the ridge for this, and then you can tell about love for the motherland.
        The saddest thing is that teachers themselves do not believe in what they are teaching. Miserable personalities work, former threesomes from the Ped Universes (still for a salary of 12 tr) and do not know what love for the Motherland is. Parents of patriots are also not so many. Mommy’s chicks (my child couldn’t do this) and dad daddy, who don’t need anything. But still, I believe that the Russian spirit of love for the Fatherland will still break through. It will once be fashionable to say: "I am Russian and I love Russia." May God live and see this.
    2. tttttt
      tttttt April 22 2013 10: 27 New
      +5
      Yeah. And I think that propaganda is even before birth. Guys, how much can you say ... Call your children Russian names. Not Latin, not Jewish, not Greek (which is the same thing). And then wonder why the child is looking towards the west. One clown, an acquaintance, called his son by the name of Matthew, and then his face frowned that it was not Russian (Jewish) but it was already too late. But how many beautiful native Russian, Slavic names, pre-Christian, non-church, planted for centuries. Propaganda? Yes, just print out on A3 the list of Old Slavic names and go pin it with nails to the door of the hospital. I am sure they will read, they will choose very beautiful Russian names.
      1. Hort
        Hort April 22 2013 11: 48 New
        +4
        I absolutely support! My first (when God gives) Svyatoslav will be smile
        1. Armata
          Armata April 22 2013 11: 58 New
          +5
          Quote: hort
          My first (when God gives) Svyatoslav will be
          I have a younger Yaroslav laughing
          1. tttttt
            tttttt April 22 2013 13: 42 New
            +4
            Well, it means you are a plus for your guys.
      2. fartfraer
        fartfraer April 22 2013 18: 23 New
        +1
        "Call your children Russian names. Not Latin, not Jewish, not Greek (which is the same thing)" - my name is Andrew, the name seems to be Greek. One grandfather is gypsy, and the second crest. And even if my son will be called Izya I’ll send a nafig of all the “fascists” and send him to the army humanly. I know a man named Spartak. reserve officer (like the Airborne Forces), an excellent melee, security chief. For such a comment you might bend your face, it seems to me.
        1. Armata
          Armata April 22 2013 18: 30 New
          +2
          Quote: fartfraer
          and I’ll send him to the army humanly. I know a man named Spartak. reserve officer (like the Airborne Forces), an excellent melee, security chief. For such a comment, I could bend your face, it seems to me.
          A man named Spartak probably does not hesitate to say that he is not a Slav? shy of their nationality is shameful. I am a Slav and my children are IVAN and YAROSLAV. So nefig dust towards the Slavs.
          1. fartfraer
            fartfraer April 23 2013 11: 45 New
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            he’s not a Slav? well, maybe we have Russians now not Slavs)) or what? Spartak Ivanovich is his name, and his brother Vasily) are solid lumps, aren’t there?) there is no dust on my part, I just showed you that among Russians there are different names, do not judge a person by name.
  2. Denis
    Denis April 22 2013 08: 48 New
    +6
    Blah blah blah at the advice level to a young wife
    Parents should encourage their children to visit sports clubs, gyms, swimming pools, etc.
    If the children saw the pool only on TV, which is not worth watching in the first place, or should parents start digging it out themselves?
    Woe-author beyond the Moscow Ring Road even visited?
    1. fartfraer
      fartfraer April 22 2013 18: 27 New
      +2
