The Unbearable Lightness of Being

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Lightness is in fashion now. Easy money, easy people, easy behavior. Not straining relationship ends in the same free parting. We are smart, modern people.

The Unbearable Lightness of Being


Why do we need Shakespearean passions and other sufferings of young Werther? Not Shakespeare, speak? Well, it's not so important what Werther wrote there. Schiller? Well, let Goethe. Who is it now surrendered? This is a middle-aged, but zealous psychologist confidently and boldly writes that it is easier to look at the world and to treat everyday life as a child's play. Work is also a game that you can sometimes not play. Because one cannot be made to play. The proverb about labor, the pond and the fish finally won, and even - another proverb scored: "The work loves fools."

Because smart people can live easily, playing and having fun. Modern, contemporary art, or rather its plastic-ruminant substitute, which is broadcast by all media, also requires not empathy, but popcorn and Coca-Cola.

Jumping Dragonfly from the school fable no longer becomes a victim of its own frivolity, and the laborer-ant begins to look like a wise youth says - a “loser”. Rent an apartment for a year and fly in the direction of Goa. Dress up in a skirt of leaves, sit straight and watch the exotic sunset. In fashion - moth lightness! Downshifting is our everything. Get away from the problems and get lost in the jungle. And everything is already seen as a problem - from screaming children to traffic jams.

On the TV screen - a certain writer and, apparently, quite well-known in certain circles. Although, why in certain? This is me forever not in trends. The author says that writing is very easy for her - she even compares the creation of literary works with baking pies. In general, the very "thousands of tons of verbal ore" that the poet Mayakovsky has been tormenting with "one word for the sake of" is not about her. For how long is it clever? The journalist emotionally and even obsequiously confirms: “Your novels, and the truth, then fly like pies with heat - from the heat!” and the sweet-haired fairy journalist.

The well-known writer Yuri Polyakov at one time called such people from art "PIP", that is, personalized publishing projects. The meaning of the PIPs is in their free substitutability with each other, conceptual sameness and, of course, in the speed, ease of creating “literary content”. Not books, but content. Because it is a writer (“engineer of human souls”) creates a book, and light-winged PIPs only drop content. The author even takes pride in the fact that her amorous reading matter is flipped through the subway in order to be thrown into the nearest ballot box. Easily created, quickly read through the diagonal, and then fussy gesture is inserted into the trash. The natural cycle of "literary content" is completed. But what literature is, so are the meanings, so are social relations.

Therefore, it is no longer surprising that a reader who had had enough of such “literary pampushkas” would shout at the parents ’meeting (or better in her blog) that“ Eugene Onegin ”is too heavy for her child and should be excluded from the school curriculum. Of course, because it is already unbearably difficult to understand who the London dandies are, the “idiotic Knyazhnin” and “the young Semenov”. In fashion - lightness! A brief statement replaces the "War and Peace", and the comics replaces the brief. Publishers love picture books (they are more expensive and more beautiful), readers prefer to flip through something in between cases. Although the case, as such, may not be at all.

Western society is also concerned - not everything, so to speak, safely in the Danish kingdom. There, in the West, the notion of “kiddals” arose - that is, over-age people living according to children's rules, but in an adult society. They are played in life, having fun, arranging happenings, often live at the expense of their parents. Kidtal (from kid - child and adult - adult) is a person who did not pass, who missed the stage of socialization, therefore, forever remaining in adolescence. Mom gives a couple of euros for movies and beer. He is under thirty, but he still can’t decide where to go to work. Is it necessary?

He is under forty, and he still dreams of becoming a wizard and writes in his blog with multicolored fonts. He takes pictures of cesspools, sits thoughtfully with a cup of coffee, and plays a computer game at night. Life is also a game, so why complicate its rules? He seems to have a girlfriend. It seems. Not a wife, but a girl, who is also under forty - she wears multicolored baubles, loves balloons and milk chocolate, and in general she draws graffiti. Childhood is a cozy feeling of security, it is a sweet dream after dinner and delicious bagels with milk in bed. It is necessary to live easily and without straining, as psychologists teach, and they are clever uncles. Therefore, as it turns out, these same kidalts are not taken to be stigmatized, braked and kicked into the mining face, but should be gently instructed and given them feasible work (that is, a toy). Lightness is in fashion!

