How to raise a man

Once again we have to come across an opinion that sounds something like this: "In the current situation in Russia, we ourselves are to blame." The reason is called the "inertness of Russian society" and its "femininity." The logic is this: You should not expect any activity from Russian men, since the vast majority of them are under the female heel.

They decided to discuss these theses on the Stalingrad channel. Psychologist Alexei Kapranov presents his opinion about how “feminine” Russian men are and how to raise a real man (man) in general.

The psychologist notes that in modern Russian society, the status of the father as the head of the family and even the father as a man is practically washed out. Proceeding from the approach to father / husband / brother as an “eternally drinking”, the general moral and ethical state of the family is formed. Naturally, this leads to distortions in education.

The child, according to Kapranov, looks at the world with maternal eyes. This can not be called poor upbringing, but this upbringing is still one-sided, it does not have the very male component that helps to grow a real man out of a boy. As a result, and the formation of society according to laws that really go to a greater extent precisely in the female direction.

The thoughts of the psychologist Kapranov on the upbringing of men are presented in the plot on the channel "Stalingrad".

Comments

[knn54]

The main thing in raising a child is love. If there is no love, a child, without parental warmth, grows indifferent., Closed, rude and cynical. And somewhere unsure of himself. How can you educate a man.

[mitroha]

In order to educate a man and educate correctly, it is necessary first of all the educator (father) to be such a man.
And so that is love and a personal example, this is the minimum that is absolutely necessary for education.
And now, very often I meet in the shopping center, on weekends, families where parents stick to smartphones, and the child at that time is handed over to the children's playroom, just to not interfere. What is upbringing

[Tatyana]

Good video! Not indisputable, of course, from my - female - point of view, but still very sensible!
The problem of the position of men in society still really exists.

Of course, a man should be the master in the house - not be armless, economic, provide the family financially and protect her physically. To be strong, courageous, to help my wife also come true in life.
A husband must love his wife, be proud of her, be attentive to his wife and children, give them gifts. It’s interesting for the family to communicate with each other. To love children, to take care of their well-being.
You can’t sulk at each other for a long time, you need to be able to understand each other and forgive. And it’s good when the couple with humor, and not just to the point of stubbornly stubborn principle.
Spouses should also take care of each other's health.
Wives appreciate such husbands and will not be given to any other woman.

KVN City Pyatigorsk - In Rio de Janeiro. 25 Jan 2013 year

[businessv]

Quote: Tatiana

a man should be the master in the house - not be armless, economic, provide the family financially and protect her physically. To be strong, courageous, to help my wife also come true in life.
A husband must love his wife, be proud of her, be attentive to his wife and children, give them gifts. It’s interesting for the family to communicate with each other. To love children, to take care of their well-being.

Tatyana, basically you wrote everything correctly, just forgot to write, what will a woman do? It seems to me that responsibilities should be divided as evenly as possible, and crazy love subsequently develops into deep mutual respect, without which no family will remain a family. Of course, a man should perform all men's housework, but spouses should help each other to realize each other! And the same applies to all aspects of life, without exception, especially children who must have both parents.

[Malyuta]

Quote: Tatiana

Of course, a man should be the master in the house - not be armless, economic, provide the family financially and protect her physically. To be strong, courageous, to help my wife also come true in life.
A husband must love his wife, be proud of her, be attentive to his wife and children, give them gifts. It’s interesting for the family to communicate with each other. To love children, to take care of their well-being.
You can’t sulk at each other for a long time, you need to be able to understand each other and forgive. And it’s good when the couple with humor, and not just to the point of stubbornly stubborn principle.
Spouses should also take care of each other's health.
Wives appreciate such husbands and will not be given to any other woman.

An ideal world .... so as not to drink, not smoke, bring money to the house ...
It is curious to know what kind of woman should be then and how should a woman be imbued to be a woman?

[Tatyana]

Quote: Malyuta

It is curious to know what a woman should be and then how should a woman be imbued to be a woman?

And here you are and tell me about it here!
It’s even very, very interesting for me as a woman!
What is your sincere view as a man on women in order to choose a woman / girl as your wife and live with her all your life without cheating on her?