      Denis-as an option horizontal bar, dumbbells, kettlebell and running. And there are enough rivers and lakes for swimming in most regions and regions of the Russian Federation, there would be a desire. By the way, skiing and shooting (even with pneumatics at a dash once a week for general development) are prepared from the kid is not only a “biathlete”, but also a good sniper for the army (for example), + various clubs of military-patriotic education have still remained or revived. we (in Tomsk) have, I know for sure)
      1. Denis
        Denis April 22 2013 18: 42 New
        +1
        Quote: fartfraer
        as an option horizontal bar, dumbbell, kettlebell and run
        I completely agree with this, but not with how deputies as if for health nations struggled to pass laws against smoking. If even every nonsense was just a horizontal bar (it’s not serious, it’s a penny, you don’t have to steal anything), there would be more health benefits. Are there many hockey boxes now, very complex engineering structures now in the courtyards? The author also sets out only general phrases and slogans
        There are clubs, but they don’t have anything, even gyms are now fitness clubs. Often, the thieving director of a recreation center club or club will do it only on paper, and he’ll pocket an instructor’s small bet
        1. fartfraer
          fartfraer April 23 2013 11: 52 New
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          Denis, I’ll tell you exactly about Tomsk — we have a man who organized the national movement himself, now we are building horizontal bars, we plan to restore the hockey courtyard box (we’ll just save some money), the organizer found sympathetic “advertisers” - they print posters with Russian paintings for the school artists, etc. don’t rely on the state, it didn’t spit on us. make the turnstiles in the yard yourself, and then show by your own example that this is not a frame for knocking out carpets) guys, only we ourselves can fix something, only we ourselves are needed, do not rely on the state, make horizontal bars, make boxes, take children there. Otherwise, we will die out like mammoths.
  3. UFO
    UFO April 22 2013 09: 15 New
    +5
    You just need to return to the historical examples of education, and not be afraid to give the kid a belt if he is impudent before his eyes. yes And then all state education was reduced to tolerance, tolerance and permissiveness. And then - where do we get addicts and pid .... aces? what
  4. omsbon
    omsbon April 22 2013 09: 25 New
    +3
    It is impossible to raise a child in isolation from the media, schools. If he sees on TV freaks from home-2, hear pid .... kie sermons, then nothing will work!
    Patriotic education is possible only in the complex: family, school, media.
  5. Ser 47RUS
    Ser 47RUS April 22 2013 09: 38 New
    -2
    And whom or what did you mean by the word MOTHERLAND and FOUNDATION?
    Serdyukov, Zhirinovsky, Medvedev.
    It smacks of communes.
    1. Boris55
      Boris55 April 22 2013 09: 49 New
      +3
      You confuse the concept of homeland with individuals. It's like comparing wet to round.
      Only Christian Russia is more than 1000 years old, not to mention before Christian times ... For its entire existence, not only many rulers have been replaced, but not one social system has changed, and Russia as it was is.
      Do you really think that because of a couple of villains the whole country will disappear from the world map? Do not expect! Survive them.
      Defend the Homeland, not individuals. To do this, they have personal protection.
      1. Light source
        Light source April 22 2013 10: 11 New
        -5
        Quote: Boris55
        Do you really think that because of a couple of villains the whole country will disappear from the world map?