... I remembered. At the dawn of Perestroika, students parodied typical Soviet cinema in one of the KVNs. The girl asked the young man: “Vasya, do you love me?”, To which Vasya, kneading an old cap in his muscular arms, shouted joyfully: “Yes, Masha! Love But I still love difficulties much more! ”. Then the hall exploded with a roar and grateful applause. Yes. The phrase "love of difficulties" was by that time so worn out that it was impossible not to laugh. More precisely, we were diligently convinced that it was hackneyed and, in fact, false-unnecessary. Suddenly, it was decided to laugh comfortably at Pavka Korchagin and at Mayakovsky’s poems about Kuznetsk-Stroy (“I know the city will, I know the garden blossom, when there are such people in the country in the Soviet Union!”). But most of all got to other lines, already the poet Nikolai Tikhonov: “To make nails from these people: there would be no nails stronger in the world.”

Nails are funny and not necessary. Then there were the failures of 1990, the non-nail people were looking for easy ways and easy money, which, as the old Bender used to say, "just lay on the road." Criminal gangs and joint-stock companies were created in the country, enterprises were sold, capital and brains flowed to the west. Girls in crowds rushed into the modeling business - an easy life demanded the same broadcast professions. The young men took to the high road, ... leading, as it seemed to them, to a civilized Paradise. The Soviet habit of working and - working began to be subjected to ridicule. Why treat and teach if you can become a model and make a million in a couple of years? Why plow and build, when it is much easier to sell fake "Napoleon" and fake "Adidas"? Are we scoops? We are not scoops! Scoops - not us!

In the USSR, there really was a cult of labor, and even more, a cult of difficulties. People-workers and people at work turned out to be at the center of any story, be it a movie, a book, or a picture. In different periods of the Soviet stories This trend has been highlighted in different ways. For example, in 1930-x - 1940-x years work was painted as an action in a classic play, with pathos and lofty words. The battle for the harvest on the bas-reliefs of the houses of culture was written off from the ancient centauromy, and the collective farmers, carrying their sheaves, resembled girls in panathenaine processions. Popular polar pilots, that is, men who constantly risk their lives even in peacetime. The harder the bread, the more honorable it is.

At the end of 1950's, on the contrary, a direction emerged that is called nothing but a “stern style”. Unlike the baroque-classicist Stalinist art, the harsh style did not embellish the environment and people, did not turn the milkmaid into the goddess Pomona, and the steelmaker into Doryphorus. The artists of this trend glorified the simple and uncomplicated destinies of the hard workers, their energy and will, so to speak, the “heroics of everyday work”. Cinema responded with the creation of the films “Height,” “Girls,” “Spring on Zarechnaya Street.” Later images of young physicists burning in the fire of science and quick-tempered foremen struggling with a reinsurer emerged.

It was believed that "easy happiness" - this is not happiness at all. Man was instructed to love difficulties, to strive to overcome them, not to dodge and not to run off. The caricature dudes gave the woodwork from the factories and from the villages, where the difficult fate drove them "according to distribution". By the way, one of the most ridiculed images was the type of young life starter, who did not want to go to the taiga or to the steppe after graduating from the university. In the wonderful film “Easy Life”, the former talented chemist “works” in dry cleaning. More precisely, it imitates activity, having its uncomplicated “business”. But at the same time, owning those very “easy money” and metropolitan registration, he terribly envies his friends who work in the city with the romantic name Dalnogorsk.

Soviet romance was synonymous with difficulties. “Take the guy to the mountains - take a chance!” - suggested Vladimir Vysotsky, believing that a person is known precisely over a precipice. More precisely, not even at the moment of extreme, but in the process of overcoming. In 1960's, it was fashionable to pull a guy up into the mountains. Now it is fashionable to pull a guy to bed after the first meeting. Because lightness is in fashion! She permeates all relationships. Magazines are full of advertising means that allow for three days from a chewing cow to turn into a quivering doe - without exercise and diet. Adult men are invited to play on the stock exchange and earn there "cool loot" without leaving the sweet online. Educational innovations are imposed on children, according to which all subjects are learned in a playful way. For example, you should write a poem about the sublimation of ammonium chloride or present a scene depicting monsoons and trade winds. Infantilism ceases to be dangerous and becomes the norm.