[Malyuta]

Quote: Tatiana

And here you are and tell us about it here!
It’s even very, very interesting for me as a woman!

I do not think that this is exactly the "glade" where you can describe this ideal creation of nature Well, in principle, there will be something similar to your idea, only with all amendments for a woman, femininity, beauty, thriftiness and so on.
There is now a slightly vulgar poem on this subject, appealing to our society, well, I’ll post it, I hope, you will perceive it with humor:
"Here is Nikolai's new woman
Beautiful. smart and young
Works in a bank, has a car
Jumps on fitness, shaves vagina
Sucks, how can not suck a vacuum cleaner
Always help with money. no problem
Doesn't like Mikhailova stasovyh songs
And leps is absolutely uninteresting to her
Her headaches are not tormented by pain
What matters to her is what matters to Kolya
Doesn't look at other men at all
Cooking chic with lamb pilaf
Over time, it does not spoil at all, by the way
Resilient, fresh and active in bed
It has the whole apartment, all comfort and everyday life ...

in my opinion, all the same Kolya triesndit ... "(c)

[Tatyana]

Quote: Malyuta

in my opinion, all the same Kolya triesndit ... "(c)

Kolya is definitely tryndit!

[Malyuta]

Quote: Tatiana

What is your sincere view as men on women in order to choose a woman / girl to be your wife and live with her all your life?

My Mom left us a week before the Golden Wedding with Dad, that is, without exactly a week for 50 years .... They raised two sons, I would like to think not the worst. And Dad still goes to Mom on a date on March 8 with flowers and any conversation in the family, starting on any topic, ends with his words: "What a wonderful MOM we had!"
I would like to like this, but alas ....., together with the great era, we have lost the greatness of the relationship. Here is such a sadness.

[Tatyana]

Quote: Malyuta

Dad still goes to Mom on a date on March 8 with flowers and any conversation in the family, starting on any topic, ends with his words: “What a wonderful MOM we had!” I would like that, but alas ..... , along with the great era, we have lost the greatness of relationships. Such is the sadness.

A woman should be proud, choosing a mate in her life, and not forgive any humiliation on her part. Such women / girls men / fans remember their whole lives.
In my youth I wrote poetry. They turned out for me by themselves - in the mood. For example.

Goodbye!
Our roads are different.
I'm leaving
And I won’t come back anymore.
Go away forever
The days of love are beautiful.
Let love leave
I feel sad!
Let owns
Bitter memory
And sorry sometimes!
I will not forgive you anymore.
I'm leaving with a light heart.
And let it be completely
Don't you believe
That you can leave so easily.
Like a spell, I say:
I do not love you anymore!

[Malyuta]

Quote: Tatiana

A woman should be proud, choosing a mate in her life, and not forgive any humiliation on her part. Such women / girls men / fans remember their whole lives.

There is pride, but there is pride. I tell you, as a man, I declare that if in men you suddenly notice negative traits in relationships, then it’s better than famil. For me, there’s a much longer period of growing up and self-affirmation and girls / women play in this formation an important role. Any unsuccessful first experience is an injury, possibly for a lifetime, it’s like a wound — it can heal, but the scar will remain forever.
Honestly, I have not argued with women for a long time and do not try to remake them, break them, rebuild them, you just need to take them and love them.)))) You see, these are two absolutely opposite poles, two universes incomprehensible to each other, truly "unity and the struggle of opposites! "
But different poles are attracted, and it turns out a whole.
Now, observing what is happening, I understand that the criteria for evaluating one sex by another have radically changed, from "paradise in a hut" and spirituality, moved to materialism, wealth, wealth, connections, cars, houses, apartments, "brioni", "patek philip" -Here are the estimated characteristics. And I always said, you love me the way I am, and with the junk anyone will love me, so then the "winner of the competition" got a nice bonus
And I will not stop asserting that it is women who spoil men, it’s just that women were wiser before, relations were more conservative, and the country was patriarchal.
And as for the Boys, here she is the coy truth of life and who will warm these scorched Souls:

[kieferandreas]

answer your own question why
1) does a woman first get married?
2) then does everything to become pregnant and give birth to children?
3) after the birth of children, he does not do anything to the husband, but only children receive everything?
4) to whom can a man give his bodily love if there is nothing in return?
5) and you think that all men are cables?
6) if so, who created them like that?