        One more. Well, where is the USSR?
        1. Boris55
          Boris55 April 22 2013 10: 23 New
          -1
          Quote: Light Source
          One more. Well, where is the USSR?

          One more. Go to the guard to the delegators, if the brains are not enough for the Homeland.
          Because of such clever people who got their bearings on glass beads, Russia (USSR) lost a part of its territory not for long ...
          1. Light source
            Light source April 22 2013 10: 40 New
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            Quote: Boris55
            One more. Go to the guard to the delegators, if the brains are not enough for the Homeland.
            Because of such clever people who got their bearings on glass beads, Russia (USSR) lost a part of its territory not for long ...

            I have enough brains. And the country fell apart because of people who think that
            in the USSR there was a patriotic upbringing that a couple of villains cannot influence a country, etc.
            Now you explain your logic, on the basis of which, you concluded that I was interested in glass beads and participated in inaction when the country was crushed?
        2. lubin
          lubin April 22 2013 10: 58 New
          +1
          Only the one who does nothing is not mistaken. I was born in the USSR, I know its shortcomings, for example: atheism, one-party system, etc. But there is more good and I will certainly convey this to my children. And I have no doubt that for most people the concepts CONSCIENCE and HONOR even with honor and joint efforts we will overcome this liberalism. FAITH in this and gives me HOPE in the bright future of our country.
          1. Denis
            Denis April 22 2013 11: 39 New
            +4
            Quote: lubin
            I was born in the USSR, I know its shortcomings, for example: atheism, one-party system, etc.
            Atheism? At one time, I was five dozen, I did not see any special persecution of religion, only minor tapping. Now it’s fashionable, but they want to deceive whom?
            Well, with a one-party system, he laughed for a long time. Now there are a lot of them, lots like dirt, but what's the point?
            The name does not change anything, no matter what ticket to get through to the feeder
            1. lubin
              lubin April 22 2013 12: 33 New
              +1
              Dear Denis, I think you will agree that people can have different outlooks on life. I’m also a dozen and I remember the party attitude to religion as I and several other guys on the school line were expelled from the pioneers because we went to Christmas to glorify Christ, after a while the tie was returned but the sediment remained. and I have no doubt people can give a lot of examples on this subject. And as for the parasites rushing to the feeder, you are right here, you need to do something about it. And you can’t do with one ideology. But if we will suspect all people of meanness then we don’t need to live. Well, a person cannot live without faith in a good light. I think so.
              1. Denis
                Denis April 22 2013 13: 12 New
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                Quote: lubin
                on the school line expelled from the pioneers
                Did they lose a lot?
                That was the yanking of probably undressed school aunts
                But if we suspect all people of meanness
                Not everyone, then paranoia
                Those who climb into power. The path to power is the path of diplomacy and compromise.
                And if you translate it from official to human, it’s a sneak and betrayal. Otherwise, they’ll eat their own
    2. Denis
      Denis April 22 2013 10: 45 New
      +3
      Quote: Ser 47RUS
      Serdyukov, Zhirinovsky, Medvedev
      This g ... comes and goes, or rather swims
      Homeland forever
    3. Mairos
      Mairos April 22 2013 11: 31 New
      +4
      Do you see the difference between the concepts of COUNTRY and STATE? If not, then this is sad.
  6. ildar335
    ildar335 April 22 2013 09: 47 New
    +6
    1) to return the war organizations of the youth of the Komsomol type (even the great-grandmother and grandmother had the badges "Voroshilovsky shooter")
    2) in schools, to return the military fees taking place in the military units (my classmate almost sobbed when I found out that he was not taking on fees because he did not pass the standards physically)
    3) to raise the prestige of the army (it’s being done slowly, he himself served on a contract and still communicate with guys and officers, so I know firsthand)
    4) parents! Must! stop educating hlyupikov. the Internet will not replace "street, fights, abrasions, bumps", and now a generation of hunched pi ... s is growing up, which, according to the theory of evolution, will soon become cancer and begin to "wave" (please forgive me for being rude, but damn, This is true)
    1. Light source
      Light source April 22 2013 10: 16 New
      +3
      5) Physical education lessons: first gymnastics, later wrestling, then gradually switch to hard fights. And the boy will be ready for the army. And the teachers should be the military, who know what the kids should be prepared for.
    2. Denis
      Denis April 22 2013 10: 49 New
      +3
      Quote: ildar335
      in schools to return military fees held in military units
      Return NVP replaced by Tolerance lessons
      so far to the ugs of pah homosexuals not far
      1. ildar335
        ildar335 April 22 2013 20: 11 New
        -1
        what for collision? are you against nvp?
        1. Denis
          Denis April 22 2013 21: 20 New
          0
          Quote: ildar335
          are you against nvp?
          Correctly read is not fate, where against?
          1. ildar335
            ildar335 April 22 2013 22: 37 New
            0
            in Russian there are punctuation marks. I, the Tatar know about it. and you?)
  7. Boris55
    Boris55 April 22 2013 09: 59 New
    +4
    Putin on the new ideology of Russia