Only a moment may come when you wake up, and everyone has left to play ... Hey! People! And future archaeologists will be puzzled where such a smart civilization could have evaporated, which built space rockets and asked “To be or not to be?”.
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  1. Vanek
    0
    6 March 2013 07: 26
    Photographs garbage cans

    I didn't read further because the meaning of the article is clear ....... Here the other day there was an article "Contemporary Art". As I understand it today is from the same category. No?

    So - UNSPECIFIED.
    1. +2
      6 March 2013 08: 19
      Yeah! He lived for it and died. request
    2. Bubo
      +16
      6 March 2013 08: 59
      Finished reading a little different. In a nutshell, an article about what is now "fashionable" or even "modern" to live is "easy", without obligations. And as a result of such a "fashionable" and "modern" life in society, the chance of a genius, a scientist or just an excellent specialist is very small and continues to decrease ...
      1. S_mirnov
        +5
        6 March 2013 10: 09
        "in society, the chance of a genius, a scientist, or just an excellent specialist, is very small and continues to decrease ..." - and absolutely right! The fewer universities in the country, the lower the education of the population. The more money you have to pay for schooling, the fewer children from low-income families will receive a good education!
        The article expresses concern over the replacement of Soviet moral values ​​by the bourgeois ones. And rightly the author is worried!
        1. +8
          6 March 2013 11: 58
          Quote: S_mirnov
          ... The article expresses concern over the replacement of Soviet moral values ​​by the bourgeois ones. ...

          And in my opinion, what worries me is not that "Soviet values" are being replaced by "bourgeois" ones, but that there are no everyones values.

          The infantility cultivated in the young generation is a rejection of the most creative (or at least something producing) life. This is a culture of consumption in its purest form, it is a strategy of extinction. Life is plankton, life is like a sweet jelly. Life, the only beneficial result of which is soil fertilization.

          This "lightness" has been implanted for a long time already. And as usual, it started with processing more children. In the cartoon "Mowgli" (Hollywood, not ours, of course), the bear Baloo teaches a senseless boy with a phrase that made Kipling turn over, probably: - "Do you see this bee? Don't live like her! You will quickly get tired ..." If anyone has read Kipling , for example, "Letter to the Son", he understands that this is not at all his worldview. The phrase would have been embedded by the creators of the cartoon. Is it coincidental?

          The ideology of a consumer society arose in a market economy as a means of generating profit (they consume more, that means more is sold and produced, that means industry is working and elite incomes are growing).

          But now she has received a slightly different development and solves other goals. Imposed infantilism, "lightness of being", refusal to create a family, from raising children, advertising any "fun life", protection of homosexuality and lesbianism, legalized same-sex marriages with permission to adopt children (!!!) by these generally mentally ill people are everything leads to the depopulation of mankind. Like birth control programs in third countries, like the one that Billy Gates does. (It would seem, what’s the matter of Microsoft with regard to fertility? It would be better to deal with bugs in its Windows, but the protection was brought to the level of Linux at least. And here you go! ...) The general decrease in the level of the education system works like that - stupidity, and even scanting of the human mass.

          All these seemingly disparate, but significant things fit very well into the theory of the "golden billion". Someone thinks that there are too many of us here on the planet, you see, we pollute the air. The "elite" began to reduce the number of excess human mass unnecessary to serve their interests.

          __

          PS In general, the events of recent years more and more often remind me of the situation described in the "Futurological Congress" by Stanislav Lem. Truly, not a writer, but a seer!
      2. -1
        6 March 2013 10: 24
        To make nails from these people: there wouldn’t be tighter in the world of nails
        Quote: Bubo
        And as a result of such a "fashionable" and "modern" life in society, the chance of a genius, a scientist or just an excellent specialist is very small and continues to decrease ...


        Move the afflicted moods to the side.
        Anyone who "fumbles and cutesy" and wants to study-study do it.
        Another thing is that most of them are forced to do it "behind the cardon" (And on the sidelines and without future recognition of their work), because we have only SKOLKOVO.

        extreme example.
        Friends in Novosibirsk have a son, well, a very strong programmer, last year asked for and received political asylum in a "mattress" (Otherwise he could not legalize himself in a "mattress")
        Now he will be able to see his parents exclusively on the territory of third countries, or he will also be taken to the "mattress".
        This is the price of the "moron or specialist" exchange
    3. +1
      6 March 2013 10: 12
      Vanek,
      in vain I didn’t read, no article is not quite about it
  2. +14
    6 March 2013 07: 42
    "... Infantilism ceases to be dangerous and becomes the norm ..."