[Tatyana]

Quote: kieferandreas

answer your own question why 1) does a woman first get married?
2) then does everything to become pregnant and give birth to children?

Because a woman / girl wants to have a family and legally realize her natural destiny in her - motherhood.

Quote: kieferandreas

3) after the birth of children does not pay anything to her husband, but only children receive everything?

I didn’t have that. The husband should be well-groomed, beautifully dressed, so that a woman in front of no one in society would not be for him and ashamed of herself. My husband was always well dressed. And I sewed my own clothes. A friend came from swimming abroad and asked me to sell her my new outfits for dates with her gentlemen, and said that she couldn’t buy this abroad.

Quote: kieferandreas

4) to whom can a man give his bodily love if there is nothing in return?

In this regard, my husband and I were in complete harmony.

Quote: kieferandreas

5) and you think that all men are cables?

God forbid! I don’t think so. My husband was so loyal to me that all the women in the house were jealous of me and said that my husband needed to erect a monument in life! What is he so beautiful - more beautiful than me - and what only he found in me ?! What they don’t understand, why does he only love me so much?
My mother, at the end of her life, was seriously ill and did not go at all for the last 24 years, there was a bed patient - polyarthritis. I was her arms and legs. Every day after work, my husband helped me take care of her, carry her out of bed, so that I could change her underwear and wash her. My task was to provide him with comfort at home and a good rest. And so that there is peace and quiet in the house. The neighbors on the stairs said that their husbands would not have survived such a life because of such a sick mother-in-law and one year! Well, a maximum of -3 years!

Quote: kieferandreas

6) if so, who made them like that?

So much depends on the men themselves. You yourself also make yourself like that.

[Malyuta]

Quote: Tatiana

Tatyana

Dear Tatiana! Remember and tell other women that "The man is the accidentally surviving Boy!"
And here is how we grew and raised:

[Lexus]

Now, not all "accidentally surviving" boys become men, as well as girls, real women. Alas.

[Malyuta]

Quote: lexus

Now, not all "accidentally surviving" boys become men, as well as girls, real women. Alas.

Now, Dear Comrade, a lot of things "Alas" .....

[kjhg]

Quote: lexus

Now, not all "accidentally surviving" boys become men, as well as girls, real women. Alas.

Alas, at the present time the border between the sexes is rapidly blurring. This is manifested in everything: in education, study, behavior, clothing, communication, work, etc. It is hard not to notice that women wash her, in an effort to get more rights and advantages than men, thereby changing the essence of nature in a fatal way .. I still believe that they do this unknowingly. But they are changing the world in the direction that they do not like the most.
If this is the very path of evolution of mankind, then I personally would not want to live in such a future.

[kjhg]

Quote: Tatiana

a man should

Quote: Tatiana

Husband should

Tatyana, even after watching Kapranov’s video, you managed to write a long list that the man MUST. When did he manage to owe so much then? Moreover, almost every item is, let's say, debatable. From this I conclude that even if you looked at Kapranov, you did not understand very much inattentively and decisively nothing of what he was trying to convey to you.

[Tatyana]

Quote: kjhg

Tatyana, even after watching Kapranov’s video, you managed to write a long list that the man MUST. When did he manage to owe so much then?

Do you want to have an alliance with a woman without a duty to her ?! Then even in politics you are not an ally, but only a CONSUMER. So they will evaluate you, because you are.

Why do you understand this in political life, but not in family life - don’t you understand? I do not see any difference in the sense of responsibility.

[Tatyana]

Quote: kjhg

Tatyana, even after watching Kapranov’s video you managed to write a long list that the man MUST. When did he manage to owe so much then? Moreover, almost every item is, let's say, debatable. From here I conclude that if you even watched Kapranov, then very inattentively and decisively none of thatthat he tried to convey to you, did not understand.