    The world's most famous KGB officer, Russian President Vladimir Putin, voiced his thoughts on the Russian ideology of the future. This video gives a possible transcript of his speech.
    12 September 2012 Putin made a speech about patriotism in Russia, but in reality Putin was talking about a new Ideology for Russia. Essentially, Putin called on all Russian patriots to unite in strengthening Russia and creating its new Ideology. It is a speech that all the big media have carefully silenced, although in this speech Putin openly said that a war of foreign states is waged for the minds and souls of Russians, comparable in importance to the global struggle for mineral resources. And that only Russian ideology can be effectively opposed to this war on the territory of Russia. Withering ideology in the USSR and the Russian Empire, Putin called the causes of their destruction. Without naming the United States, Putin said bluntly that some forces in Russia were conducting "well-organized propaganda attacks." A cut of the most important statements of Putin, with comments, is proposed.
  8. lubin
    lubin April 22 2013 10: 12 New
    +1
    Patriotic education is possible only in the complex: family, school, media. And in my opinion, the most important thing is to regain respect for workers' specialties, to teach them how to value their own and other people's work, so that it would be embarrassing to live at someone else’s expense. No one has the right to profit from the labor of others.
  9. George
    George April 22 2013 10: 19 New
    +3
    Hello all.
    I read the article, watched the video. Two different poles.
    But Kochergin is right: They make candy wrappers out of us.
    Boys should fight. I had to make sure on my own face that good should be with fists.
    Perhaps this is due to the fact that only a couple of centuries ago a real man should be defending his point of view with the help of force, now the ability to convince and high intellectual abilities is more suitable for resolving any conflict.

    An offer to the author to persuade a couple of Caucasians in the market somewhere.
    IMHO article computer strategist.
  10. Standard Oil
    Standard Oil April 22 2013 10: 21 New
    +4
    Late to drink Borjomi when the kidneys fell off. Generations from 99 to 2009 irrevocably lost and any attempts of patriotic education in most (not all of course) cause only laughter and sending in three letters. I myself am 89 years old and remember perfectly well 90 years when I had to go to the market with my parents and buy bones for dogs to cook soup , on TV, a solid backwater, Mr. Yeltsin’s fat faces, Gaidar’s faces and Chubais’s grins are one good thing: then no one had a computer, they played football more and more and climbed trees. Yes, now the youth are sitting at the computer, you won’t pull the tow rope You won’t make a book to read. What kind of patriotism can we talk about? “elite” I generally keep silent there; the kids are all over schools, but universities abroad and on cars whose price is measured in many tens of millions of rubles, maybe they have patriotism? And who should bring up this patriotism? Maybe officials? Come on, don’t tell. The military? Yes, there are individual enthusiasts thank them very much, but in general, no. School? HA HA !!! Maybe priests on a lamborghini or mummers Cossacks? NO.NO and NO again. Until Vlad.Vlad. a rotten tomato doesn’t come from our youth, he will sit at his little table and order to deepen, expand, and other Kama Sutra.
  11. nickname 1 and 2
    nickname 1 and 2 April 22 2013 10: 22 New
    +1
    A. Kochergin writes well about raising a man! http://ceolte.com/view/181

    What kind of upbringing? To want to join the army? This is another quarter of education.

    But when a guy can give, it will not seem enough, but he will not do this because he understands his strength. realizes that he is overly strong to beat the weak!

    Strong enough so that any enemy is not an obstacle for him!


    these are brought up by A. Kochergin.

    And although I do not quite agree with the canons of A. Kochergin's upbringing, there are no others!
    1. George
      George April 22 2013 11: 53 New
      +1
      Its main principle:
      ABSOLUTE SECURITY - in relation to YOURSELF.
  12. lecturer
    lecturer April 22 2013 10: 26 New
    +2
    Quote: starshina78
    parents start looking for an opportunity to smear the little child, and he sits at the computer, plays shooters, and squeals that he is afraid and does not want to serve, that he does not owe anything to this country, and indeed he does not need it and wants to leave it