    And this is scary! Fortunately, we raised our girls with hard workers living humanly. But how difficult it is for us with grandchildren, who are besieged by the cult of profit on all sides, propaganda of aggressive egoism and a lightweight approach to life, perverted education, all kinds of tolerance and juvenile justice ... And - corruption, corruption, and again corruption!

    For our boys, we see a way out: the cadet corps - studying at a military university - serving the Motherland in the Army.

    For the country, fundamental changes are needed. Otherwise, death! And these are not high words, but a necessity.
    1. +4
      6 March 2013 07: 45
      Not in the eyebrow but in the eye !!! said by you.
    2. Soldier
      +7
      6 March 2013 08: 30
      Quote: nokki
      service to the Motherland in the Army.

      And only after that - Citizenship and the opportunity to hold public office. And if you do not want to serve, work as a salesman, citizenship is not necessary for this. PS I’ve been angry since morning. I was upset to see the news about Hugo Chavez
    3. Kapitanyuk
      -6
      6 March 2013 09: 33
      Have you asked their opinion?
      1. +3
        6 March 2013 16: 10
        Quote: Kapitanyuk
        Have you asked their opinion?

        Are you not from juvenile justice? then to you in Finland ...
        While the child is on providing parents - he has only one opinion and it completely coincides with the opinion of parents
  3. +16
    6 March 2013 07: 44
    All this blah blah blah. Look at modern films on TV. About whom they are, about the "poor" businessman, banker, bandit, about how hard it is for them to live, films about cops, show-offs, prosecutors, and others. Again about their difficult everyday life, about how "decent" they are, and so on. In general, there are no old GOOD films about workers in fields, factories, and steamboats. With whom to take the example of the younger generation? What a mess I get into their heads beat from the media, And then they shout that there is no one to work in the village, in factories the average age has exceeded 55 years. Everyone sailed with our movies.
    1. Bismark
      +3
      6 March 2013 09: 21
      Filmmakers certainly contributed their share, but mostly it's our fault. From the time that the country took a different course, then the same hour and changes began. As an example (Why hunch over a penny at a plant if I can be a broker or an economist who knows nothing but to shake the air). From here the same policy went to the cinema. We ourselves destroyed the working class without giving it a continuation. As an example, a catastrophic shortage of young welders fitters and electricians. In general, chasing a moth of a carefree, quiet and peaceful life, we simply fall into a hollow, from which it will be very difficult for us to get out.
      1. +4
        6 March 2013 10: 47
        And I understand the young why bump at the factory for example for 20000, when the same money can be obtained by a consultant - seller. The factory is noisy, dirty and sometimes just dangerous. How many times I saw grinders with eczema from an emulsion, I am glad that it is treated. Nobody has met with the choppers from the foundry, I’ll also tell you another profession that doesn’t have a beneficial effect on the human body. And how many injuries he saw, there were fatal ones. Work in the factory is not sugar. I have 12 machine tools for one machine tool attendant. She shifts all shift like a savraka around them, the woman is already retired. So she will leave and I doubt that one of the young for these 16-17000 will fall into her place. At one time, my girlfriend asked me to arrange it in a factory, I resolutely refused - this is not a woman’s business.
        All these slogans, films, posters about the hegemon, glory to the working class, hard worker - leave to yourself. People go to the factory to earn money. There will be paid youth will go there. And the situation begins to slowly but change. This is evident in salaries in large cities. A good turner is a borer - from 30000, the installer of CNC machines (machining centers are very much appreciated) - from 40000. And work is already easier - this is not a conveyor belt for you. Of course, you need to be a first-class specialist. Life itself says - if you are an intelligent, competent specialist, working, then everything will be fine with you.
        1. Bismark
          -1
          6 March 2013 11: 04
          And I understand the young why bump at the factory for example for 20000, when the same money can be obtained by a consultant - seller. The factory is noisy, dirty and sometimes just dangerous