And you’re also a changeling demagogue. Namely.
You got in to comment on my conversation with Malyuta and violated the principle of the sequence of our conversation with him - you changed the places in time of our comments with him back to front. At the same time, you are making a sophistic mistake in logic, so that you will "like a man" assert yourself over a woman.
For a man, this is not good and ugly for you.

Quote: Tatiana

Yesterday, 24: 49
Of course, a man should be the master in the house - not be armless, economic, provide the family financially and protect her physically. To be strong, courageous, to help my wife also come true in life. A husband must love his wife, be proud of her, be attentive to his wife and children, give them gifts. It’s interesting for the family to communicate with each other. To love children, to take care of their well-being.

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Quote: Malyuta

Today, 01: 08

Quote: Tatiana
A woman should be proud, choosing a mate in her life, and not forgive any humiliation on her part. Such women / girls men / fans remember their whole lives.

There is pride, and there is pride. I declare to you, as a man, that if in men you suddenly notice negative traits in a relationship, then it’s better.

[Pissarro]

All that you wrote here is some convenient application for a woman. In fact, what a man owes and to whom is determined solely by the man, not the woman and not society. Then and only then will there be character and responsibility.
In any society and in any historical period, a man realizes himself through the CASE, it does not matter whether he catches a mammoth, cultivates a field, builds a bridge or rocket, wages a war or leads a caravan. The higher he is professional in his field, the more satisfying is he and his family. And the woman’s task is to provide him with rest and a strong rear, to surround him with care and love.
In the east there is a parable that a man is a unit, and a woman is a zero. A unit is nonsense, a toe is nothing at all. If a man is in front, a woman is behind him, together they are a dozen. A woman crushes it under herself, does not allow to be realized, this family will be 0,1.

[Tatyana]

Quote: Pissarro

In the east there is a parable that a man is a unit, and a woman is a zero. A unit is nonsense, a toe is nothing at all.

Aha! You also say that "a woman is a man's friend"! Why, then, are you not a needle player? This is exactly how it is with them.

[Pissarro]

How is it feminine)
The reception is called Hitler's surprise)

[210ox]

Prohibit juvenile justice. Free up educational opportunities. Give rights to teachers and educators. And of course the MAIN FAMILY.

[Malyuta]

Quote: 210ox

Say juvenile justice. Free up educational opportunities. Give rights to teachers and educators. And of course the MAIN FAMILY.

And where is the adoption in society in your concept? Do you even know that in a class of 25 children grow up in full-fledged families only 20-30 percent? Can you imagine how much time a child spends outside the family and who are leaders, idols in the children's environment? Remember, the principle of "Being determines consciousness" has not been canceled and the current "being" has a decisive influence on both the family and the child. Remember that in a society without principles and moral principles and criteria, it is practically impossible to grow into a highly moral person.
It's hard to be an angel in hell!

[Proton]

I remember my dad will give the back of his head, and behold, everything is fine, I obey the next time, I just had a look

[kjhg]

Now, imagine, for this they can deprive of parental rights

[lucul]

The main thing in raising a child is love. If there is no love, the child, without parental warmth, grows indifferent., Closed, rude and cynical. And somewhere insecure

This is not true. Or do you think people from orphanages are completely negative people? Everything depends on the child - if he is spiritually weak, then he can be raised as you like, he’s just wax - what you fashion, then it will come out. Even parents - complete alcoholics have healthy, kind and strong children as individuals.
And on the topic - well at least they began to realize the importance of the problem.
On my own I will add this - the more female mentality in a man - the more successful he is in business. And vice versa - the more male mentality - the less money he will have.
Well, never an alpha male himself will become a trader, never. Only if it is not broken / lowered ....

[raw174]

Quote: lucul

Even parents - complete alcoholics have healthy, kind and strong children as individuals.

No. Well, or one in a million, you can neglect this figure ...

[Barmaleyka]

Quote: lucul

Or do you think people from orphanages are completely negative people?

if you know the statistics are horrified

According to the Prosecutor General’s Office of the Russian Federation, 40 percent of graduates of orphanages become alcoholics and drug addicts, another 40 percent commit crimes. Some of the children themselves become victims of crime, and 10 percent commit suicide. And only 10 percent succeed, having crossed the threshold of an orphanage or boarding school, to get on their feet and establish a normal life

[210ox]

But merchants are not needed to their homeland ... They will not raise production ... What am I talking about? What country have I found myself in ?! Wake me up!