    YES, a classic mistake of modern parents, when under the pretext that THEY (parents) "HEAVY ALREADY BROKEN", and "OUR CHILD LET IT BE BETTER, BETTER, etc."
    On this issue, even earlier (a month ago) I recommended opening the author on the Internet: Oleg Vereshchagin: "Education of a warrior." (by the way, photo taken from there)
    Star teacher
  13. vladsolo56
    vladsolo56 April 22 2013 10: 32 New
    +5
    The upbringing of a man should begin first of all with the upbringing of self-esteem. Look around when strong, physically inflated guys in a fight for any reason do not know the limit. Now it is considered the norm to beat someone who is already lying, and even someone who is already unconscious. And this cannot be called cruelty, it is called savagery. With all that young people can be very educated. Nowadays, the concept of honor has become irrelevant. I am absolutely sure the guys should be strong, agile, able to fend for themselves and their loved ones. But if at the same time the guy will be the final psychopath, not able to control his emotions as a savage, then it is better to let him sit at the computer and knock on the keys.
    Patriotism is a separate issue. Just say that the patriot is the one who loves his homeland. But what is the Motherland in the modern sense. Homeland comes from the root of the Rhode, Who now understands the meaning of the word Rhode from youth. Homeland is primarily the land of ancestors. How can patriotism be brought up when the majority do not have the land of their ancestors? So an apartment in a multi-storey building, at best a house in the suburbs. But the land of their ancestors is now being sold, and who has more money has more. And who has more land, he is more a patriot? Yes, it is those who have more land in case of trouble, the first to flee. It turns out that those who remain patriots will have to protect the land of those who escaped? Is such patriotism should be in the minds of real men?
    1. Hort
      Hort April 22 2013 11: 51 New
      +1
      The fact that even those lying in a brawl beat - the 90s affected in many respects ... It often happened that they didn’t finish the loser, and then he would plant a “feather” or an awl in the back
  14. pensioner
    pensioner April 22 2013 10: 45 New
    +1
    How to bring up? Yes, do not wrinkle your forehead and think “How?” For a long time. 70 years brought up. So they knew how? First you need to educate a patriot, and he will be the Defender of the Fatherland by definition.
  15. Uncle lee
    Uncle lee April 22 2013 10: 45 New
    +9
    I was born in a military garrison and before graduation, no one raised me ... But pride in our country and the army has been absorbed since childhood. There was an example of Bati and his colleagues, and the situation itself contributed to the upbringing of patriotism. Now what? House-2, Abramovich and no pride in the homeland. soldier
    1. Garrin
      Garrin April 22 2013 18: 31 New
      0
      Quote: Uncle Lee
      I was born in a military garrison and before graduation, no one raised me ... But pride in our country and the army has been absorbed since childhood. There was an example of Bati and his colleagues, and the situation itself contributed to the upbringing of patriotism.

      It's like that!
  16. bubla5
    bubla5 April 22 2013 11: 08 New
    +2
    It’s just that at this stage of development, or maybe the collapse of Russia, the patriotism of the people is DANGEROUS for those in power, officials and oligarchs, and they need an army of nations that will, if anything, be able to oppose the Russian population, this is my opinion
  17. Kahlan amnell
    Kahlan amnell April 22 2013 11: 37 New
    +2
    From a boy, only a man can raise a man! I repeat, a man, not a male being. Mother is very important in her upbringing, she instills kindness, tenderness, caring, but the boys take an example from their father - examples of courage, strength, will, responsibility for their words and actions, perseverance.
    Now, most families are either incomplete or those where the father is infantile. What men can grow up in such families? ... But if there is no husband and father in the family, sooner or later, but the woman will distort the nature of the boy. No matter how bitter it is to admit it, but it is so - a boy brought up only by a woman does not grow into a man, into a male being. Of course, there are exceptions, but they only confirm the rules.
    1. Denis
      Denis April 22 2013 11: 49 New
      +1
      Quote: Kahlan Amnell
      From a boy, only a man can raise a man!
      And if two, parent 1 and parent 2, can a geyropa go towards masculinity in this way?
      All through w ..
    2. Garrin
      Garrin April 22 2013 17: 44 New
      +2
      Quote: Kahlan Amnell
      From a boy, only a man can raise a man! I repeat, a man, not a male being.