          Then do not itch about migrants, and lack of jobs. In my city, the salary of a welder is over 30 thousand, and you will not find them in the afternoon with fire, the young people don’t want to go dirty, some pensioners stayed, and instead of ours we have to teach migrants. And the fact that young people do not want to work is a fact to burn.
        2. 0
          6 March 2013 17: 31
          If I am not mistaken at the end of the 80s, the 4th-level machine operator received about 200 rubles, and the workshop foreman 160. It seems so. And from this we should draw conclusions. Worker was valued more. Although there were rumors about the fact that the craftsmen raised the prize with a bonus.
          1. Bismark
            0
            7 March 2013 12: 41
            I didn’t write about the 80s, but about today's realities, and an article about what we have today, so to be honest I don’t understand why I should start from the 80s. At the oil refinery, salaries for some craftsmen are the same for the hedgehogs as for the chiefs of the sites, and the installers and welders at the construction site also receive salaries normally. (I judge from my city)
  4. Che
    Che
    +8
    6 March 2013 07: 54
    Watching modern films is healthy for a healthy person. Quite a Western hack, brainwashing people on Western patterns. Having scolded the country's population, it is easy to destroy the country itself. To this end, all this is being done.
  5. fenix57
    +4
    6 March 2013 07: 59
    "Because a person cannot be forced to play ..."- man must be himself.
    Quote: nokki
    For the country, fundamental changes are needed. Otherwise, death! And these are not high words, but a necessity.
    -And to argue with this -Sin ...
    hi
  6. AK-47
    +2
    6 March 2013 08: 00
    Suddenly it became accepted, comme il faut ...

    Yeah!!!
    The wind of change should not whistle in your ears.
  7. +3
    6 March 2013 08: 05
    Quote from the article: "He is under forty, but he still dreams of becoming a wizard and writes in his blog in colorful fonts. He takes pictures of garbage cans, sits thoughtfully with a cup of coffee, and plays a computer game at night. Life is also a game, so why complicate things her rules? He seems to have a girl friend. It seems. Not a wife, but a girl who is also in her forties - she wears colorful baubles, loves balloons and milk chocolate, and in general she paints graffiti. Childhood is a cozy feeling of security , this is a sweet dream after dinner and delicious bagels with milk in bed. You have to live easily and without straining, - this is how psychologists teach, and they are smart uncles. miner's face, but you should kindly instruct and give them a feasible job (that is, a toy). Lightness is in vogue! "

    It is not entirely clear what annoys the author so much, the fact that some "bodies" have the opportunity to live beautifully without clogging their heads with everyday problems? Or the desire to make the society of the 60s a standard? Human civilization, a living organism, is dominated by drones today, warriors tomorrow. It all depends on the situation. Don't worry so much about this! Yes
    1. +3
      6 March 2013 09: 16
      Quote: GSH-18
      Human civilization — a living organism — drones dominate today, tomorrow warriors.

      So after all drones in the nature destroy! And they’re doing it right. And with drone people, what do you advise to do?
      1. +2
        6 March 2013 09: 58
        Quote: Egoza
        So after all drones in the nature destroy! And they’re doing it right. And with drone people, what do you advise to do?

        A working bee drones not only (and not so much) kill, but simply throw it out of the hive laughing People are not bees. Life will make-light in another way. Otherwise nah .. from the hive request Well, you understand me wink
    2. Kaa
      +2
      6 March 2013 10: 54
      Quote: GSH-18
      It is necessary to live easily and without straining, that is how psychologists teach, and they are smart uncles. Therefore, it turns out that these same scammers are not customary to stigmatize, slow down and kick in the miner's face, but you should kindly instruct and give them all possible work (that is, a toy). Lightness is in fashion!

      But at the same time they are easy to attract to the protest movement - to wave with the slogans on Bolotnaya (Tahrir, Maidan) - not to cut coal in the mine.
      Quote: GSH-18
      that some "bodies" have the ability to live beautifully

      Where is the money, Zin? Or stolen by dad-mom, or service (with brains and body) of loot raggers. The first one will end sooner or later, therefore - participation in crime (corruption, drug dealership, fraud, bank frauds, paid protest movements). To which state did such drones surrender, dare I ask?
  8. +5
    6 March 2013 08: 16
    Good article. I liked it. Yes, and serious questions were raised in it. There is no one direction to combat this problem. Apparently the family, school, institute can not cope. Here, some politicians howled raised about plans to create labor camps for young people for the summer. Although it’s not a bad thing for a young man to find out how much work you need to spend on the ruble earned ... But first of all, in this direction - it is our legislators who must work: - there cannot exist a society where thieves (thieves of money, factories, newspapers, ships, oil, gas, etc.) live so easily.)
  9. Igor
    +7
    6 March 2013 08: 31
    Super article! I agree there is such a problem ..
    There is even a special direction in psychology "achievement" just on these principles ... there is only one BUT ...
    1. The guy in the mountains pull ...
    2. DO NOT drop it alone.
    3. Together in a bundle of one you will understand who he is ...