[Malyuta]

Quote: lucul

On my own I will add this - the more female mentality in a man - the more successful he is in business. And vice versa - the more male mentality - the less money he will have.
Well, never an alpha male himself will become a trader, never. Only if it is not broken / lowered ....

He laughed heartily about "alpha male" this is something on the topic "I am a wild man, aytsa, tobacco, fumes and stubble .."
I recommend reading the book "Sea Wolf", which is about the core and how it is formed.

[lucul]

He laughed heartily about "alpha male" this is something on the topic "I am a wild man, aytsa, tobacco, fumes and bristles .." laughing

Aha-ahah, you even have no idea about men, some patterns)))
Here it is - the female mentality in all its glory)))

[kjhg]

Yesterday I watched this video. Kapranov tells very interestingly.

[Valery Valery]

Zakhar Prilepin "A few unimportant words at the end of the day" - there is almost everything. Read it. It really takes 20-30 minutes.

[sagitch]

Remove the prohibitions on involving children in labor processes in schools, gymnasiums, etc.
Some untouchables are growing. Do not say the words across to them. Snarling, offended ...

[Voyager]

The problem is much deeper. A scandal was recently discussed at school, when students tried to be introduced to regular cleaning as part of subbotniks. In the USSR, this was the norm, now not. Most parents had a fair question, in principle, and to whom and for what then did they pay money intended to improve the school and maintain order? Who is right, who is to blame and what to do?

Quote: sagitch

Snarling, offended ...

Well, right, the story of fathers and children is as old as the world. It only has to be multiplied by the fact that everything has become faster, more complex, more information, and children are hyperactive.

[Dart2027]

Quote: Voyager

Who is right, who is to blame and what to do?

Rather, parents are right. If the school really wants to teach something to do with their hands, then this should be done in the learning process, but here it looks like the money was simply stolen.

[alekseykabanets]

The main thing is not to forget that children do not do what we say, they do that. what are we doing.

[Hypatius]

Only a man can raise a man from a boy. Now all the media and laws are aimed at destroying a family (complete, not a child + mother). The law and the media discriminate a man like blacks in the States. Babam, however, put on a "crown" and push for divorce with alimony, matkapital and propaganda. NMP, and specifically Russian companies, do not need strong people. Therefore, we are waiting for the law on "domestic violence", when the men will be guilty on the basis of gender, without trial and proof.

[Barmaleyka]

Quote: Hypatius

Babam, put on the "crown"

is it you so now about your mother? !!!!

[Hypatius]

Is this a subtle transition to personality from the core of the issue? From the TP bingo table, moreover . But I’ll answer that I didn’t guess (a). Her age is not the same, her upbringing is different, and in a complete family.

[Barmaleyka]

this is a very fat and direct question, if you have such an attitude towards women, then alas, you do not cause respect, and only a man can disappoint you at the expense of educating you, it’s far not so, I had a classmate (during the USSR) lived in a family of 4 man mother younger sister and grandmother, disabled mother he went to his women from an early age with 14 worked with a man

[Hypatius]

Darling, where did I hear about "such an attitude"? Why do women react in such a way to questions of discrimination against men, because no one proposes to deprive women of their rights? Probably because the privileges of women will turn into the rights of women, and the queens will become a companion. And the women who live "here and now" do not care about the mortality of men, the decline in their motivation as defenders and workers, the collapse of the institution of the family and the fall in the birth rate, and generally on the future of the country. The main thing is the privileges and apartheid of white queens among black-subhuman-men.
And your classmate, most likely, became a real man, i.e. a servant of his women, a fulfillment of desires. And not a man who has his own opinion and is capable of exploits and discoveries.
PS I understand that these explanations are up to the woman, simply because of the software limitation of the brain. A depressant, for example, told me that she was a man, and then blurted out about women's rights in Syria !!! Just out of woman's solidarity, although the topic was about fertility in Russia.
PSS You can not answer, for the answers from TP bingo I know. First there was N8, then slightly reworked NN 1,4,10 and 13. We will not bring to N 25 Better watch the video with Kapranov.