      Everything is correct. My father, He took the kingdom of heaven, and took it with him for teaching and mine clearance. At the age of 8 he put behind the wheel (when his legs began to get to the pedals) B14-15 and the tank and infantry fighting vehicles already drove, not to mention the shooting. Say, well, he was a military man. And what prevents the civilian from taking the kid to the garage with him, for fishing, for hunting. Just wander through the woods together, talk?
  18. Max_Bauder
    Max_Bauder April 22 2013 12: 05 New
    0
    Quote: vladsolo56
    The upbringing of a man should begin first of all with the upbringing of self-esteem. Look around when strong, physically inflated guys in a fight for any reason do not know the limit. Now it is considered the norm to beat someone who is already lying, and even someone who is already unconscious. And this cannot be called cruelty, it is called savagery. With all that young people can be very educated. Nowadays, the concept of honor has become irrelevant. I am absolutely sure the guys should be strong, agile, able to fend for themselves and their loved ones. But if at the same time the guy will be the final psychopath, not able to control his emotions as a savage, then it is better to let him sit at the computer and knock on the keys.
    Patriotism is a separate issue. Just say that the patriot is the one who loves his homeland. But what is the Motherland in the modern sense. Homeland comes from the root of the Rhode, Who now understands the meaning of the word Rhode from youth. Homeland is primarily the land of ancestors. How can patriotism be brought up when the majority do not have the land of their ancestors? So an apartment in a multi-storey building, at best a house in the suburbs. But the land of their ancestors is now being sold, and who has more money has more. And who has more land, he is more a patriot? Yes, it is those who have more land in case of trouble, the first to flee. It turns out that those who remain patriots will have to protect the land of those who escaped? Is such patriotism should be in the minds of real men?


    Absolutely agree!
  19. pensioner
    pensioner April 22 2013 12: 07 New
    +3
    Quote: Kahlan Amnell
    If there is no husband and father in the family, then sooner or later, but the woman will distort the nature of the boy. No matter how bitter it is to admit it, but it is so - a boy brought up only by a woman does not grow into a man, into a male being.

    I still regret that in my very early childhood my son could not be with him as much as I should. Earned. Not in the sense of becoming a millionaire, but for food. Sometimes with butter. The son grew up kind of good, but, damn it, you can’t force anything to be done with your hands. And if Che - immediately to mom. 23 years old. Going to marry. I watch sometimes and cry. He would have been to us in 70goda to the North Urals - quickly would have stood on the rails. But we live. And he, which is characteristic, is far from the worst representative of the generation. He has a lot of skills, but firewood, for example, horseradish polet. We fathers are guilty of sometimes understanding the well-being of the family as one-sided. Or maybe there’s not enough strength for everything. Or maybe they just put us in such conditions that we cannot distribute our forces because of their limitations. Well, time is needed. Where to get it? Better right now. But time has already passed.
    1. Garrin
      Garrin April 22 2013 17: 50 New
      +2
      Quote: retired
      I still regret that in my very early childhood my son could not be with him as much as I should.

      Do not reproach yourself like that. This is more likely your misfortune than your fault.
  20. Max_Bauder
    Max_Bauder April 22 2013 12: 23 New
    +1
    To be a patriot, you must be a deeply educated and moral person.
    What is education for? to know your history, your land, people, to remember everything that should not be forgotten, how many ancestors were killed defending this land, and to take as an honor to continue the traditions of the fathers, to know your roots, to love your land, and finally education should be at least not to be confused Czech Republic with Chechnya as stupid Americans.
    Why do you need to be a deeply moral person? a good warrior loves his country, starting with a neighbor, he does not envy him, find himself in a trench with another compatriot, he will help him if he was wounded, does not eat from hunger, when he dies of hunger in the enemy’s rear, puts his back to save his colleague .
  21. aviamed90
    aviamed90 April 22 2013 12: 52 New
    +4
    Plus article. But I doubt that the homeland (or rather the Russian state) needs defenders. Judging by his domestic politics - rather wordless slaves.
  22. Evgenx
    Evgenx April 22 2013 13: 59 New
    +2
    Under the Soviet Union, starting from kindergarten, it was said: "we are the best," "our weapons are flying." And it is right! After 1991, the army (touching not only Russia but also Ukraine) was trampled into the dermo !!! Defender of the Motherland must be brought up from childhood!
  23. Andrew 121
    Andrew 121 April 22 2013 14: 17 New
    +5
    Guys drive your boys to the gym, in the wrestling, shooting, swimming, hockey, boxing sections, stop talking. All with beer bellies and cigarettes so at least get your children involved in sports.
  24. lubin
    lubin April 22 2013 15: 14 New
    +1
    Quote: Denis
    And if you translate it from official to human, it’s a sneak and betrayal. Otherwise, they’ll eat their own