    those. you don’t need to hang up labels, you need to BE TOGETHER ... and a bunch of everything ..
    not to give up how to be completely with a person? deal with your and his cockroaches? and feel like a loser, a little money, a little respect .. willingly or not willingly, the question arises: what goals do society need today? What is relevant, in demand?
    adolescents need a reproductive instinct, you can’t get anywhere .. and girls value social success .. well, can he at least feed his family and children ... and what can she offer a difficult life and half-starved children?

    Conclusion: the matter is not in specific people, The matter is in the state! Correct values ​​must be introduced into consciousness at the state level ..
    1. +1
      6 March 2013 09: 20
      Quote: Igor
      Correct values ​​must be introduced into consciousness at the state level ..

      Just implementing the right values ​​is not enough! Before the people should be the GOAL! In the name of what you need to work and overcome difficulties! GREAT GOAL that ENCOURAGES! Namely, they are trying to destroy the soul of the Russian people.
  10. fenix57
    +5
    6 March 2013 08: 39
    Films are the lightness of being. How easy it was for the heroes of the 60s-70s. And now ..... about .. schoolchildren, the Ministry of Internal Affairs, how difficult it is for them in life ... and "Volunteers" - with this film only "THUNDERING GATE ", cartoons WINNIE-THE-POOH, WELL-WEATHER, this is the application of what they call it: "soft power". hi
  11. +5
    6 March 2013 09: 05
    The problem indicated in the article has been annoying me for quite some time. I would even say it pisses off. I can not calmly look at the golden youth (and no longer very young) whose main problem is the question: how to "light up" more abruptly.
    Article plus!
  12. +1
    6 March 2013 09: 22
    in fact, ordinary evolution and nothing more - a person always seeks to make his life simpler and easier, this cannot be changed

    in 10-15 years, a person will not at all not just pull a guy into the mountains, they will be banal through the Internet to conduct polls, meet somewhere - have sex and split up, marriage institute will be just for show - this is already with many, and then it will be the norm
    1. +1
      6 March 2013 09: 38
      Quote: Bad
      in fact, ordinary evolution and nothing more - a person always seeks to make his life simpler and easier, this cannot be changed

      Naturally, only simplification of life simplifies the brain. If achieving the goal is not a problem, then the head does not work. It’s like practicing mass sports, nobody achieves anything serious, but it trains the body. It seems to me that many phenomena stem from the simplification of life. Cosmopolitanism because people don’t care where life is, they don’t give a damn about their homeland, because it’s easier, there are no enemies, there’s a house everywhere. Tolerance, i.e. tolerance, generally fits into this theory well, one’s inaction, unwillingness to strain to change something in others is conveniently explained by tolerance.
  13. Corporal
    +2
    6 March 2013 09: 36
    Glory to eggs and offspring, described in the article, the population layer, does not burden itself. This is a dead end branch. Well and figs with them.

    Mankind has existed for a very long time and any problems have been more than once, so the mechanisms of self-regulation, natural selection work and have not gone away.

    I only look after myself, my loved ones and my children. So that we are not ashamed of. As the saying goes, "Save yourself, and thousands around you will be saved"
  14. +2
    6 March 2013 09: 53
    As a rule, the lightness of being disappears after you start to earn money yourself and finally become aware after the first child. Whoever does not realize this is a diagnosis. But such a minority.
  15. +2
    6 March 2013 09: 57
    Very true observations. Zombie youth is multiplying, aimed at finding entertainment, not able to analyze the situation, to predict the future. It is especially hard to live with men who joyfully and comfortably feel in the role of gigolo.
    1. Cpa
      0
      7 March 2013 01: 27
      And you do not pay.
  16. +2
    6 March 2013 11: 38
    All the same, Ray Bradbury was a genius and for a long time predicted what now became reality
  17. pa_nik
    +1
    6 March 2013 12: 38
    Quote: leon-iv
    As a rule, the ease of being disappears after you start earning yourself


    The main thing is to start! And then - as on the thumb laughing
    1. Morning. Climb.
    2. Shower, breakfast.
    3. Child to school, wife to work.
    4. 9-12 hours at work. If we get lucky lol
    5. From work - p. 3 - in the reverse order.
    6. Dinner.
    7. Internet, film.
    8. Shower. Bai.