[Barmaleyka]

Quote: Hypatius

Darling

be rude to another place and other people

Quote: Hypatius

And your classmate, most likely, became a real man

that is, it is a shame for you to take care of your disabled mother and younger sister, being the only man in your family, would you waste time on things that are more suitable for a "real" man ?!
all the best "real" "man", there is no point in arguing with you
ps change your profile picture

[Hypatius]

I know that it’s useless to argue, a software limitation, which I already wrote about But, your advice .. Motherland is a Symbol. Including Symbol of woman’s self-sacrifice and responsibility for the country. This is not a symbol of feminism or woman's solidarity in the struggle for privileges, nishtyaki and irresponsibility. This is also the difference between Soviet and current education and goal-setting.

[Malyuta]

Quote: Hypatius

Hypatius (Valery)

I agree. Now a man is put into the framework when he owes everything to everyone, not having time to be born.

[Sergey39]

The main thing is education in a full-fledged family. To create a full-fledged family, a full-fledged man and woman are needed, which at the moment are not among young people. Vicious circle. The way out of it is long and difficult. But you need to act.

[Hypatius]

"Stalingrad" is a good channel, I signed it myself and I recommend it to others. And let Stalingrad win Putinburkh.

[Igoresha]

Well, at least they didn’t write that you need to go to the army for this

[Livonetc]

There are no rights without Igor's responsibilities.
And this is something that must be brought to the awareness of children.
However, not this duty itself makes a man a man.
A feature of real masculinity is the ability to protect.
The peculiarity is not even physical, but volitional and spiritual.

[Scipio]

How to raise a man? Just an example! And childhood itself to teach responsibility and ability to think about the consequences !!! Without a father, a man cannot be raised; he saw a bunch of examples in the army. Father, the necessary severity and punishment in the upbringing, punished kindly get the punishment ..... If the parents do not raise their children, stupid programs and bloggers will take care of them

[Masha]

To raise a man you need a man! With a capital letter! And even the second is not given! And we have them, they were and will be!

[The leader of the Redskins]

That is, for a single mother, a son cannot become a priori a man? And Moses, Besedin fatherless grew?
This is the wrong approach. Remember how many heroes of the war were from orphanages, single-parent families!

[Masha]

And I don’t argue ... I will say this .... every kid should have a hero! Which he would be equal to, wanted and sought to be like him! And maybe surpass! Our whole life is striving to achieve something, but what ... everyone decides for himself ....

[would]

And Moses

Well, how can you do that ?! Honorary member of the United Russia party since 2003, supports GDP and DAM

And of course, one cannot help but recall Zverev - a complete family, he still served in the Soviet Army in air defense, a member of the CPSU, and so on and so forth. Only, unlike Moses, is not United Russia.

[Barmaleyka]

under the title of the article, the photo is indicative, that is, the man is not the one who took responsibility, but the one who has the strength in this and the problem

[Silhouette]

A society is brought up by a person, the environment in which the process of growing up occurs, which is now commonly called socialization. Therefore, it is not necessary that only a father is engaged in raising a man. In pre-revolutionary Russia, fathers often were absent for a long time or at all (on seasonal earnings, in wars, etc.), but men were not transferred and young women did not become feminine. Now the world is talking about female psychology, which prevails in the cinema, on television, in art, in the media. On the basis of unfounded, unproven allegations of rape, which allegedly took place many years ago, a man can be put to the fullest and dropped in the eyes of the public. Before our eyes, the man became a second-class man. Hence his role in the family and parenting declined.

[Ravil_Asnafovich]

MOTHER brought up, and the FATHER taught everything, now the grandson is growing, and I have the same principle, wants to learn how good it would be.

[Junior Private]

Quote: Hypatius

Now all the media and laws are aimed at destroying a family (complete, not a child + mother). The law and the media discriminate a man like blacks in the States. Babam, however, put on a "crown" and push for divorce with alimony, matkapital and propaganda.