    Well, in your opinion, it turns out an honest (from the word honor) person cannot work in the government, he must be a reptile. It’s not possible to please everyone. Do you really think that in Russia people of honor have been transferred.
    1. Denis
      Denis April 22 2013 18: 50 New
      +1
      Quote: lubin
      Do you really think that people of honor were transferred to Russia
      In Russia, enough, but in the government ...
      Can you name a lot? An honest man will not climb into this gadyushnik
      1. lubin
        lubin April 22 2013 21: 54 New
        0
        Quote: Denis
        In Russia, enough, but in the government ..

        And in the new, I have to agree with you, they may not climb. But they certainly will not be silent.
        1. Denis
          Denis April 23 2013 00: 13 New
          0
          Quote: lubin
          BUT they’ll definitely not be silent
          And who will hear?
          As an irreconcilable opposition, Zhirik fell silent when he broke off his position in the State Darmo-Dodupe. The truth was that he was making a tribune so that he needed better plans to convey to the people, not a position at all.
  25. Rrv
    Rrv April 22 2013 15: 42 New
    +3
    Homeland, patriotism - everything is right. It’s just annoying that lately the guys speak loudest about patriotism and love for the motherland, which, in any way, cannot be reproached with the indicated feelings.

    How to raise a person who loves the motherland and is ready to defend it? Exclusively IN THE CONDITIONS OF THE LOVE OF THE HOMELAND TO THE MAN BORN, to his parents and relatives, as well as by the personal example of the country's leaders, and not by their demagogy.

    At the moment, we either don’t see an example of raising the first persons of the country of their children (where the daughters of the guarantor are and what they do is a secret behind 7 seals), or we see examples directly contradicting the declarations of the first persons:
    1. Rrv
      Rrv April 22 2013 15: 54 New
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  26. RoadRunner
    RoadRunner April 22 2013 17: 20 New
    0
    Quote: 101
    How do they know that there are other films? The grandson turned 9 years old. He used to watch star wars with enthusiasm. Now they look. Only old people go to battle. They fought for their homeland. He asks for such films. Who will give our children what we need for a correct understanding of life?

    They know everything. Only no one explains to them who, what, where and how, and they themselves do not care about all these movies and books of yours.
  27. washi
    washi April 22 2013 18: 10 New
    +3
    And first, give birth to this protector, and then meddle in discussions.
    Sometimes fathers and mothers are lovely. Clever, literate, and sons and daughters .... spoiled. They didn’t let their way pass. Sorry.
    In Soviet times, harvest, LTO, labor lessons, working off at enterprises. Professional education lessons. Competitions and sports contests from the region and above. Anyone could break through, depending on their skills.
    And now? Advertising prostitution, homosexuality, buy-sell. And who, without normal parenting, will grow up? And parents have no time. They make money. Then they give this money to their offspring, who, not knowing who and how they are earned, easily let it go.
    If you want bread, go work in the village. If you want gold, go to the mines. Until all these heirs earn their own money, at least 50000 will not understand how it goes.
    Sitting in the office and working with hands and head at the same time are different sensations, and the salaries are different. For stupidity in the offices they pay, for some reason more
    1. Egoza
      Egoza April 22 2013 19: 45 New
      +2
      Quote: Vasya
      And parents have no time. They make money