    It's simple, just 8 points good repeat - every day laughing
  18. Igor
    +2
    6 March 2013 13: 28
    This is just a system of 2-poles of understanding ...

    1. Difficulties and work

    2. Live Easy!



    The pole is a certain set of beliefs and values.

    1st pole, this is the archetype of War,

    Qualities +: perseverance, overcoming, determination, achievement, goal setting.

    Qualities -: obstinacy, not flexibility, desire to complicate something, concentration on the process, and not on the result, attachment to things and the result.

    Beliefs: Cause time, fun hour. You can’t take a fish out of a pond without labor. Life is a fight. Be the best! There will not be enough resources for everyone. I will be number 1. Do not bend under a changing world, one day the world will bend under us.

    Labor transforms and ennobles.



    1st pole, this is the archetype of the Fool, the Simple-minded, the Magician.

    Qualities +: Lightness, flexibility, creativity, a sense of pulsating life. Not attachment to the result (I don’t know whether it will work out or not, but I will try)

    Qualities -: not binding, not perseverance (it didn’t work out right away, then it’s not mine),

    Beliefs: Something doesn’t work out. Do it differently. It is foolish to expect a different result with the same actions. Life is a game. It’s interesting to live. Be yourself. Life is abundant! Do not get attached to things. Easy Come Easy Go. If you can’t see the difference, why pay more? When you find a business that you like, then you will no longer work a single day.



    It is difficult to say which pole is more correct and more necessary impossible ... this is all life ... and ideally you need to be able to own both of these policies. Something to look for difficulties, but when the family is provided ..
    1. a
      a
      +1
      6 March 2013 14: 07
      Yes, you only have black and white vision, like a child’s, this is INFANTIALITY. And in the first pole the result of labor means a lot. Apparently you did not create in life and did not create anything.
      1. Igor
        +2
        6 March 2013 15: 08
        :)

        There is simply no EXPRESSLY expressed one or another pole ... This is understandable ...
        there is a certain balance and each person has his own ..
        Question to you, to which pole are you inclined ...?

        it's not about me at all ..
        What I wrote is that you should not separately criticize one or another worldview, that each life position has its pros and cons.
        I talked about the need to look at the question more broadly.

        and as for the result of labor, so it is the same in both cases ..
        Creativity in my opinion is more about lightness ...

        and look at your post:
        // Apparently you did not create in life and did not create anything.

        are you thinking something about me ?! you get personal ... Is that how adults behave?
        Or do adults, when arguments run out, declare "not smart himself"?
        :)
    2. +1
      6 March 2013 15: 15
      Quote: Igor
      It is difficult to say which pole is more correct and more necessary impossible ...

      Even the description of the pros and cons shows that you are definitely behind the second one, because with him you and some minuses got some toys. The fact is that in its pure form, these extremes are rare. Of the book characters, Pavka Korchagin and Elloch the cannibal immediately come to mind. But they are therefore remembered because the prescribed qualities of the characters' characters are hypertrophied by writers.
      1. Igor
        +1
        6 March 2013 18: 40
        Everyone chooses a woman religion, road ...
        to serve the devil or the prophet, everyone chooses for himself ...

        Vladimir, I did not write a comment in order to have a more conscious understanding.
        I advise you to take the best and most effective of what is or come up with something of your own ...

        You are trying to classify me somehow ... Why? what will it give you?
        Do you think that some kind of policy is "cooler" develop in that direction ..
        If I didn’t indicate something and you have something to add, then add ..
        What is the use of reading from which pole you take me to?
  19. +3
    6 March 2013 13: 45
    ~ 10 back, when hiring (on average) out of 20 resumes, 10-15 fit, the interview went well ~ 7-10 and it was difficult to get someone ...
    last year, out of 100 resumes, only 6... not one was interviewed ... not people, but infantile slops with porridge in the head and the life position of the amoeba, but the requests are like that of an academician ... and you say swimming ... the consequences of introducing psychology, behaviors and I feel the worldviews described in the article in my own skin and see what happens ... this is called the collapse of society ... socially, narcissistic vegetables are purposefully removed from members of society ...
    1. +1
      6 March 2013 15: 17
      Quote: Pacifist
      social, narcissistic vegetables are deliberately removed from members of society ...