The way it is. Horrific modern divorce statistics. To marry several times and have children from different fathers has become something mundane, and this is difficult to call a traditional family. I have deep doubts that under such conditions it is possible to raise a man.

[Junior Private]

Quote: Silhouette

Before our eyes, the man became a second-class man. Hence his role in the family and parenting declined.

The current feminism, the infection is worse than all distortions taken together.

[Campanella]

Some garbage. The world is engaged in the destruction of the human population, through homosexuals, through the middle race and other crap Globalists do not need peasants. Well, we are trying to integrate into this global tolerastic shit, well, what guys?

[Artavazdych]

A lot of epithets in the comments, what should be a male model for a boy.
Yes, only this is already in the background ...
To begin with, a man should just BE.
And in our country 40% of children grow up with single mothers.
And in second place in importance - the child should not be alone. At least two. Well, the more - the better for the children themselves.

[lopvlad]

Quote: Tatiana

Of course, a man should be the master in the house - not be armless, economic, provide the family financially and protect her physically. To be strong, courageous, to help my wife also come true in life.
A husband must love his wife, be proud of her, be attentive to his wife and children, give them gifts. It’s interesting for the family to communicate with each other. To love children, to take care of their well-being.
You can’t sulk at each other for a long time, you need to be able to understand each other and forgive.

you confuse household chores (be able to do everything around the house) and be really the master of the house (when in any business he has the decisive word) wipe your feet.
As a rule, men with the qualities listed by you raise other people's children, and for the most part they don’t know about this, considering them their own.

Quote: Tatiana

Wives appreciate such husbands and will not be given to any other woman.

Naturally, someone will refuse such a "vest-rug". Also, never a single normal man will leave a woman who feeds him deliciously and takes care of him, while he will sleep with his mistress and appreciate her for her skill in bed.

[nikvic46]

The general school has a great influence on both boys and girls. They absorb the traits of each other. But this is not the main problem. We have forgotten where the word "Fatherland" comes from. The mother gives the child a human attitude towards people. I mean boys. The father is everything else. If the family breaks up, then the mother takes on the role of father, and she does not always do it skillfully. Good upbringing depends on the strength of the family. As soon as the child is removed from family worries, then do not expect good. The biggest mistake when a man should be a kind of screen hero. This does not happen in life.

[Mikhail3]

And what is a "man" in the general sense? We should start with a definition if we want to find the truth, not just chat. Perhaps this is a strong, responsible, strong-willed person? Yes? Able to deal with circumstances, insist on his own, overcome? And what are its prospects?
Our time is the time of large-scale organizations. Organized society. And these organizations are immeasurably stronger than an individual! At the same time, these organized structures are NEVER guided by honor, conscience, justice and truth. We all know this very well, right?
So. Who will succeed if we add strength, will, overcoming, but are forced to remove what is being promoted by organized structures in modern conditions? It turns out, guys, depending on the strength of mind, either a thief or a thug. Sorry, but nothing else will happen, no matter how you jump.
And women who bring up the male world and our future find themselves in a difficult situation. A thief and a thug will abandon them, and most likely will sell them, as is typical of this type of personality. And how to make the child have at least some future? The inevitable becomes. Moral and volitional qualities are weakening so that the young man harmoniously merges into the very structures that have captured the world at the grassroots level. Submissive performers, who have no moral principles, are required to fulfill the will of the leadership. It's all.
In general, everything, our world in its present form is doomed, guys ...

[Sklendarka]

Quote: rait

And Moses

Well, how can you do that ?! Honorary member of the United Russia party since 2003, supports GDP and DAM

And of course, one cannot help but recall Zverev - a complete family, he still served in the Soviet Army in air defense, a member of the CPSU, and so on and so forth. Only, unlike Moses, is not United Russia.

But interesting pubic shave they overall shave ???

[Alexandr_F]

The child found it hard, since he cringed all over when dad came to his dormitory)
Everything seems to be the case, but the phrases are mostly general, there is a lot of negativity and the man is represented by the victim of a woman.
Tough man, difficult childhood, authoritarian upbringing.
However, the fact that a man is not a body, but one who is able to make a choice, breaks out of the general atmosphere of the conversation and sounds very convincing.