      Here is the only thing that I would take from the West - it is the habit of "smart" millionaires to immediately send their children to EARN independently. If you want to have a new car, go to the cafe at the factory and work. It is possible in the office, but on an equal footing with the rest. And we somehow immediately begin to pamper the children.
      And you need not look back to the West, but remember how patriotism and boys were brought up in our country. Starting with the fact that a place for a woman or an old man in the bus to give way. A trifle - no, respect, and first of all to those who WORKED FOR YOU. It’s from the west that garbage came to us that giving a woman a hand, bringing a bag to her grandmother is an insult, kind of like gender inequality.
      Be sure to go with children to ALL events dedicated to the Second World War. If possible, give flowers to veterans. Let only three things. But the children, congratulating them, look at them and their awards with THESE eyes! And to tell and get Soviet books about our heroes. And to explain - Yes, now is not such a time, but we can be proud of our heroes, and we need to be no worse than them.
      And there it will be seen which way our youth will go ... if we educate them correctly.
  28. black
    black April 22 2013 19: 02 New
    +3
    A good Russian soldier is impudent, impudent, stolen. And with reflecting, crying about and without reason, fagot boys, let the author of the article go on the attack. My patriotism was brought up by my father’s stories about the occupation, about the reconnaissance grandfather who fought with the Germans and about the more distant ancestors who were cut with the Circassians.
  29. tomaz99
    tomaz99 April 22 2013 20: 11 New
    +4
    I don’t understand everything .. I thought, Rodina, this is the parental home (the beginning began). Let the USSR, or Russia. Mainly not Russia and not Russland.
  30. Mikhail3
    Mikhail3 April 22 2013 21: 45 New
    0
    "And there is nothing reprehensible when a man cries. This statement destroys the prevailing stereotype that men never cry."
    Stupid peri-psychological cooking. Does the author write articles for glossy magazines? There are a lot of bored BAPs, with great self-esteem, who call themselves psychologists ... People who do not learn physics and mathematics often add up to writing such articles, books and textbooks. Unfortunately, a non-analytical view of the world provides them with a livelihood, but it does not give results.
    The analysis would be worth starting like this - and WHY our culture, which the author in passing scornfully kicks with a hipster sneaker, weakly but disgustingly, demands to teach the boy not to roar?
    And the answer would explain something to the author ... if it were at all possible. Since it is precisely the strict requirement to HOLD the feelings that makes personal growth possible. By restraining weakness, we become strong. Persistent. Courage is the ability to endure trials. No, to educate these qualities, you can, for example, beat a child with a thick stake - let him roar but suffer. Something will work out too ... maybe. Or you can just induce him to a difficult inner work, for the first time help him to throw the reins on the emotions tearing the child apart - well, don’t roar! You are a man! Mom’s protector!
    And the little man learns to hold back. To withstand the pressure of the outside world, other people, animals, the devil-devil ... "Do not die twice! Nothing in life can throw us out of the saddle! This was the saying by the major" ... In the author’s toilet bowl with his article.
  31. gameover65
    gameover65 April 23 2013 04: 20 New
    +2
    And there is nothing reprehensible when a man cries. This statement destroys the prevailing stereotype that men never cry


    funny. all women dream of seeing a real man next to them, but when they have a son, they, pushing back the husband (if any), begin to raise him not like a man. try to solve all the problems for him on the street and in the class, dust particles blow off. what gym, what power sports or martial arts, and what if it hurts. etc. etc. and when he comes to go to a hairy dyed one, with piercings and earrings, the offspring in the army, they try to smear them until they thawed, in extreme cases, if it doesn’t work, then to the committee of soldiers' mothers. and then they also have the audacity to be indignant that they say the men were transferred! Yes, they are not transferred, they are just brought up from the diapers by women. take a closer look at a woman’s kindergarten, at a woman’s school teacher, a woman’s school director, he gave someone in the face they never understand correctly or not, always no way !, and then they will also make a psychologist talk to a woman. it is dangerous, both for the continuation of the Russian family, and for defense capability!
  32. stechkinmakarov
    stechkinmakarov April 23 2013 23: 40 New
    0

    How to educate the defender of the Motherland?! On the examples of the heroism of our soldiers!
  33. stechkinmakarov
    stechkinmakarov April 23 2013 23: 46 New
    -1

    How to educate the defender of the motherland ?! On the examples of the heroism of Our Soldiers!
  34. smershspy
    smershspy 3 May 2013 12: 35 New
    +3
    We must not forget the heroic past of our grandfathers, fathers, brothers! We need Americans to instill patriotism from a very young age: the anthem in the mornings in schools and universities, history lessons, we must be proud of our past and not tarnish our history! I have not seen the Americans say that they are wrong, they always say that we are the best and real democrats ...