      Strong, charismatic personalities have become a big deficit.
    2. AK-47
      +1
      6 March 2013 16: 00
      Quote: Pacifist
      only 6 ... not one interview was held ...

      Ten years ago there was a completely different staffing situation, those who "good, it took ~ 7-10"They have been working successfully for a long time, today, apparently, demand exceeds supply, I do not think that there are moral-educational or educational reasons.
      Remember the recent past of “dudes” of “hippies”, mature people were indignant at what would happen to humanity, as we see nothing. Today, young people have different values, someone does not like them, but this is a personal matter. And legislative prohibition will only aggravate the situation. To understand them, one must be as young.
      1. +1
        6 March 2013 16: 23
        This has nothing to do with it. I wrote about education, attitudes, attitudes and self-esteem. It does not depend on the number of years that have passed, it depends on the quality of the "material", and in this case, rot, that 10 years ago, that now, will remain rot. This is not the reasoning of the old man on the bench, this is the objective reality of the labor market. There is a lot of material, but its quality is heading towards popularity. And the reason here is precisely in the goal-setting, and they, the valiant parents to their children (and the media, etc., etc.), have recently been doing just for an easy life and hang out. The technological civilization was created not by this, but by hardworking, educated people. There will be no them, there will be stupid rams consumers, with moronic brains and infusorian outlook.
        1. AK-47
          0
          6 March 2013 19: 49
          Quote: Pacifist
          This is not the argument of an old man on a bench ...

          You diagnose the whole younger generation "Dumb sheep consumers, with moronic brains and horizons of infusoria" believe that this is not so, take a closer look at your children, grandchildren of their friends, and you will see that they are quite adequate people they have and “Education, attitude, attitudes and self-esteem”. And there are most of them, but “rot ... will remain rot” and for some reason it falls into your field of vision and you draw conclusions on them.

          "Papuan - Papuan, friend, comrade and feed." drinks
        2. Cpa
          +1
          7 March 2013 01: 35
          How can a person with the nickname "pacifist" call people material?
  20. +2
    6 March 2013 15: 26
    The topic is not new. American male boys became the heroes of Hollywood back in the 70s. If not before. Remember only girls in jazz.
    And nothing. The country lives.
    Everywhere at all times there were baffles. A certain percentage of any society is always half-witted. Just as a certain percentage of any society is blue.
    But here it is not necessary to confuse the legalization of the enrichment process without difficulty with the problem of scammers. Because enrichment always happens at the expense of others. At least, this is the theory of surplus value, which no one has denied. Or it takes place on credit - which is also at the expense of others.
    But this is a serious problem. After all, the problem is not that someone got a freebie for privatization, say Severstal. The problem is that he will manage so lightly that what is easy to get, so that the descendants will not be left with the plant. There will be nothing left. And this problem has nothing to do with youth. This is a matter of economics, politics and morality of our society. And it must be solved with nationalization.
  21. Octavian avgust
    +1
    6 March 2013 20: 11
    In Soviet times, under Stalin, everyone worked honestly and thanks to this, the country prospered when equal and good conditions were created for everyone. There was a great moral core!
    And Judas Khrushchev, besides the fact that Stalin was watered with mud, did so as his main goal Material satisfaction of the masses! Today we have reached its climax conspiracies! stop
  22. +1
    6 March 2013 21: 29
    Young people plow and plow not childishly, but this is a feeling of lightness and popigism ... this is the influence of television.
  23. Cpa
    +1
    7 March 2013 01: 55
    All these moods described in the feast article during the plague. A generation of people grew up who saw how their ancestors were burned in the firebox of a great idea, and it ate and flew to America.
    A person leading an idle lifestyle put an end to his country and his life, and beauty is just makeup.
    At the beginning of the war, my grandmother said, one German led a column of prisoners to the west, long "until sunset", but when they believed that it was possible to win, that there was something to fight for, our man led the same columns to the east, and then raised the country from the ruins, studied raising children.
    A Russian person must believe in a bright one that does not live in vain. But it’s so simple to take and say something in circulation or at a summit, COUNTRY, I WILL SAVE YOU, BELIEVE, KILL, BUT SAVE, I SWEEP YOU WITH ME? And not betray, never. After that, any sybarite will stand at the machine.